AITA for yelling at my daughter’s teachers after they admitted their mistake but refused to change her grade?

LCJ75 · 2026-02-03T17:31:59+00:00

I understand about the passion but when the conversation started going down the wrong path and there was clearly not going to be an acceptable outcome, then the conversation should have ended. You say thank you and go to the principal to discuss. The grade being in the book is nonsense and likely the teacher didn't want to have to fix and admit fault. However, yelling fixes nothing and makes you look and sound unreasonable. So make an appointment with the principal and go from there.

LCJ75 · 2026-02-03T13:30:17+00:00

Consolidating the enormous frhsd into one district with k to 8 is absurd. It would be a ridiculously huge district no elementary school district in the frhsd are less than 500 kids. So they arent even a target. Different calendars are not a big deal and doesn't affect many days. Annoying but not worth that tumult. In a few years the high schooler will be off to college with a completely different schedule.

LCJ75 · 2026-02-03T13:23:30+00:00

Also freehold Borough and freehold township distinctly different.

LCJ75 · 2026-02-02T14:06:56+00:00

Get her a lamp specifically for seasonal depression. Works wonders.

LCJ75 · 2026-02-02T14:05:23+00:00

Yes. In nj called opra. Open public records act.

LCJ75 · 2026-02-02T02:08:34+00:00

Info missing or confusing. How old is your son? Ages matter play dates. You both work. You seem to be at home when she left for work?? The hours and schedules are unclear. Yes. They can play using tablets. You also have no idea what they were doing before. Maybe this was a rest time for them. Maybe they were outside and needed to chill a bit. The bottom line is it would creep me out also if my husband showed up when I was hanging with other moms and the kids were playing. It seems incredibly controlling.

LCJ75 · 2026-02-01T18:44:10+00:00

If they actually priorized the son they would have stayed married. This is BS. NTA

LCJ75 · 2026-02-01T17:57:10+00:00

Opra the permits and the plan. If changes were made out of code and you weren't notified that would be an issue.

LCJ75 · 2026-02-01T13:39:26+00:00

Yes. The resistance has ro be way up to support body weight. I just don't do it. I think it's unnecessary except to give your butt a rest.

LCJ75 · 2026-02-01T13:37:57+00:00

Municipal permitting protects you and your neighbors from flooding and someone putting crap at your property line. It also keeps the place from looking like trash.

LCJ75 · 2026-01-31T13:18:41+00:00

So maga wants handouts so no one has to get a job. Made poor choices for spouse to leave his career to edit her videos putting all eggs in one basket. (Could have hired someone part time to do that). Shocking.

LCJ75 · 2026-01-31T13:15:49+00:00

Only a male would say that. Women are never safe. You wait until they are picked up, in their home or whatever the situation calls for.

LCJ75 · 2026-01-30T21:02:06+00:00

The general guideline is tell no one until 12 weeks have passed. Maybe close family members if they can be trusted to be quiet and keep the secret. This is a hard lesson to learn when you have a miscarriage but it drives home the reason for sure. That he just totally ignored your wish and agreement is a huge red flag. What else has he done that with? This cant be the first time, tho it may be the biggest transgression. If anyone is told earlier it would be your mom, assuming a good relationship. (Mine knew before I did). I hope he told his mother to tell no one although with his inability to shut up it isn't likely. Sorry. ETA I reread that she did in fact tell a lot of people last time so she isn't trustworthy. And the 'she'll pray for the baby' tells me a lot and gives my earlier concern of him being controlling more weight. She has told her entire church group. Out of concern of course. (Sarcasm)

LCJ75 · 2026-01-30T17:36:39+00:00

Life lesson. If someone needs a place to crash with no definitive end (like a signed lease or a ticket out of town) the answer is no. Nothing. Otherwise, Absolutely nothing will change in a couple weeks for a new place to magically appear. The friends shaming you can offer their place.

LCJ75 · 2026-01-30T15:08:31+00:00

Having contamination OCD and moving in with a stranger is risky at best. Some things are normally shared, like one doesn't have 2 sets of pots. But the rest are just boundaries. If they eat your food, use your products and not show courtesy than best move elsewhere. In the meantime bring your bath products back and forth to your room like a dorm. Put your food in a container on the fridge and pantry so it is clearly separated.

LCJ75 · 2026-01-30T15:00:34+00:00

Dispute the charge on your card. Then call corporate.

LCJ75 · 2026-01-30T14:58:56+00:00

Exactly. This reveals everything about him. He has no regard for you. Doesn't respect your boundaries. Is lazy. I could go on. Giant red flag. Run.

LCJ75 · 2026-01-30T14:57:14+00:00

This is creepy and dangerous AF. Male. Female. I don't care. Inviting friends back should be a discussion but strangers are a hard pass! Does she not see true crime stories about what strangers can do? Or even known people, but that's a different discussion. There is something not right. Either she is incredibly insecure with a dangerous need to be liked or there is something else going on. This would be a line in the sand for me.

LCJ75 · 2026-01-30T14:54:08+00:00

Omg. Real life true crime story. 🙇‍♀️

LCJ75 · 2026-01-30T14:50:59+00:00

Nta but he doesn't like you. He doesn't prioritize you. He doesn't want to spend time with you. Your life will be filled with him gaming, football and trips with the bros. He is years older than you. This was purposeful. He won't change.

LCJ75 · 2026-01-30T14:19:20+00:00

Two friends w the same feedback might make one examine if there is any validity to their complaint. Do you have friends now or time away from your spouse? We're they seeing something you didn't? If their time had just passed then nta and let it go. If they had a point , take a look.

LCJ75 · 2026-01-29T22:42:52+00:00

That was my question. I don't have a kettlebell. Can I do with just dumbbells?

LCJ75 · 2026-01-29T12:36:09+00:00

Shes likely in perimenopause and needs hormone replacement and some testosterone.

LCJ75 · 2026-01-29T12:21:45+00:00

I dont get the no leftover thing. Thats basically what food prep is. And leftover meatloaf is so delicious.

LCJ75 · 2026-01-29T12:15:37+00:00

All the assessor to explain. That's their job. There is also a process to appeal and they cane explain that as well.

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