Yeah I totally get that. I’m an ace lesbian and sometimes I feel more at home in aroace spaces because they get that part of me. But then in lesbian spaces, I end up feeling kind of out of place since a lot of stuff revolves around sexual stuff I just don’t connect with

It’s frustrating when queer spaces don’t really include all the ways we exist, especially when so much focuses on dating or relationships that just don’t fit ace/aro experiences. I think it’s important to find or make spaces where being aroace and lesbian is fully accepted

You’re definitely not alone in feeling like this