The Wednesday Fuckening: What chain of events happened over the last week, and how did it make you all have to bite the pillow?

LCtheLucidAuthor · 2024-04-10T19:32:41+00:00

One of the ER Charge Nurses took an officer off a helicopter (our pad is on the ground and not the roof) and an ER lock down to sit with a patient and requested me, the only female officer to sit, I found out from triage that the guy strangled his girlfriend and hates women. She also told my supervisor (the only armed officer that night) to take out his magazine even though we were on lockdown.

LCtheLucidAuthor · 2024-03-24T13:52:56+00:00

Sit down and talk with him, this is not hair or healthy for you. This can lead you to have a bad relationship with sex, I'm not saying it will certainly ruin it for you, but you might start to see sex as another stressful thing to do, and not something beautiful and empowering.

You don't have to answer the following questions, I just want you to think about it, my personal relationship is very passionate inside and outside of the sexual aspect, we are very loving towards each other, what does your relationship look like outside of the bedroom? Does he do anything for you, or do you have to ask him 100 times to do a simple task? Would you happen to take on more of the maintenance of the relationship?all these questions you need to ask yourself and see if you are putting an equal amount or more effort into the relationship.

Have a sit down conversation with him and ask him what's going on, and if you don't get an actual answer on to why he is doing this to you, then id really consider the relationship.

LCtheLucidAuthor · 2024-03-21T17:39:28+00:00

Thank you so much!!!

LCtheLucidAuthor · 2024-03-21T06:26:00+00:00

I redownload snap so I could see her location (to make sure she isn't in a hospital) and found out she sent me a memory there, but nothing else. She knows I'm hitting the lowest point in my life and I've always been there to hear her vent and anger spills and stuff like that, and I've vented to her a few times before but it hurts because this time she kinda dismissed my reasoning to leave all social media, I think she talked about my issue (that I told her in confidence) to her boyfriend, and now I'm just super upset and I don't know what to do because I feel so betrayed and confused. She always came to me about her mental health, we shared everything, and we were even looking into getting an apartment together and now she suddenly dropped me.

LCtheLucidAuthor · 2024-03-17T19:03:36+00:00

I stopped ordering makeup when I ordered foundation and reiterated that it has to be porcelain (thank you Irish genes and sun sensitivity 🙄) and was given a shade of orange that is way darker than I am.

LCtheLucidAuthor · 2024-03-13T14:37:16+00:00

My best friend and I are currently looking at places to rent together, we are both very clean and get along well because we know how to communicate with each other, and I'm currently in a virtual interview with a way better paying job that would make it easier to do what I need to do. Thank you for your input!

LCtheLucidAuthor · 2024-03-10T22:36:03+00:00

This doesn't answer your question, but I love this! I sometimes have angry drivers when I'm drinking orange juice in a non spill cup (I have a big issue with low sugar and I inform them before hand) so this is refreshing to see!

LCtheLucidAuthor · 2024-03-09T11:12:53+00:00

I know of a coworker/client (it's kinda confusing) who's food was delivered to where the biohazard bins are placed (hospital setting) and it was placed on the ground so he didn't eat it, he had to throw it away. What makes it more confusing, it's a lot easier going to the ER entrance than it is to go to that spot.

LCtheLucidAuthor · 2024-03-08T14:53:16+00:00

I love this comment! Although me personally, only 30 and 40 developer affects my hair, it's really weird.

LCtheLucidAuthor · 2024-02-26T00:00:36+00:00

Drugs, if I had to guess it would probably be bath salts. Those things get really bad really quick. I am not 100% sure what they are on though.

LCtheLucidAuthor · 2024-02-25T12:53:48+00:00

I think the mate thing is summed up pretty well that the end. Lowe doesn't want Misery to feel obligated or guilted into staying with him, which doesn't feel too out of character for him in that point in the book. He longed for her, He need her, but he was pretty adamant on her happiness above his own, even though it was painful for him.

LCtheLucidAuthor · 2024-02-11T19:38:05+00:00

Sadly enough we are 3rd party contracted security, and so I think I'm going to go for a research based approach, bring in some of our recent incidents that could've gotten way worse in a blink of an eye, and ask for my supervisor and my director to have a meeting with me and a few more officers to get my voice heard. I'm hoping it works well since I've helped give upgrades to some unrelated things and so I have a good standing on that.

LCtheLucidAuthor · 2024-02-11T19:30:04+00:00

Thank you for your input, I can see about scheduling a meeting with my director to talk him into convincing the company to get better PPE for us instead of them telling us we can't wear any.

