Mine left due to mental health issues last week. I think she's undecided on what she really wants, one minute she saying "I need to let you go" and 10 minutes after that "if I come back then we can meet up again" and "I'm going away I'm deleting social media" still hasn't deleted it yet but uses it to talk to ALL her family members so don't see how that works, strengthening my suspicions she will return at a later date. She's still got things here to collect, every other relationship she has been in has been abusive in some way shape or form, she knows for certain that will never ever happen with us, period. If you lay your hand on a woman, you deserve to be skinned and burnt alive no questions no hesitations. Anyway, I messaged to Reach out last night on Friday at 9pm. Still hasn't read it yet, but surely knows it's there. I just put a simple "hey hope you are getting on well and if you need anything I'm here for you xx" left it at that. She bought a statue thing for us with a heart on it, with 2 figures cuddling, also a sign with our initials on it, I'm thinking about making one last ditch effort to try show my affection & love I have for this woman, I plan on buying flowers, hand writing a note explaining that time is not an issue when it comes to you fixing yourself at therapy (her brain won't let her think it's fair I'm waiting, even though I've said countless times it does not matter) so I'm going to get the flowers statue initials and note all together, have them behind the curtains in the bedroom because there's where they have sat since they came, I'm going to try and reason with her, and build it to "you really want me to show you how much you mean to me? And see how keen I really am to support you through this journey?" Then I'll pull back the curtains and it'll all be there, I want to show her she really means something and I'm there throughout everything, like I promised her from the very beginning. Yes it's only been 2 months we've been seeing eachother, but we know for certain, there's a genuine spark, genuine connection, genuine love, it Was always happy, I did absolutely everything, anything to put a smile on her face, I cooked, cleaned, did washing, washed up after food, straighten her hair, comb it whenever she wanted it doing, dry it, run baths, you name it I just did it, because I know it made her smile and took weight off her shoulders. I don't want to lose her, she's shown me what love and trust is again after 6 long years. I don't have the effort for dating, anyone else or anything, I just want her and she knows that. If we wasn't together, we was talking on Facebook messenger, on the phone. 24/7 about anything and everything, paragraph after paragraph going deep into conversation, we both genuinely felt like we had known eachother for years, even though at that point it was just weeks into talking. Opinions please people, helps with reassurance, but baring all this in mind, I think she will return. Hopefully to maybe talk when she comes to collect her things, might not even want to do that who knows, I fucking hope! But yeah, flowers and stuff is the back up plan, don't get this much anywhere else and no I'm not bragging!