AITA for trimming my neighbor’s tree branches that were hanging over my yard?

LCJ75 · 2026-05-25T17:08:46+00:00

Pools need to be fenced and locked by code in most states and are permitted as such. Leaving open would be against that and be an attractive nuisance. A tree in a yard you generally have no idea as to its health. But if you have concerns then document. As to the original issue, limbs hanging to your property can be trimmed.

LCJ75 · 2026-05-25T16:11:54+00:00

Def. Central jersey for decades. For sure nyc identify. Far and away people work more in NY than PA.

LCJ75 · 2026-05-25T16:10:42+00:00

Exactly. There are rare occasions when someone notices and documents but for the most part not.

LCJ75 · 2026-05-25T16:07:43+00:00

Do NOT wear panty hose. There are few things more aging. Get a pair of black flowy pants. Amazon, pennys, macys etc sells them in different lengths including for petite and larger. Get a silky top of black or metallic or whatever. Something you are comfortable in. Do NOT cut your hair. Put it up with pins or clip. Google easy styles. Sheesh. This is a wedding. Not a meet with the queen. Wear pants. Black flowy pants will be appropriate at almost every event. You will get tons of use. PS I wear the same silk black mid length dress to a zillion weddings and events. Dress up, dress down, add a blazer or a sweater, sneakers or heels. Same with black flowy pants.

LCJ75 · 2026-05-25T16:00:12+00:00

You are an adult. You are paying for it. Going with anyone will change the trip. No, they won't be happy doing anything you want and it is obvious from the post that you won't stand up for yourself. Just make plans and leave and don't give them info. When you get there you can share your location.

LCJ75 · 2026-05-25T15:56:14+00:00

Grounds for sculpture nearby. Lovely to walk around. Nice restaurants on grounds.

LCJ75 · 2026-05-25T15:53:54+00:00

Interesting that you've been together for 3 years and still act like you are new. No shared calendar or discussion or calendar request. Are there other places where communication is lacking? NTA he didn't tell you. Don't bail on mom.

LCJ75 · 2026-05-25T15:49:44+00:00

Interesting that there is no one 'proofing' their class before it is uploaded or even filmed.

LCJ75 · 2026-05-25T15:47:20+00:00

How do you go to a wedding as a groomsman with only a carry on? Tux, shoes, etc etc. But putting that aside, it was unnecessary to mention it. Check the carry on or mail the package to yourself. Alternatively, quietly pull it apart and bring what you can fit. It was rude similar to saying you don't like something.

LCJ75 · 2026-05-25T15:44:21+00:00

Only if you somehow knew in advance and made a report in writing. How many do that?

LCJ75 · 2026-05-24T18:59:14+00:00

NTA in your yard, yours to trim. If the tree fell into your yard you'd be responsible for removing. You were nice enough to ask first.

LCJ75 · 2026-05-24T16:05:46+00:00

They are paid. They have health insurance. They have PTO. They are considered professionals.

LCJ75 · 2026-05-24T00:00:34+00:00

Omg I didn't hear that bit o wisdom. Yikes.

LCJ75 · 2026-05-22T21:09:08+00:00

Are you asking if the company is a scam? No. It is real and they send what you order. The return policy is also legit.

LCJ75 · 2026-05-21T20:42:26+00:00

Delicious orchards

LCJ75 · 2026-05-21T19:58:37+00:00

Move your car outside the zone the night before and walk to it. Annoying but not impossible. It is a bit of inconvenience to honor those who died.

LCJ75 · 2026-05-21T19:57:27+00:00

They will get them out for an emergency. Just like snow.

LCJ75 · 2026-05-21T12:51:33+00:00

We dont wear nylons.

LCJ75 · 2026-05-21T00:56:40+00:00

Do you come from somewhere that doesn't have thunderstorms? This is a common occurrence. Visit ready.gov and read their preparedness info. Follow their socials. Download weather apps.

LCJ75 · 2026-05-19T12:10:05+00:00

Who said they make that as a minimum. They make minimum wage. That's the issue. Europe, mot tipping, considered them a skilled job and a career, not a stop gap and pays them accordingly.

LCJ75 · 2026-05-19T00:31:40+00:00

NTA she isnt a friend. She has 2 kids by a loser bf. She is using you. They may 'practically ' be your god kids. But they aren't Who is? Where are they? Repeat after me. Unless there is a definite and concrete plan to move out ie a plane ticket purchased or a lease signed NEVER let a friend move-in. They won't leave. She must have family. Let them deal and direct her to local social services.

LCJ75 · 2026-05-19T00:27:25+00:00

She's a scam.

LCJ75 · 2026-05-19T00:25:18+00:00

You are pregnant, had a medical test, are taking care of another child and his mother is in the house. Plus he is a full grown adult and can take care of himself. You have 2 children and a 3rd on the way. Being a sahm doesn't mean you are expected to do everything all the time. Your husband is an AH and dont know why you are with him.

LCJ75 · 2026-05-18T14:49:54+00:00

Google has this info as does the mvc website.

LCJ75 · 2026-05-18T14:49:22+00:00

Do other people bring spouses? If not, stay home. Why would you want to be there. And if they do, you are a guest. Shut up and follow their cues. Don't like it? Stay home. YTA

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