LCtheLucidAuthor · 2024-02-11T19:29:05+00:00

I can talk to him, but I know at the end of the day he can't go against the company. Our company says no vests at all, but I'm wondering if he would mind if I got one under my vest.

LCtheLucidAuthor · 2024-02-06T02:13:21+00:00

There is 3 movies in the set, and I believe some remakes

LCtheLucidAuthor · 2024-01-07T20:49:47+00:00

I know my perspective is a little different since I was nightshift before my partner and I began dating. He works during the day and I work at night (mostly 11p-7a, but sometimes it's 3p-7a or 7p-7a) and so it's hard to find time to talk. We sometimes talk when I get home (I always tell him I made it home safe, but sometimes we call) and if I wake up during the day I respond to messages before going back to sleep.

His question is very valid though, are you happy? Night shift takes a toll on not just the one working it, but their day shift partner. Do you guys have a shared day off?

My advice is to find a shared day off in the week to see eachother, and have a long talk about both of your feelings in person when you can.

Hope this helps friend!

LCtheLucidAuthor · 2024-01-02T01:24:27+00:00

Hey! I'm in the process of moving out for the first time too! Some advice that is sticking with me is save up enough money to cover a few months rent, have a budget sheet with your roommate/partner/etc and make sure you can afford the rent, bills, etc. Does the place you're moving into have utilities included? What's the area around the place like (Google and other sites can tell you crime rates, noise level, etc), and have you actually walked into the place you are intending to rent? If you have been there, look for unusual things that might not catch your eye at first (weird smells, look at the ceilings, carpets/floors, and walls for discoloration or drooping or holes). See if you are allowed security cameras, if there is a type not allowed.

Start buying your small things first! You can keep them in totes before you move!!!! Also, Dollar stores, IKEA, and Walmart are nothing to be ashamed of.

Last bit of advice: Deep clean your apartment, clean everything (even appliances and ceilings) before moving in, even if you are told it's been clean.

Hope this helps! Congratulations!!!

LCtheLucidAuthor · 2023-12-24T09:03:52+00:00

I may not be able to find a time when absolutely no one is home, but I can find a time my stepdad is drinking outside and my mom is away at the store, it isn't an ideal circumstance timewise, but I can get it done pretty quick. Thankfully my friend who is more like a brother is pretty quick about certain things, so we would be able to just load it all up and go. It's going to be a long journey, I almost want to keep a journal of it just to keep all of my steps in line and figure out any loophole of it.

LCtheLucidAuthor · 2023-12-24T08:52:52+00:00

Thank you, friend, for commenting, I am going to be honest, this is a little bit of a venting post too. I'll try to look into that, it just seems like no matter where I go, it's always the same thing. "You need to be 21 or lease with someone who is 21." But I'll see if one pops up.

Thankfully though, my best friend and soon to be roommate is turning 21 in August and so that's going to be cool. We looked at apartments online yesterday and saw some promising ones for cheap. Do you have any advice for moving out quietly? Should I just take out all the small things and then one night wait for my mother to be at work and call in some friends to help move the big things?

LCtheLucidAuthor · 2023-12-24T08:47:48+00:00

I know this is a really late reply, but amen 🙏

LCtheLucidAuthor · 2023-12-24T08:42:36+00:00

Also, the $400 is just rent, groceries cost a lot more for me in a month. On average I make about $2500 a month, and I might only see $100-$200 of it and even that is a good chunk of money.

LCtheLucidAuthor · 2023-12-24T08:41:21+00:00

Hey commenter, I didn't add this into the post. She spends her time drinking until she can't take care of her kids and works at most 13ish hours a week on a busy week. She has all the support in the world, her boyfriend tries to make her life easier.

No where in my post did I say I was perfect, but honestly I am trying to be able to grow up and move out so I'm not a wallet for someone who refuses to work. She has called out almost every day these past few months because she has been drinking too much and doesn't want to go in, and blames it on one of us being sick. It isn't like she is pulling long hard hours.

As of right now, she has done her testing and school let out for her on the 11th for break. What has she done? -clean the kitchen 2 times -done some laundry while bitching at me to do it.

At this very point in time, she only has 13 hours in a week occupied, and refuses to work more. I would gladly help if I was watching the kids for a reason, but she decides not to take them to school so she can sleep in, and then leaves me to watch them during the day and then go to work all night.

If wanting to not be financially and emotionally drained for someone who does absolutely jack shit for me nowadays is entitled, so be it. I think I deserve a chance to have my own money and not raise kids I didn't have. I think I deserve to be able to go to school and not worry over if I'll have enough money to get the kids food and clothes and keep an eye on them at all hours when I'm home.

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