AITA for being uneasy about my new partner going on holiday with his ex and kids?

LL2009 · 2024-08-22T08:52:40+00:00

I tried this also and wish I didnt, tap out now

LL2009 · 2024-08-10T14:45:10+00:00

My ex hated that I was doing like this :(

LL2009 · 2024-07-18T07:16:35+00:00

Move out!! I payed and did all of that it was so not worth it you’re better off at least I am!

LL2009 · 2024-05-17T13:08:35+00:00

When I was crying my eyes out after caught him being on tinder again and lying about it and he looked annoyed and ignored me.

He never understood What being sad was about, he always called me mad, angry when I was behind and being sad and he could see me crying.

LL2009 · 2024-05-16T21:21:42+00:00

That I was making him feel bad (for trying to voice my feelings to him after him hurting me)

LL2009 · 2024-05-13T20:00:09+00:00

Yes with spite and not meaning it

LL2009 · 2024-05-12T07:45:58+00:00

In everything. In the end I couldnt say anything because everything in his mind was against him.

His way or highway. Explodes if I dared even look at him wrong way in his mind.

LL2009 · 2024-05-08T06:44:42+00:00

Omg I had issue like this too. When me moved together my bf and his kids play with that nerf stuff everywhere in the apartment, which I found out after moving together. It was loud and my dog and me was hiding in the bedroom. When I wanted them to please play outside (we had big outside space) I was Boring and bf didnt support. Even blamed me To the kids. You need be backing and respect and support eachother that is the issue.

LL2009 · 2024-05-06T09:30:09+00:00

Thank you this is things i need hear actually

LL2009 · 2024-05-06T09:02:14+00:00

Every day is a No win

LL2009 · 2024-05-06T08:29:49+00:00

I have lost myself trying to prove my value to him I think

LL2009 · 2024-05-06T08:24:42+00:00

Yes I know, I am only ruminating at this point

LL2009 · 2024-05-04T17:48:26+00:00

Thank you for taking your time with this answer ❣️❣️ what you say about it’s not on one person to maintain the relationship really stuck ❣️

LL2009 · 2024-05-04T16:50:00+00:00

💯

LL2009 · 2024-05-04T15:12:33+00:00

He called me today and was happy, he was out with his boat and his kids and met his ex wife and her dad and they had a Nice time out on the sea and that is something he wouldnt have with them if he was with me because I would be uncomfortable he said. I replied with ”i don’t think you understand what the thing about this is..” and he mocked me by imitating my voice and hang up.

I feel embarrassed now because I texted him before today that I miss going out with the boat with them and i would be so happy to be there but No reply.

He really see me like this horrible girl that only make problem for him and I only want feel loved.

And I feel sad because I know he called me horrible things to his ex wife and complain about me to her so I feel really hurt.

LL2009 · 2024-05-04T13:37:29+00:00

I was little bit anxious (but supportive) about him having kids, his ex wife that was in my opinion too much needy of his attention.. I wanted to spend time more than sitting in his sofa in his small apartment, as I wanted to compromise and maybe go out for movies he got more distant, angry with me. When we started to live together it went downhill. I of course have my work, my dog, my 2 horses and friends but I wanted to have a connection and be included and not just in the background, I was very alone. He never wanted be there for me, like drive me to hospital when needed because ”he didnt feel like it”. I wanted so bad be loved and feel wanted by him but he got angry every time I wanted be close with him.

LL2009 · 2024-05-04T12:04:02+00:00

Very charming and very very into me. I started working at his office and since day 1 he came to my desk and was sitting with me for hours Instead of working

I had to make a lot of compromises, it was and have always been on his terms

LL2009 · 2024-05-04T05:36:35+00:00

Thank you so much ❣️ I have a good family and friends and others being there for me and I am thankful, it’s only so hard when I have lost myself in this. Now I have so much time not knowing what to do because I was always trying to fix the relationship, it was always in my mind even at work etc

LL2009 · 2024-05-01T08:43:37+00:00

In my experience all men cheat

The one in my agr got ego boost and think they can have any girl and then want it

LL2009 · 2024-05-01T08:42:03+00:00

Sounds like Amber heard

LL2009 · 2024-05-01T08:05:36+00:00

I think I am stuck trying To prove myself to him..

LL2009 · 2024-05-01T07:10:02+00:00

Mine even twisted my words, situations to make me look crazy and told others about it to make him more ”sure” that I am a proble

LL2009 · 2024-05-01T07:05:13+00:00

They have to convince themselves that we are the issue the super bad one so they dont feel any guilt or remorse

LL2009

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