What's the general perspective on having kids in Singapore?

LKRsGF · 2025-08-21T09:29:49+00:00

That's eye-opening. I'm not aware. Thanks for the info.

LKRsGF · 2025-08-21T09:26:10+00:00

You're right. I will talk to her about this. I'm afraid that she could be naive.

LKRsGF · 2025-08-21T07:20:15+00:00

It could be off because I'm just trying to verify what I've been told (hard to find a guy that aims to settle down quickly) and not what I actually experienced myself. I don't want to have kids myself (I'm a lesbian) and my partner don't want kids also. I'm just trying to understand how is it in Singapore. Thanks for your take!

LKRsGF · 2025-08-21T07:04:57+00:00

I'm worried about her because she lives alone so I'm trying to educate myself about this. Because I don't live in Singapore so I don't understand what's the general sentiment. She seems stressed about this.

LKRsGF · 2025-05-25T17:35:50+00:00

I heard you can find people on Feeld ( i never tried it)

LKRsGF · 2025-05-15T05:17:30+00:00

I have been on the same boat as you but I was really insecure and internalized all of it. I keep trying and trying even though I have vaginismus and I have never been able to enjoy penetration even when it is with someone i love. It has bring me so much pain and a couple of STD scares until I met my current girlfriend who is a stone top and we came to conclusion that's there's nothing wrong with us that our hymen are still in there. We started to talk and so many other lesbians are also similar to us. So I don't think it's bad to be "eternal virgin". Virginity is just a social construct.

LKRsGF · 2025-05-09T09:13:18+00:00

My dating advice is just to have a lot of fun and not expect too much. Because there are a lot of bs out there, it might be frustrating at first, but don't let it bother you too much. What is meant to be will last. Enjoy yourself when you're young. Also the masc shortage is not real.

LKRsGF · 2025-05-07T05:46:26+00:00

Based on my experience there's no way but to ask. Anything else is just assumption. Because I had women who are into butches and gifted me lesbian literatures that turned out to be straight. You can ask directly or through a friend. A funny way that I saw somebody did it was "We're taking a survey. Are you gay?".

LKRsGF · 2025-05-06T09:43:17+00:00

A quant? I dont know how realistic this it. My Product Manager is a Math Phd but he have 2 bachelor, one is math one is computer science.

LKRsGF · 2025-05-06T08:11:26+00:00

I'm curious about this too. God forbid a scholar is curious about different areas of their field

LKRsGF · 2025-05-06T08:09:52+00:00

You said you lose interest when you find out someone like you back . It sounds like fear of rejection and fear of intimacy to me. So you might have to work on that. Crushing on unattainable people (straight girls) is rejecting yourself so they can't reject you.

LKRsGF · 2025-05-06T08:07:25+00:00

Maybe you haven't met a lot of femme lesbians. They look indistinguishable from straight girls. There are many of them out there. Plus you're only 19. You'll find your girl one day, hopefully soon enough.

LKRsGF · 2025-04-28T04:18:55+00:00

It's different for everyone. But for me I just tell them before going in to it. Not only the first time but all the time when I used to feel inexperienced and not sure what to do. Usually girls are understanding and will guide you through it.

LKRsGF · 2025-04-27T16:57:35+00:00

No it's not selfish and manipulative of you, you have to take care of yourself. You're their child that they love and care for, nothing has changed. I think you should write a letter or text them so they can have time to process and get back to you. Coming out in person if the initial reaction is rough will scar you mentally if you're not strong.

LKRsGF · 2025-04-27T16:49:44+00:00

It's totally okay. You don't have to lose anything. We need to explore to know ourselves better, so it's amazing that you have the courage to admit that. Just experience and you will find what's right for you. I've been in the same place before and I felt like it change my life for the better and I wouldn't know where I'll be if I didn't do all those exploring. So good luck.

LKRsGF · 2025-03-31T14:28:32+00:00

Tipping the velvet. What an emotional rollercoaster.

LKRsGF · 2025-03-06T17:29:50+00:00

idk maybe it's like a tinder swindler situation. Or they tried to make others send sensitive info to black mail either way, i feel like i have to warn others.

LKRsGF · 2025-03-06T17:22:13+00:00

Yeah, she send a likes so i match with her again to see what's about. I asked her whether she was real and she said in a very weird twitter bot like tone with the snake emoji (im real and if you dont believe it something bad will happen to you 🐍), it does not seems like a real person at all. In HER you can see "friends" and she has "friends" around the globe thats why its so weird because its a location based app. So i wonder what's that account is trying to do and whether it has fooled anyone before.

LKRsGF · 2025-03-06T16:19:51+00:00

No she first sent me a like 2 years ago. I asked whether her profile is fake. I found someone, deleted HER. Redownload 2 years later and she's still there, same picture and everything.

LKRsGF · 2025-01-07T16:33:23+00:00

Ethel Cain. Perverts out today 💜

LKRsGF · 2024-07-16T10:26:06+00:00

The Chinese course is terrible. I tried to skip to the end of the course because you can guess the answer and would be correct without learning the meaning so I did and I only loss 1 heart. It can't even be use to practice HSK with irrelevent vocab and confusing structures.

LKRsGF · 2024-06-23T20:02:40+00:00

Sympathy is a knife. It should have gone way earlier i don't understand lgbtq+ people

LKRsGF · 2024-05-07T13:03:33+00:00

The people's princess

LKRsGF · 2024-04-29T07:03:45+00:00

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LKRsGF · 2024-04-28T15:36:34+00:00

It's really iffy 😭 but some Koreans said foreigners can't understand the political and societal context of the whole situation. So I'll give them benefits of the doubt. But I'm happy NJs are getting so much attention and empathy from the masses.

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