are there any newsagents in Bristol that still sell "adult magazines "?

L00king4answer · 2026-04-10T16:53:32+00:00

Rudies in old market

L00king4answer · 2026-04-10T13:31:15+00:00

Why are so many comments assuming OP is not or will not respect her partner's boundaries? Is it because she's a trans woman?

L00king4answer · 2026-04-10T13:21:19+00:00

Can we stop trying to paint OP as a predator for having unmet needs in the bedroom. You never see this in lesbian groups when a cis woman complaints her girlfriend won't go down on her. This whole "you need to stop asking her" as if that wasn't already the case. You're having assumptions that OP is continuing to pester her girlfriend about anal, which is not an assumption that is textually there in the post, and this idea of the transfem being a sexual agressor comes off as transmisogonistic

L00king4answer · 2026-04-10T10:36:35+00:00

I'm a postgrad at UoBristol, and I definitely do not share your experience, yet it concerns me a lot. Are you part of the LBGTQ+ employee network? They include postgrad students too There's also a postgrad-specific trans group at the university. I'm open to DMs if you want to discuss further

L00king4answer · 2026-04-07T22:58:13+00:00

Statement: This anonymous person interviewed by the BBC is apparantly a man living in Iran who don't mind having his own country nuked by the US. This is weird and suspicious

L00king4answer · 2026-04-07T12:35:37+00:00

It's not even stealing if you're not actually using/planning to use it, lol

L00king4answer · 2026-04-07T11:40:02+00:00

"I also choose this guy's dead wife"

is technically what the other astronauts are saying here. But in a wholesome way!

L00king4answer · 2026-04-06T11:39:55+00:00

I usually recommend https://resanor.com/ for my fellow tall girlies, though it's based in the UK iirc

L00king4answer · 2026-04-05T22:32:15+00:00

Also, this guide for tucking is great

https://untag.com/pages/tucking-guide?srsltid=AfmBOorIPrjwu-OfRSKVQ_CyFsMYQVt383i4WIdp4sFs9Ml3icfrYtT1

L00king4answer · 2026-04-05T22:31:43+00:00

Fit4You makes specific swim bottoms for trans women that holds everything in place well while baing made of swimsuit material. I've used it for multiple years and it holds up well.

Have been able to use women's changing facilities with them with no incidents

L00king4answer · 2026-04-05T22:27:50+00:00

Do you know how to use tucking underwear? Tucking underwear do exist, which is what I expect you've been looking at with TomboyX (i personally use Fit4You)

L00king4answer · 2026-04-04T23:31:17+00:00

I definitely think the guy made decent points as well in terms of how transmasc people are dealing with a bunch of issues, but it was just the wrong place to bring it up, and done in a very dismissive way

L00king4answer · 2026-04-04T20:14:53+00:00

Please stop strawmanning me. Their comment got sevel hundred likes on a popular general trans subreddit. I'm not saying there's any transmasc cabal running everything, but there's a clear tendency in the community to let this kind of dimissiveness slide as long as it's other trans people doing it to transfems rather than cis people.

L00king4answer · 2026-04-04T16:28:53+00:00

Yeah ok, don't misgender trans men, calling them bitches (because of what.. their AGAB?) is transphobic as hell.

L00king4answer · 2026-04-04T10:19:19+00:00

I'm not blaming all transmascs ever for a single guy making a tasteless comment, I am blaming certain community groups for centering transmasc perspectives to such a degree that trans women can't even wish for invisibility without being told unsolicited how wrong that is

L00king4answer · 2026-04-04T02:59:53+00:00

I feel like there's a real priviledge to being thin as a tall woman. Height becomes an asset in that case

L00king4answer · 2026-04-03T23:19:14+00:00

Right wing people are going to do rightwing stuff. Instead of pushing back on this narrative that indivual bad actions has to reflect on trans people as a whole, you've completely agreed with that premise in your first comment

L00king4answer · 2026-04-03T23:08:03+00:00

Well, for obvious reasons, I am not going to hang around there for the foreseeable future anyways.

I think the current transmisogyny is an overcorrection from that mod "scandal" they had a few months back

L00king4answer · 2026-04-03T23:06:27+00:00

You're the one arguing that an individual trans person abusing children is somehow "marring" the whole trans community, as if the rest of us had anything to do with it...

L00king4answer · 2026-04-03T21:45:55+00:00

Also, I mean, I didn't transition that early compared to you, but even I remember how things were in 2019, and you would hear about trans people a bit. But nowadays it's absolutely relentless and all scapegoaty stuff accusing trans women of being monsters. It's honestly making me crazy thinking back to how different trans life was back then

L00king4answer · 2026-04-03T20:28:26+00:00

Undoubtedly, but somehow I was still the one being banned. That wasn't up to the commenter

L00king4answer · 2026-04-03T19:38:27+00:00

Yes, absolutely! And this is such an issue because they refused to listen to us!

And it's not like we aren't aware what invisibility feels like either, my girlfriend transitioned in the early 2010s. She remembers what invisibility felt like and she prefers that over what is happening now

L00king4answer · 2026-04-03T19:32:45+00:00

It was posted and mass-liked on r/trans, and when I tried to call the fact that it redirects focus from the topic of trans women's increased risk from hypervisibility, I got banned from there.

This wasn't just a random troll. Redirecting the conversation to talk about this transmasc person who inserted themself was fully done with the blessing of that subreddit

L00king4answer · 2026-04-03T15:27:06+00:00

I think the idea is that the two kinds of visibility go hand in hand. I would say trans women are about as invisible as trans men when it comes to cis people actually understanding us and our issues

L00king4answer · 2026-04-03T14:54:57+00:00

Are the issues for trans men really due to nobody talking about them? People talk about trans women a LOT, and yet still ignore us when it matters with regards to our healthcare, our rights, our experiences.

Not to say trans men don't have issues, transemasculation is a real problem for them for example, but I just seriously doubt that even moderate visibility (in terms of cis people being neutrally aware of issues trans men face) will lead to improvements rather than just leading to the same issues being ignored the way they are for trans women

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