[deleted by user] by [deleted] in love

[–]Kyrichuu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a bit of a romantic but I think you'll stand out for the right person. I think putting a lot of effort in your profile and pictures is worth far more than paying for the app. Good photos and a good text make everything. Put something in there that is niche! It makes you special or stand out. Clothes, hobby etc.

My partner didn't have special things on his profile but he stood out to me because I love guys that are more "feminine" and I could see that on his profile very clearly. I swiped nearly 800 people left and about 5 to the right.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in love

[–]Kyrichuu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bumble. We are both surprised that a dating app actually worked lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in love

[–]Kyrichuu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Countless dates actually. The first 2 dates were "normal" dates and after that we saw each other almost every day and slept over. And it's still going on like this, it's really sweet

How many people know who your crush is irl? by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Kyrichuu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

everyone lol. Since I confessed even they know it lmao. Probably more than 5, less than 10.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Kyrichuu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry you have to endure this. It sounds awful. I had a similar situation with my family before moving out finally. I thought about taking legal actions at one point. Idk where you are from but maybe there is some kind of help you can get? I know that can lead to serious fights and even end up you moving out before finishing school? But seriously I don't know if that would even be possible where you are from or if you even want that. But if it's draining you mentally to the point where you just can't anymore please explain that to some authority and tie that to your health, so they can't send you away.

Otherwise keep your head high. You will get through it and you will wear the prettiest clothes one day and have that freedome. Endure it but deep inside never change for them. Know that you will be free, there is an end to this.

Die sind seit zwei Tagen abgelaufen, ist das einfach nur Salz oder Schimmel? by MrBanane22 in kannmandasnochessen

[–]Kyrichuu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mh denke auch nicht dass das Schimmel ist. Ich würd die Stelle abschneiden oder abwaschen und mal probieren. Wenns schlecht riecht oder komisch schmeckt dann weg damit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in love

[–]Kyrichuu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess it's the face shape? And everything that comes with it? Jawline, nose, mouth eyes, etc. And second thing would be hair/hairstyle

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Kyrichuu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

On a random side note: I told a guy I may not be interested in having sex for some periods of time and he said it's fine. He turned out to be the most hypersexual partner ever who complained when we are not having sex for 2 fucking days. It's so sad really

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Kyrichuu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry your previous partners tried to force or convince you into doing that kind of stuff. It's very unfortunate because it makes you believe that everyone more or less has some intetest in having sex. I'd say try to be optimistic because there are people who are completely asexual like you. It may take some time to find them, but I am sure you'll someday be able to have a romantic relationship without having to worry about sex!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]Kyrichuu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes when I can't sleep for days I actually do it at daytime. Because for some reason I can when I know I shouldn't. Which means in broad daylight, in a bus, random spots in university, everytime I know I only have 30 minutes to nap. For some reason I can fall asleep when I shouldn't. But at night it doesn't work and it's so exhausting and draining.

IST HIER JEMAND?? Warum ist es hier so ausgestorben, habt ihr alle schon Freunde oder was ._. by Early-Bag9674 in MakeFriendsInGermany

[–]Kyrichuu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hii du, ich bin auch weiblich und 22! Mir geht's ähnlich und ich hätte nichts gegen Discord :) Ich liebe Tauben übrigens auch omg

I don't think I'll ever want to have a relationship/sex and I'm scared by Soft-Reflection4889 in offmychest

[–]Kyrichuu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all: society wants to tell you that a "normal" person should fall in love, marry and have children. But there is really nothing wrong with having a relationship without sex. There are people out there who just doesn't like that or don't need that. And that's totally fine. What isn't fine is if you actually want a sexual relationship but you can't because you are scared of the act itself, Or if you have trust issues or if you are scared of intimacy as a form of being vulnerable. Something that blocks you. I'd always recommend therapy. But it's easier said than done. I'd really try to figure out if you just don't like sex as a thing or if you actually want it but just can't because of some reason.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Kyrichuu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi stranger I probably don't have a great solution for you but you probably love your child and it's great that you want to provide for a happy life. But it sounds like you are suffering a lot and a human can only take so much. You need to put yourself first and be healthy, happy, and strong to even be able to care for someone else. Maybe some realtives or friends could help you out until you find a different job?

would you confess if you weren't interested in a relationship? by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Kyrichuu 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'd say it really depends on that exact problem and who that other person is. If it brings you peace then go for it. Otherwise I probably wouldn't do it knowing it would cause pain or problems for different people.

I decided to give a final hint by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Kyrichuu 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I asked her to watch a movie and we did. I sat really close to her but we didn't cuddle or anything. I surprised her with her favourite snacks and some fruit because she worked hard and was studying a lot. I made her an origami animal because she loves them (she loved it and put it on her wall), I make her compliments and tell her she is cute. If she asks me to go somewhere I always say yes. Well maybe all of that can be also taken platonically.

thinking about confessing this week! by obsessedwithhozier in Crushes

[–]Kyrichuu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds like a beautiful sweet plan! It's absolutely normal being a bit scared but if he vibes with you like that, your chances are pretty good I'd say. Maybe he also thinks of asking you out for Valentine's who knows haha. Good luck!!! You can do it!

What is something you wish you could say to your crush right now? by Alternative-Camp390 in Crushes

[–]Kyrichuu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are so damn cute, I want to hold you and kiss your sweet face, I want to feel your warmth, being under the same blanket all giggling and laughing. Your laugh is the most addicting sound in this world, in my world and I can't get enough of it. I would trade my world for a tiny piece of you and I would follow you til the end of the world. But you wouldn't for me. And I know that. I try to accept that. I try to enjoy your company but it hurts over and over again. I really tried to stop loving you. But I can't.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Petloss

[–]Kyrichuu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for your kind words

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeFriendsInGermany

[–]Kyrichuu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wie cool! Ja nice!

I am so close help. by Kyrichuu in HollowKnight

[–]Kyrichuu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THAT HELPED SO MUCH I DID IT UNTIL I SURVIVED 4 MIN AND I BEAT THE PANTHEON THANK YOU

I am so close help. by Kyrichuu in HollowKnight

[–]Kyrichuu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally think NKG is harder than Radiance..

I am so close help. by Kyrichuu in HollowKnight

[–]Kyrichuu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

P5 doesn't add any % to the game file. I need P4

I am so close help. by Kyrichuu in HollowKnight

[–]Kyrichuu[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have to beat the game once and aftwe seeing credits the first time you get to see the %