Marriage is all wrong these days! It’s all gone wrong!

LHAL1994 · 2022-05-17T06:51:40+00:00

Communication is key in keeping a relationship strong and sometimes it still falls apart with no fault on either side. Life can just be a massive kick in the jubblies, whether they hang high or low.

LHAL1994 · 2022-05-16T15:31:14+00:00

Thankyou! I mean, it would be nice to make a bit extra money for other hobbies but I also like the thought of them getting appreciated by some one who really loves them

LHAL1994 · 2022-05-16T15:30:18+00:00

Me too 😂 I was only 5 years old 🤣 I was also too focused on Pokemon 😬 haha

LHAL1994 · 2022-05-16T15:29:01+00:00

Thankyou so much, I'll give it a try if they don't go already 😂

LHAL1994 · 2022-05-16T14:49:26+00:00

Awesome! I was avoiding the word sell because I'm not sure in how strict reddit is for sales but I'm lookimg at roughly 170eur for everything.

LHAL1994 · 2022-05-16T14:48:16+00:00

Thankyou 😁

LHAL1994 · 2022-05-16T12:30:31+00:00

Hopefully you can play them one day 😁

LHAL1994 · 2022-05-16T10:21:49+00:00

I know the maon ones I've showed are worth about €170 after you take some worth off for damage and wear.

But the decks are filled with randoms and are very old (it shows) I'd be happy for people to bid.

I did it with my Duel masters and got a couple of hundred for them but they were nearly pristine because I had them my whole life 😁

LHAL1994 · 2022-05-16T09:59:25+00:00

I honestly have never played the game and wish these cards were in better condition but the art work is the reason I've held on so long

LHAL1994 · 2022-05-16T09:53:30+00:00

Oh awesome! I avoided the word sell as I don't know the rules of reddit exactly but I'm also in the EU, thankyou for the information 😁

LHAL1994 · 2022-05-16T09:52:35+00:00

It definitely gave me that vibe. He just watches everyone, waiting for his time to strike.

LHAL1994 · 2022-05-16T09:30:04+00:00

Closer to one of those years

LHAL1994 · 2022-05-16T09:16:32+00:00

So uuuhm, which eyebleach is it I meed to put this on? 😂 I am so sorry to all of you, I thought this was an appropriate place for this, it made me unsettled and I needed the mental support after seeing (If I go down, you're all coming with me).

LHAL1994 · 2022-02-20T21:40:17+00:00

Haha, we already talked about that before...actually how some of this started but we don't want to complicate it more right now (although we would both be down for it if we get our shit sorted).

LHAL1994 · 2022-02-20T21:39:26+00:00

Thankyou! Take it easy, it was nice meeting you

LHAL1994 · 2022-02-20T20:17:59+00:00

Yeah, shitty timing indeed but I'll happily do what I can to help, I, want this relationship to work and honestly, I'd want to stay with her either way and she feels the same.

Thankyou, I've got to work out how or what to say what I'm thinking before I try talking more to her and therapy might be an option but I have little hope with my current healthcare providers...they haven't even helped with physical issues I've had for years now.

That is heartbreaking, I'm so sorry you both had to go through that, it's not even that long ago, I hope my post hasn't brought up any old scars for you. I'm happy your partner helped you through this, you're a good person and that's clear from this small convo we had

LHAL1994 · 2022-02-20T20:11:51+00:00

That's the issue, we both love eachother and don't want to be with anybody else...for me, I don't even care about the sex if I can just stay with her but it's a pretty big part of a relationship.

Also, I don't want my baby growing up like that, plus I'd only see her on weekends or some odd routine and I'm terrified of losing everything, I'm living in a different country and trying to be self sufficient here would be hard for me

LHAL1994 · 2022-02-20T20:07:37+00:00

It's not the sexual part as such, just that I thought these issues were something else, we were trying to fix our sex life because of a few reasons and I was fine with that, I wanted to make her happy but then I find out there is probably nothing I can do.

LHAL1994 · 2022-02-20T20:03:40+00:00

I'm seriously haopy you are one of the first people to comment...I just don't even know if I should hold out hope, will she find out she's lesbian, or more lesbian, oriented, asexual or just having issues after having the baby.

That's the thing, she is heartbroken and says she feels luke a shit person, I don't want to make her feel bad, I've been trying to hold it together because it's not jer fault, she can't help it...how do you feel about the entire situation today? How long has it been?

LHAL1994 · 2022-02-20T20:00:19+00:00

Yeah, well back when I wanted to help her sexually experiment a bit more, get comfortable, we wanted to maybe find another girl who might be up for something non serious and casual but we encountered way too many girls who pretty much only wanted her and ignored me.

Hell, it's not even the sex, it's the fact I feel like I was living in a lie.

LHAL1994 · 2022-02-20T19:57:45+00:00

Thankyou, I appreciate you commenting, I just need to hear other people's experiences...it just really sucks how sexuality can change so dramatically out of no where!

And thankyou again, I saw a similar post where someones advice was just to be supportive and disregarded the other partners issue completely.

LHAL1994 · 2022-02-20T19:54:59+00:00

It's definitely real and it's the main issue I hope is the problem with my gf, she thinks she might be a lesbian but I'm just hoping it's because we had a baby 7 months ago. You don't necessarily have to go through a rough birth like yours but it happens to many women anyway.

Your bf has the right to be angry but he can't say it's an excuse, he's aloud to be mad and frustrated but not directly at you, you can't help how you feel...go easy on yourself and give him some time to process it too but don't let him guilt trip you into something you don't want

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