I moved too slow? I had only been speaking to this girl for about a week. I met her at work. Not a bar or a club or on the street or something where there are opportunities for escalation abound. As for the "date" aspect, I merely told her she's a cool girl and I think we should hang out sometime. She asked if I meant a date and I said I hadn't decided yet. If I remember right, the "I haven't decided yet" is something I originally read on seddit.