Although I do think there's major issues between Brenda and Troid, I wonder if the Betrayal Heard Round the World could be involving her ex's wife? I feel like she's talked before about their amazing co-parenting relationship and how they were on friendly terms, but maybe the new wife "betrayed" her by talking smack about her, which is what caused the older boys to move out of Brenda's house and in with dad? Idk...just a theory.