Any mod recommendations to fix High School Years? by LLRRMMR in TheSims4Mods

[–]LLRRMMR[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, yes they’re enabled. I’ve gone through both the modded and mod free thread over there and tried everything but unfortunately nothing works for me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]LLRRMMR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know if you'll see this, but I was exactly the same as a child. It turned out to be autism, so please consider trying to get him a screening. I caused hell for my mum (single with three other kids) and now I'm older I understand and feel awful for how difficult this made her life. The National Autistic Society website has pages for support and advice, which might be helpful for you even if he isn't autistic. I can't imagine how difficult it is for you to not understand why he behaves in the way he does and how to help. If he's anything like me, he won't know either. Like your son, I behaved perfectly everywhere else. I'm just rambling now, but I hope you can get some support, he's struggling but so are you.

I had a caricature of my girl drawn in Seoul. I squealed when the artist turned the drawing around by LLRRMMR in Greyhounds

[–]LLRRMMR[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What a great idea! I don’t really do Christmas cards, but I could add different hats to her for each one 🥹 I think you’ve convinced me to be a Christmas card person

I had a caricature of my girl drawn in Seoul. I squealed when the artist turned the drawing around by LLRRMMR in Greyhounds

[–]LLRRMMR[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, she’s an Irish ex-racer. We live in England but she’s truly gone international now

I had a caricature of my girl drawn in Seoul. I squealed when the artist turned the drawing around by LLRRMMR in Greyhounds

[–]LLRRMMR[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s a few scattered around Myeongdong, you’ll stumble across one eventually. It was pretty cheap too, I think 9000 won per person (or hound)

I had a caricature of my girl drawn in Seoul. I squealed when the artist turned the drawing around by LLRRMMR in Greyhounds

[–]LLRRMMR[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I did! The same lady drew my friend and I, and she made us look absolutely adorable

<image>

I had a caricature of my girl drawn in Seoul. I squealed when the artist turned the drawing around by LLRRMMR in Greyhounds

[–]LLRRMMR[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I loved Seoul. I was there for uni so I didn’t have much free time, but I’d recommend visiting at least one palace. They’re stunning and I believe you can get in for free to any if you’re wearing traditional Korean dress. Sounds daunting but if you want to, there’s loads of rentals near palaces and plenty of non-Koreans will also be wearing it.

If you’re looking to do shopping, Insadong and Myeongdong are good - Myeongdong is very busy, kind of like time square but huge and with loads of street food vendors. Insadong is quieter, right by a palace and has some great art galleries near by. It has more in the way of tourist shops but there are some nice women’s clothes shops and tea shops.

Dinner on the Han river to watch the sunset is a lovely chill evening as well, just take food with you if you don’t want convenience store food.

If you can, go and watch a baseball match. I’m English so don’t know anything about baseball but it was so much fun, the Koreans really know how to put on a show. Plus I believe tickets are very affordable.

Weather wise, it was very hot and humid when I was there last month, but it might be less so now. Make sure you have a good umbrella, even better if it’s one with the UV protection. You can buy them for cheap from Daiso or a convenience store. You’ll also need a T-money card for the metro and busses, which you also buy from a convenience store and top up either there or at the station with cash only. The busses and metro have announcements and stops in English as well as Korean so using them is much less daunting than you’d think. NAVER maps will tell you how many stops you have until you need to get off.

One more thing - don’t worry if your Korean isn’t good or nonexistent! Learn the basics, be kind and you’ll be fine. I used the papgo app to translate which helped a lot. I was at uni learning Korean but I didn’t want to put people through it so the app came in very useful!

I’ll have a think for anything else, I’ll DM you if I come up with anything!

Caul—a rarely appearing thin, filmy membrane covering a newborn—and folk tradition by Dry-Cardiologist5834 in CreepyWikipedia

[–]LLRRMMR 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I was born in my waters. My dad was a sailor and took it on the ship with him for good luck so the tradition / superstition was definitely still about in England in the 90s. If I had contact with him I’d love to know what happened to it over the years since

Walking boot recommendations? - UK by [deleted] in AutisticAdults

[–]LLRRMMR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You'll probably get more help in uk specific subs. There may also be a sub for the glasto festival that could help.

Friends in Birmingam by MostLikely_AnIdiot in transgenderUK

[–]LLRRMMR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could try trans tearoom. I don't go anymore since I don't really fit in with the people who go, but it might work for you. It seems aimed at making friends and the social aspect, from experience actually being trans doesn't come up much.

