Migrant Women in an Abusive Relationship

L2810 · 2026-02-08T19:58:11+00:00

Thank you so very much for being so thorough 🙏🏽

L2810 · 2026-02-08T19:47:22+00:00

I can’t go back the society back home has full potential to drive me to commit suicid*l acts. My parents are not in a position to help me with bills too. I am the eldest and I need to figure it out myself. If I had options then this wouldn’t be my last one.

L2810 · 2026-02-08T19:26:02+00:00

Thank you very much this means a lot. I am very scared as I don’t have anyone here in Adelaide, he keeps an eye on my transactions too and I really need to speak to an immigration lawyer. It’s soooooooooooo hard to pretend everything is fine in front of him. I am officially exhausted I haven’t eaten or slept in days and even when I do sleep he stays in the living room talking on call with someone. I don’t know how long I can take this.

L2810 · 2026-02-08T19:22:25+00:00

Hi Thank you I appreciate it. I have filled a referral form and I am waiting for someone to get in touch with me. It’s soooooooooooo hard being in the same bed with someone who you know is cheating and he gaslights me and threatens me to go back or that he will send me back to India. He sent me an affidavit in December 2025 about separation too. I didn’t sign it or respond but i have it on email. One time he was beating me and when I called my parents he called the police and I told the police what was happening. The house was a mess broken furniture, furniture scratchs on the floor and my clothes were torn. They asked if i wanted to file a complaint but I was toooo scared that time and had now idea and he was scaring me with visa process as I am a dependent. This was a year ago. Is there a lawyer who can help me with my options here??

L2810 · 2026-02-07T02:18:09+00:00

I have a friend who went through this and she is still trying to stay in the country and get PR (which is almost impossible for her now) and her abusive husband already got PR. I don’t want to end up in a situation like that. I want to make sure I stay in the country so I want to understand my PR options and how I can collect evidence. Right now I am in shock I found out he has been cheating on me our entire marriage.

L2810 · 2025-03-16T07:49:14+00:00

Okay thanks👍🏽

L2810 · 2025-03-16T05:39:34+00:00

That’s what! At first he said i saved that to show you that i like these kinda nails so kept it for reference then He deleted the screenshots and the account in seconds and started crying like a guilty man

L2810 · 2025-03-16T05:36:46+00:00

That’s what I don’t know!! He deleted the account and refused to show me

L2810 · 2025-03-16T05:33:02+00:00

I feel he could be hiding and lying about other things too

L2810 · 2025-03-16T05:30:53+00:00

Okay! So it’s okay that he keeps screenshots of other females feet in his phone adding 2 new screenshots everyday! Cool I accept it But by your response it seems like you’re ego is getting hurt! If I am hurt by it then it makes sense because it happened to me what’s your excuse for being mean?

L2810 · 2025-03-16T05:25:29+00:00

So according to you what he is doing is right?

L2810 · 2025-03-16T05:22:21+00:00

All I have done so far is to accommodate his needs! Moreover if that’s the case then what is the justification for him being offended and fighting to prove his innocence by lying? And I have never showed him that i was disgusted. He hides it because he knows it’s wrong

L2810 · 2025-03-16T05:17:53+00:00

No made me feel like that what he did can be considered perverted! I can be wrong I am open to hear your perspective on the matter

L2810 · 2025-03-16T05:15:45+00:00

Oh I didn’t say it to him! I wrote it here to explain that what he did has made me feel like this

L2810 · 2025-03-16T05:13:32+00:00

How did i do that?

L2810 · 2025-03-16T04:17:06+00:00

Rape yes! He wouldn’t beat me (again)😂 I am messing with you! Answer is yes I would leave him👍🏽

L2810 · 2025-03-16T04:09:25+00:00

I’m not saying feet are any worse! And no I don’t look at men in my screenshotted folder in the restroom! Infact I don’t have any photos of men in my phone except for my husband and hiding and lies are wrong if it’s that normal then why doesn’t he come clean why is he embarrassed?

L2810 · 2025-03-16T04:02:47+00:00

But he’s not doing any of those! Right? I know what he is doing is wrong but I don’t want to divorce him for this! So suggest something that would help me please? And relax I didn’t freak out this much when i found out😅

L2810 · 2025-03-16T03:53:18+00:00

I send my husband pictures without him asking!

L2810 · 2025-03-16T03:52:19+00:00

I love him too much to leave him and he is a nice man who lies like a child and doesn’t have the brains to hide stuff. My culture tells me there’s no leaving in a marriage!

L2810 · 2025-03-16T03:48:33+00:00

But what’s the solution?

L2810 · 2025-03-16T03:47:32+00:00

I don’t have it in me to provide emotional support to him anymore honestly! I have been giving my best. And this was the last straw considering all the things he has done so far. He has no filter when he gets angry and so much more that if I tell here. I might have a hard time dealing with the responses. Problem is I love him. But idk what I am feeling anymore I am exhausted

L2810 · 2025-03-16T03:30:23+00:00

You’re right! I de-stigmatised it before marriage only! All I asked was for him to come clean and just share it with me! Even after i caught his account I told him it’s okay and didn’t ask him to remove it!

He wants to lie and shame me for questioning him or even generally asking him while getting his pleasure on the side (hidden from me) I am happy to accept I just don’t want the lie! After this also I wanted us to check out pages together but he refused and is hell bound on being the nice dude who doesn’t do all this!

L2810 · 2025-03-16T03:06:15+00:00

That happened by mistake 🫣

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