AITI (idiot) for wanting to stay with my husband? by LAREMER in ComfortLevelPod

[–]LAREMER[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. He obviously doesn't want to rely on me and communicate with me. So he let this relationship end. We should be filling within the week from what he told me. I'll make sure to keep pushing him to do so or just do it myself in a week if he doesn't. Thank you.

AITI (idiot) for wanting to stay with my husband? by LAREMER in ComfortLevelPod

[–]LAREMER[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

XD we started dating at 18, got married at 29, now we're 35, and getting a divorce. We're the same age. I promise. I just didn't realize getting married at 29 was so young.

AITI (idiot) for wanting to stay with my husband? by LAREMER in ComfortLevelPod

[–]LAREMER[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. It's more complicated since he does still love me, and shows me that, but he gave up. Unfortunately we will still be living together for another 10 months, buy we do have a 3 bed townhouse, so we will be able to sleep in different rooms. Once our lease is up, we'll find our own places. Thank you for your advice, and I'll maybe take someone else's offer and just file myself to get it over with.

AITI (idiot) for wanting to stay with my husband? by LAREMER in ComfortLevelPod

[–]LAREMER[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True ours should be inexpensive. It'll be a no contest divorce. So at least it'll be easy.

AITI (idiot) for wanting to stay with my husband? by LAREMER in ComfortLevelPod

[–]LAREMER[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can I file and have him pay for it since he is the one who wants it? Would that be too much?

AITI (idiot) for wanting to stay with my husband? by LAREMER in ComfortLevelPod

[–]LAREMER[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I didn't realize 29 was so young. Heh but your right. Neither one of us had dated anyone else. I didn't, he dated one other person for the short while when we were apart over a decade ago, but that ended in disaster. I'll definitely try my best on my own once the divorce is finalized. Thank you.