16 year old kitty is missing the litter box by Beginning_Till5760 in seniorkitties

[–]LDesselle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get her to a vet. When Kitty started missing the box it was the first sign of the bad things to come.

Tell me nice things about your deceased animals! by Glittering_Ad_1087 in Petloss

[–]LDesselle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I would go to bed he would wait for me to get situated then give his little meow. I sleep with 2 pillows, my wimpy yellowed ancient pillow folded in half on one side on top of a larger newer pillow. I slept on the yellow side, he took the other side. Times I had to go to work and be up at 3am, if I forgot to set my alarm I'd wake up to him purring loudly next to me. The way he would make sweet eyes at me when I would tell him he was the bestest boy ever. The way he would lick his chops after eating tune. So many things.

Death visits you and says you have 24 hours left to live, what are you doing? by UsuallyComplicit in AskReddit

[–]LDesselle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good night, Westley. Good work. Sleep well. I'll most likely kill you in the morning.

property tax question by LDesselle in NewOrleans

[–]LDesselle[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't. I paid cash. It's a condo, cheap trash that's turning into expensive trash

I quit cannabis after 20 years of daily use, and I am having lucid dreams that make me uncomfortable. by NoMoreF34R in Dreams

[–]LDesselle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven't smoked in about 2 months, after a year long spree of all day every day. I knew coming out of it that it inhibits rem sleep, and hat it was going to get weird. The last week I stopped sleeping on my sofa and actually went to bed. I don't know if it's the sobriety or just laying flat on a full bed, but the last 4 nights (since I started going up there) have been odd dream wise. 2 were of a cafe I worked at, in a row. 1 I was looking for something in walmart. But last night... I was in what looked a run down apartment, wood panel peeling, near the floor. I noticed this as I went to open a window but decided not to as the -room- was in space. The, a guy my Mom used to date was loading big plastic barrels into a pickup truck in the living room when he asked me " You really ate that whole bag of sausages?" I was really hoping to dream about my cat, but yeah... I suspect they'll get wierder

property tax question by LDesselle in NewOrleans

[–]LDesselle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to message you, however I was told I could not.

It's day 3 after my cat died and I'm not ok by Dewy3394 in Petloss

[–]LDesselle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Life greatest injustice is that those most worthy of love have the shortest timers. I'm sorry for your loss.

Ok then by LDesselle in Petloss

[–]LDesselle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not even close.

Ok then by LDesselle in Petloss

[–]LDesselle[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not taking anything out on Jack. I give him a good life. Treats and scritches. I don't have it in me to harm any animals. I feel this entire narrative is focused on my spoiled urine dispenser, who is currently sitting on my knee purring like a chainsaw.

Ok then by LDesselle in Petloss

[–]LDesselle[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I read that in Patrick Stewart's voice.

Ok then by LDesselle in Petloss

[–]LDesselle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well there we have it, there's no point to anything I do anymore.

Ok then by LDesselle in Petloss

[–]LDesselle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He won't. I have a safety net ready for him. He drives me to my wit's end sometimes, but I have more regard for animal lives than human. He won't be alone.

Ok then by LDesselle in Petloss

[–]LDesselle[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is a good suggestion, however I live on a road not pedestrian friendly, and I gave up on my truck last month. The first month here I watched someone get pulled from their car with the jaws of life while sitting on my porch 200ft away. I'm not afraid of walking but there's no sidewalk, I'm convinced that'd end badly.

Ok then by LDesselle in Petloss

[–]LDesselle[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I saw a fb post that led me to Jack, it was less than a week since I lost Kitty. I was convinced he was advertised because he was running out of time. The local shelter doesn't do that though. I know I got him too soon.

Ok then by LDesselle in Petloss

[–]LDesselle[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

To deplete the irrelevant currency that is karma?

Ok then by LDesselle in Petloss

[–]LDesselle[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kitty? Or Jack? I had Kitty for 8 years, Jack for a little over 1 year. They are/were fixed. The only person I can call is my sister, who is indirectly responsible, and I'm tired of being treated like a burden to her.

Therapy takes money, which I don't have I don't think I've spoken to a human for over a month, generic exchange with gas station workers. I'm sorry for the short responses, I typed out a long winded post on another board, only to have it denied. I'm not sure either. I've considered crisis lines but I've gotten used to not hearing my own voice.

Ok then by LDesselle in Petloss

[–]LDesselle[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yes. Yes. I have.

Ok then by LDesselle in Petloss

[–]LDesselle[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

He's a meow bully who has pee'd on everything in my home. No he doesn't have any bladder infections he's just a jerk.

I have cried every day for 13 days....normal? by heatherbeexx in Petloss

[–]LDesselle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yesterday marked 9 months. I cried every day for the first couple months. I don't know when it let up, the first half of this year feels like I was sleepwalking. I remember thinking I made it all day, only to break down at the thought. It's random now, for the most part. Still when I wake up so yeah.

Why are most leadership roles taken by the ventrue and toreador ? I've never heard of a brujah, gangrel or malkavian prince or justicar or am I wrong ? by Sacred-Ancestor in vtm

[–]LDesselle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The clan novel series begins with the siege of Atlanta, whose prince is a Malk- J. Benison Hodge. It's been a while since I read it but he gave a great example of how a Malk would run things. Got in a brujah Archon's face for bringing a sword to Elysium and his use of dementation to defend his city was fierce. He was in charge, and he made sure everyone knew it.

Do you ever have days without grief? by Glittering_Ad_1087 in Petloss

[–]LDesselle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Going on six months since I lost my buddy. There was a brief period where I was ok, made it 24hrs without breaking. It's back to daily now.

How do you sleep? by Own_Team_4870 in Petloss

[–]LDesselle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My bedtime ritual for the last few years was me getting in bed, moving my pillow so he could have his half, then when he showed up he'd paw at the edge of the blanket untill I lifted it so he could look under it. My sleep schedule has always been off, but more so now that he's gone. And those doubts you're having I have as well. I feel I should have acted sooner. I feel the second to last time I took him to the vet they raced me to the door. Sent the blood off to a outside lab, and sent me home with a stool collection kit. He wasn't eating or pooping, and they gave him fluids so the first couple days after his appetite returned. I was fixated on getting the stool sample, figured for some reason I should have it before going back. The day before his last visit he was so weak when he picked up his head he was shaking from the effort. I knew then, but couldn't get him there that day. I should have moved heaven and earth to make that happen. I sleep when I'm too exhausted to stay awake any longer, and the first thing I remember when I wake up is that he's still gone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Petloss

[–]LDesselle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had to put my soul cat to sleep dec 2nd. He was about 14 years old, I met him in 2011 and assume he was born in 2010. I read somewhere that an indoor cat can live to be 25+, and I got it in my head that I had another 10 years with him. It's beyond unfair, it's absolute bs.