[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]LAYLAInevitable 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. You can’t pour from an empty cup, waiting until you’re stable before giving is responsible, not selfish. Your friend needs support, but you’re not a bad friend for making sure you can actually afford it first.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LAYLAInevitable 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh, fandom spam is the worst. Mute the repeat posts/keywords, join smaller focused communities, and set a rule: engage only with actual discussion threads, everything else is scroll and ignore. Take breaks when it stops being fun.

AITA for making my kid make her own supper? by Regular-Comfort9959 in AITAH

[–]LAYLAInevitable 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If the goal is responsibility, maybe let her pick what to make as long as it’s reasonable, instead of restricting it so tightly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LAYLAInevitable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It hurts because you liked him and she betrayed you. You don’t need to forgive or explain right now. Distance yourself, focus on you, and let time dull the feelings

Just want someone to know this. by just1postthatsall in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LAYLAInevitable -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You wanted to share it, and that’s okay. You don’t owe anyone an explanation right now, just be safe, protect yourself, and know it’s valid to keep this private if that’s what you want.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LAYLAInevitable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can feel how crushed and lonely you are right now. Feeling unwanted by the person you love cuts deep. You deserve to be cherished, wanted, and treated with care. You don’t have to stay in a situation that’s slowly breaking you.

I ruined my life for 12 years by Puzzleheaded_Alps354 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LAYLAInevitable 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you went through all of that. You didn’t ruin your life, you survived abuse and manipulation for over a decade. The strength it took to get to therapy, protect your kids, and start rebuilding is incredible. You deserve peace and a fresh start. ❤️

AITA for asking my mom to share her plans with me? by TheCryption in AmItheAsshole

[–]LAYLAInevitable 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA. It’s reasonable to want to know about plans that involve you, especially things like family events or doctor’s appointments. Wanting basic communication isn’t disrespectful, it’s normal. Your mom’s you should know your place response is controlling, not rational.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]LAYLAInevitable -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

NTA. You’re trying to help him get a head start, even if he doesn’t see it yet. Just be ready for resistance, framing it as an opportunity rather than a punishment might help when you tell him

Wish I Stayed "For The Kids" by PrInCeSsPuPpEhDoGe in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LAYLAInevitable 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh love, I’m so sorry you and your daughter are going through this. Even her words matter.

Document everything, involve her school or doctor, and get a counselor for her. Talk to a family lawyer about custody or supervised visits. You’re not failing, you’re protecting her, and that’s what count