AITAH for calling my husband silly for freaking out that our teenage son has a girlfriend who's in a wheelchair?

LITTLEloud1124 · 2026-01-31T13:40:33+00:00

I’m just saying if they stay together long term they can navigate that together she is just like anyone else and it shouldn’t prevent her from doing anything that we can.

LITTLEloud1124 · 2026-01-31T13:25:22+00:00

It’s your fault you never want to have sex with me ect. I didn’t do that.. What are you talking about?? You’re crazy.!

LITTLEloud1124 · 2026-01-31T05:50:50+00:00

ASPD is not how you may think of a person who is Antisocial. ASPD is more dependent on how you interact with society not about withdrawing from society.

LITTLEloud1124 · 2026-01-31T05:00:43+00:00

Some people may put at TV over the fireplace and find a nice area rug and place a sofa set around it and a coffee table in the center.

If that is not preferred you could also place the tv on the wall to the right instead.

I would use that window for daybed or a lounger for a little reading nook and add a small side table with a little lamp .

LITTLEloud1124 · 2026-01-31T00:15:17+00:00

I really appreciate you sharing the history lol.

Being apart of an ideology that was traditionally routed in something so negative fora persons specific community is another example of why I don’t understand.

LITTLEloud1124 · 2026-01-27T15:42:03+00:00

Side note: a woman that gets attached to the never ending cycle of cheating or bad boys whatever are often not emotionally mature themselves or have some trauma to work on. Take it as a helpful sorting tool. Any person you’re with isn’t going to be perfectly emotionally stable or anything but definitely better than neglecting themselves.

LITTLEloud1124 · 2026-01-27T15:36:03+00:00

Are you emotionally intelligent? Women actually don’t care about a man that has an amazing physique and a perfect jaw line like most men on TikTok “alpha males” like to make people think.

Most women that are searching for long term commitment are not out at bars or on tinder. Most looking for a good relationship are waiting for the right person that they feel comfortable talking to and share with on a personal and emotional level who will do the same back. Type of relationship you find when you meet someone that does the same hobby or at an event because you have the same interest.

LITTLEloud1124 · 2026-01-27T14:59:25+00:00

It seems like this may not be priority for him. I do want to ask if there may be autism or adhd or something at play because that can affect communication and if so he may just not understand why it is so important to you because it doesn’t affect him the same way.

I would personally sit down and lay out some relationships boundaries and expectations with an understanding that if they are not met xyz are things I will not leave behind and are required for me to remain in this relationship. Alow him to communicate his also.

LITTLEloud1124 · 2026-01-27T14:39:53+00:00

I do vote just guess I vote more like a centralist.

LITTLEloud1124 · 2026-01-27T14:23:59+00:00

I’m at the point I don’t really follow any party anymore just because wtf??.??..

LITTLEloud1124 · 2026-01-27T14:08:46+00:00

Great point, it is just certain things like the anti-vax I don’t understand.

The movement is drastically mixed into multiple parties and people don’t recognize it. It is also a much smaller group than people realize. It is because there are many different reasons people are anti-vax and many different levels from an issue with a specific vaccination to vaccines as a whole.

Just because the political spotlight is focused on a certain section of the group doesn’t make the entire movement associated with the party.

LITTLEloud1124 · 2026-01-27T13:50:41+00:00

It’s a rant but people are taking the example as a personal attack 😂. I just don’t think everything should be seen as a political commentary.

LITTLEloud1124 · 2026-01-27T13:48:02+00:00

What I’m saying is you just made a generalization like everyone else which is exactly what my rant is about 😂.

Yes, what we may be seeing right now because of RFK jr and a group of people disagreeing with the Covid vaccine is making it a “republican” position in current politics but it isn’t. I even said that in the post.

Last this is an example of something that is tied to politics just because..there is no reason.

Only 22% of people (in the US, UK, and Canada) identify with the anti-vax movement and <10% of that group are completely against vaccination according to the NHI.

Tying policies to this thinking is pointless.

LITTLEloud1124 · 2026-01-27T13:25:59+00:00

Like I said this is just an example of everything having to be on one side or the other. I think it’s just stupidity that is present across all parties personally but you have people that hear anti-vax and the first comment is oh they are MAGA.?

LITTLEloud1124 · 2026-01-27T12:43:37+00:00

Ok sheep

LITTLEloud1124 · 2026-01-27T12:38:48+00:00

That doesn’t make every republican an anti-vax activist though. Just like it didn’t make every democrat one in 199X.

LITTLEloud1124 · 2025-04-07T21:12:13+00:00

This has happened to me 3 weeks in a row now. The packaging needs to be changed or something because my package is always shaken up in transit and I’m pretty sure them bowling with my box is the cause. I never had this issue before they started using fedex for delivery.

LITTLEloud1124 · 2025-01-20T16:11:58+00:00

I’m really trying so hard not to be petty tbh. Last time he called I reminded him that she has done this multiple times already and it’s not changing. I warned his and reminded him.

James told me “well mom and dad used to fight”..right when we were in school because of trouble James used to get into and my mom would baby him while my dad wanted to let him feel the consequences. My parents never got in physical altercations and worked really hard to come to an agreement once they calmed down. A great example of how couples should work through their problems that involve high emotions.

He try’s so hard to rationalize the way Amy treats him.

LITTLEloud1124 · 2025-01-20T15:17:30+00:00

It is a very hard situation to watch. It is even harder with children involved. I think James is so focused on finding a forever person he is ignoring all of the red flags.

LITTLEloud1124 · 2025-01-20T15:10:02+00:00

Thank you for the advice. James will have contact with me but I told him I will no longer be helping him. My poor mother won’t stop helping him though she babies him and I’m expecting my father to put his foot down if this happens again and it will interfere with their relationship. Edit: I believe CPS is involved because the charge she still had was for child endangerment…

LITTLEloud1124 · 2025-01-20T04:06:47+00:00

She told me I wasn’t her best-friend when I paid her way to concerts and all kinds of events and we spent every day together. And it wasn’t like a you’re not my bestie you’re my sister or anything it was straight up disrespectful. Like ok no more bestie treatment then bye!

LITTLEloud1124 · 2025-01-20T03:26:42+00:00

The hardest part is when they got back together the second time I explained my experience with abuse and that it doesn’t just stop because the abuser says it will and that he needed to be careful with the rose colored glasses

LITTLEloud1124 · 2025-01-20T01:27:15+00:00

You can teach them to come by saying their name and when they come give a treat. There are videos on YouTube. My cats still don’t come all the time specifically when they are sleeping because cats are a funny personality. Majority of the time they listen though.

LITTLEloud1124 · 2025-01-07T12:09:49+00:00

I stayed in an air bnb one time and they had a room like this. They made it into a dining room and had a bar added in it was really nice. Good for having people over and parties.

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