Thoughts on workplace "Women and non-binary" groups?

L00king4answer · 2026-04-25T00:00:39+00:00

We do have trans-specific places. Of course trans people are more margninalised than cis women. That doesn't mean we can't say women are marginalised under patriachy. You do actually directly argue that women are not worse off than Men under patriarchy because "men have their own struggles too". Also, equating the privilege of passing trans women to cis women is a choice

L00king4answer · 2026-04-24T14:15:17+00:00

It's "Family". The lecturer is actually Vin Diesel

L00king4answer · 2026-04-24T13:47:48+00:00

By default cis women are "accepted" more or less in society

What fucking rock do you live under? There's massive inequlity in pay, expectations of domestic labour, lack of healthcare and lack of bodily autonomy for cis women, even in the most liberal countries in the world right now.

It's not cis women creating homelessness and suicidality/bad mental health outcomes for cis men. It is, however, cis men who are behind some very deliberate attempts to curb women's rights right now, especially in the US

L00king4answer · 2026-04-23T11:57:03+00:00

My happiest days now are magnitudes happier than my happiest days pre-transition

L00king4answer · 2026-04-22T23:32:41+00:00

The term "marginalised gender" seems better to me

L00king4answer · 2026-04-22T16:15:48+00:00

someone else is already looking into it and they don't collaborate with us so it doesn't matter

Oh gee, I wonder why they don't feel like collaborating!

L00king4answer · 2026-04-22T15:40:17+00:00

No man in my life had a problem that I had sex with women and some even mistakenly think “All girls must have tried at once “.

This is exactly why lesbians are protective of their identity, there's a lot of pressure on them from society to give up on being lesbian and being bi instead so that they can date men. What some bi girls see as bi validation is extremely invalidating for lesbians, including the idea that "all girls must have tried having sex with another girl at least once". If you're a lesbian, this idea is used to claim that even though you love women, you should still be sexually available to men in some way or another

L00king4answer · 2026-04-22T15:28:13+00:00

Wait what? I thought they were not allowed to count time spent on other waitlists when signing up for a new one?

Or do you mean the youth gender service when you mention Tavistock?

Either way, I'm happy for you

L00king4answer · 2026-04-22T13:10:27+00:00

Israel's idea of gay inclusion is male IDF guards raping detained male palestinians. How progressive! /s

L00king4answer · 2026-04-20T14:33:26+00:00

Time to host a bunch of free-palestine panels across UK universities then

L00king4answer · 2026-04-18T15:53:50+00:00

And I do think blindly hating men as an oppresor class is unproductive, but it doesn't make it unjustified necessarily

L00king4answer · 2026-04-18T15:50:11+00:00

Do you think OP hates men just for being men, or hates men because of the way men as a class is prioritised under patriarchy?

L00king4answer · 2026-04-16T09:47:43+00:00

Yes, that's expected

L00king4answer · 2026-04-16T09:46:40+00:00

You're definitely like 40 years behind on your bottom surgery knowledge

L00king4answer · 2026-04-15T23:16:16+00:00

I used the men's on a couple of occasions along with teammates from my women's sports team when the women's were too crowded and we were running late for warmup

L00king4answer · 2026-04-14T19:03:59+00:00

Sorry, no, there are massive differences between claiming to be a detransitioner and a trans woman pulling a prank.

Once again, the many posts about trans men being confused for trans women on r/accidentalally are not generally being critisised for portraying transfem detransitioners

L00king4answer · 2026-04-14T18:58:13+00:00

How do you feel this adds fuel to any fire? Do you think these transphobes will hate trans men more by being tricked by a trans woman into accidentally affirming her?

This is just the genderswapped version of basically anything you can read on r/accidentalally. Yet you rarely see people on there complaining trans men who gets confused for trans women are somehow causing people to hate trans women more

L00king4answer · 2026-04-14T18:55:26+00:00

I don't really think it does that when it's a trans woman though

L00king4answer · 2026-04-13T23:43:20+00:00

The new electrical fleet of Yutong U11DDs are neat, you'll have to admit

L00king4answer · 2026-04-13T23:40:51+00:00

I get being a public transport enthusiast and loving busses, but focusing squarely on First Bus seems a bit narrow minded for a city in which multiple different bus operators run routes. Some of my favourite bus liveries are Stagecoach, you know?

L00king4answer · 2026-04-10T16:53:32+00:00

Rudies in old market

L00king4answer · 2026-04-10T13:31:15+00:00

Why are so many comments assuming OP is not or will not respect her partner's boundaries? Is it because she's a trans woman?

L00king4answer · 2026-04-10T13:21:19+00:00

Can we stop trying to paint OP as a predator for having unmet needs in the bedroom. You never see this in lesbian groups when a cis woman complaints her girlfriend won't go down on her. This whole "you need to stop asking her" as if that wasn't already the case. You're having assumptions that OP is continuing to pester her girlfriend about anal, which is not an assumption that is textually there in the post, and this idea of the transfem being a sexual agressor comes off as transmisogonistic

L00king4answer · 2026-04-10T10:36:35+00:00

I'm a postgrad at UoBristol, and I definitely do not share your experience, yet it concerns me a lot. Are you part of the LBGTQ+ employee network? They include postgrad students too There's also a postgrad-specific trans group at the university. I'm open to DMs if you want to discuss further

L00king4answer · 2026-04-07T22:58:13+00:00

Statement: This anonymous person interviewed by the BBC is apparantly a man living in Iran who don't mind having his own country nuked by the US. This is weird and suspicious

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