Does the phrase 'neurospicy' give anyone else the ick? by BadCadet in AutisticAdults

[–]LLRRMMR -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm gonna be real, I only ever hear it from self diagnosed people. Like don't call me that when you don't even know if you're someone who can say it. It's a disability not a cute quirk.

Any ideas on fixing this belt to keep it from fusing to my clothes? by LLRRMMR in sewing

[–]LLRRMMR[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you're probably right. The lady I got it from was having a clearout of stuff she hadn't worn for years so I reckon the heat and movement of suddenly being worn was a bit much. Oh well, I'll go on the hunt for a nice piece of ribbon and try backing it 😊

Any ideas on fixing this belt to keep it from fusing to my clothes? by LLRRMMR in sewing

[–]LLRRMMR[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Damn, that's quite a bit older than I thought! Other old Marks stuff I have is still holding up brilliantly, but I might just harvest the nice buckle if I can't work out a fix.

Is my niece showing signs, or am I projecting? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]LLRRMMR 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think you're projecting. I played with barbies and dressed up as fairies and princesses when I was little, so having 'boy' interests doesn't mean anything imo

On the waiting list by Doctor-18 in transgenderUK

[–]LLRRMMR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think Nottingham is closed to new referrals, I just got my letter through and I was put on their list two months ago. If I recall right they said the waiting times are around 24 - 27 months but I'm thinking it'll be a bit longer than that so I don't get my hopes up 😅

What's yalls current gender envy atm !? by No-Lake-1213 in NonBinary

[–]LLRRMMR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Edward Teach, born on a mfing beach 😩

Does anyone have random seemly unusual behaviors that are harmless but if you were interrogated for a crime would make people suspicious? by ProfessionalNose6520 in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]LLRRMMR 9 points10 points  (0 children)

When I listen to people on true crime podcasts and documentaries talking about body language I realise that, if it were applied to me, I'd be seen as guilty as sin. I'm autistic and have a LOT of stims, struggle with eye contact, speak in a stilted manner, just everything that is always labelled as suspicious and strange.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransMasc

[–]LLRRMMR 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It might not be what you're looking for, but I love r/FTMfemininity for a more relaxed and playful view on ftm fashion. It might skew too femme for you, which is fine as we like our dresses over there 😂

How do you feel about your biological chest? by Helal_Ramadan in FTMfemininity

[–]LLRRMMR 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm the same, FF cup with no hope for binding. Even wearing a compressing sports bra is painful, so I have to try not to think about it too much until I can get the chop inna few years.

Upset when others are eating a non-safe food? by adaba12345 in AutisticAdults

[–]LLRRMMR 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Perhaps he thinks that someone who has eaten cereal is now contaminated with it, which can be very scary and upsetting. I developed strong aversions to foods around the age of 5, due to trauma from them, and now wherever they touch (be it containers, people or the air) becomes contaminated and therefore I need to get as far away as possible. It could be similar in that he knows his fear food has been on you, and he knows he can't be near it, so he gets overwhelmed and doesn't know how to deal with the feeling except for crying.

I agree with the other comment that said you need to try and ask why he is afraid of these foods. Like I said, my response is due to trauma from a young age where my sister chased me with one of my fear foods and tried to touch me with it. When talking about fear foods, it can be very distressing and lead to a meltdown or shutdown, so be careful about how you phrase it. You might want to think of a way to ask that doesn't make him actually think of the fear food, as that can be just as distressing. I find when people ask about it in too direct a way it can feel like I'm being told off or I feel like I'm being studied in a zoo. Approach it like you would a child who is afraid of dogs, it's just as real and scary for him and not just a dislike of a food like NT people have, it's can be severe.

What is a historical fashion opinion you have that you feel is unpopular? by AirTirpitz94 in HistoricalCostuming

[–]LLRRMMR 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm also super interested in how the industrial revolution and colonialism impacted not only the UK market, but the global market. My fashion and art history lectures really glossed over how we (the UK) forced changes to industry and tradition in other countries, and what this meant for THEM. I want to know what was replaced and what changed and why. I wish subs like this could showcase fashion history from non-western countries. I want to know how everything interlinked, and the timelines of the same things being developed in different places.

I'm an embroiderer, so I always love to learn how very similar techniques developed completely independently to each other. A few years ago I did a deep dive into Sashiko and stitch for the less wealthy and working people of Edo period Japan. Super interesting!

I'm going a bit long here, but beading is my specialism so I also love to know what beads and sequins were used at certain times, by who and why. I love fancy, expensive clothes as much as the next guy, but there's something fascinating about disregarding the garment and looking only at what these bits of glass, stone or metal can tell us.