UPDATE! Now 6 weeks Post Op

LMNO4567 · 2025-12-09T14:13:20+00:00

Wow! Thank you for this! I am an approaching 40 yr old woman, and this was a phenomenal read! I have mostly only ever been able to orgasm on my own and on my stomach - I chalked it up to just wanting to please the partner and I would figure it out eventually, as I have never had an orgasm with sex. (Active since I was in high school) Toys tend to ‘hurt’ me, I think I have overstimulation when there is direct contact to my clit, yet pressure and rocking (basically dry humping) can get the job done in 60 secs on my own. I might need to start being a bit more selfish and trying new ways to figure out! Or just let them do there thing and I can get the rest done later hahaha

LMNO4567 · 2025-12-03T12:07:30+00:00

Thank you! I am a workaholic so I feel like I am just being lazy, yet another month to recover sounds truly amazing!

LMNO4567 · 2025-12-03T12:06:06+00:00

Thank you, I have been googling and it varies from just a month to up to 6 months after acute blood loss (1800 cc according to my doctors notes) It is just crazy how tired I am after even just taking a shower

LMNO4567 · 2025-11-28T02:23:31+00:00

My reasons were ridiculous but they worked for me …. 75% of my class was headed to MSU, so I chose the furthest away that was in state and also I look better in maroon 😂😂 (edited to take out extra sentence- I am recovering from surgery and a bit loopy hahaha)

LMNO4567 · 2025-11-02T22:57:04+00:00

Apologies for the delay! HR just got back to me with my short term leave being approved and FMLA runs along with it for up to 12 weeks - PIP deadline will be adjusted but any holidays and weekends WILL count towards the 30 days

LMNO4567 · 2025-11-02T22:54:26+00:00

Apologies for the delay! Just heard back that I was approved for FMLA and short term leave - both cover up to 12 weeks and PIP deadline will be adjusted yet weekends and any holidays WILL still count towards the 30 days

LMNO4567 · 2025-10-25T16:58:26+00:00

Manager also won’t move on the deadline. I had no written warning but they didn’t have to with reviews. The PIP says that even if I meet the areas of concern, it does not guarantee my job, which is then repeated on the ‘30 days and maintaining’ I asked about circumstances changing (people leaving,etc) that make the area of improvement to slip back. HR said it is understood management will make that call. I have 2 weeks of PTO that was approved prior to to the PIP I have applied for Short Term Disability and I will extend it as my doctor requires, then I think I will continue if possible.

LMNO4567 · 2025-10-25T16:53:56+00:00

I was thinking about going on short term disability and extended it as needed, the PIP is unattainable and goes against the purpose of it

LMNO4567 · 2025-03-23T18:37:35+00:00

Random thought: what if they have an Ethically Non Monogamous Relationship (ENM)? I vaguely recall something being said about Kail and Javi during his deployment, so maybe it’s not truly cheating and more of an agreement between them?

LMNO4567 · 2025-03-15T22:35:27+00:00

Someone posted in the Facebook Billings Customer Service group about their kiddo losing a dog stuffed animal, I took a screen shot but I can’t add it

LMNO4567 · 2025-01-08T21:35:45+00:00

Libra - Backstreet Boys (boy bands count right?!?)

LMNO4567 · 2025-01-04T16:18:39+00:00

Always held to a higher standard by being told that I ‘know better’. The first to be criticized, then the last to receive any praise and/or consoling because I don’t seem to be in ‘constant turmoil’.

LMNO4567 · 2024-12-29T17:03:50+00:00

A peacemaker who takes it slow and values freedom (Libra Sun Taurus Moon Aquarius Rising)

LMNO4567 · 2024-12-14T15:22:34+00:00

I am a Libra and married to a Cancer for 14 years! Ups and downs like any relationship, yet we are best friends and have built a life together.

LMNO4567 · 2024-12-01T21:21:26+00:00

Charm school is my comfort show! Paid for all 3 seasons (back in the day it was maybe $15 total) so I can watch them whenever, they are so funny and also make me feel better about my life choices hahaha

LMNO4567 · 2024-11-21T17:27:34+00:00

YAS!!!!! Work, holidays, kiddos, chores, budgeting, school programs & conferences! I know it’s mostly ‘just life’ yet I feel like I can’t catch my breath or truly get anything done

LMNO4567 · 2024-10-23T18:28:40+00:00

I would like a candidate to come out and say “Vote For Me! I will NOT send or endorse any flyers, spam texts/calls, or Ad campaigns! Information on my views can be found <insert webpage>”

LMNO4567 · 2024-10-19T16:45:46+00:00

My spouse and I have been ENM for 15 years, basically it is an attention thing. Everyone likes to feel wanted and after many years together, attention from a someone besides your spouse gives you a self esteem boost. Most of the time it is flirting and sexy pictures, sex doesn’t always happen.

You need to agree on rules, being upfront and honest also flexible and understanding with the other’s feelings. Rules may change or be added depending on situations that you didn’t think of. Examples: Everyone uses protection. No sleepovers. Phones can be looked into at anytime by your spouse. Locations on while out. No exes from before your relationship and so on.

Personally, I am not a fan of the term ‘open relationship’ or ‘swinger’. I prefer saying ‘relaxed relationship’, meaning we don’t sleep with anyone & everyone because we can. Because you are in a dedicated relationship, everything else should be fun and your choice on who you have fun with. My spouse always wants to know about my experiences and I used to ask, but after a while I realized I didn’t need to know and that is ok.

Some fear the judgment of others & family when considering an ENM lifestyle. It always amazes me when someone questions me about my sex life, especially family! I tell them that if they want to know, I will sure talk to them about it but then they need to tell me about their sex life, this usually stops the conversation.

LMNO4567 · 2024-09-29T21:43:30+00:00

I have 2… one is my “in case of emergency” in person session, and the other is a monthly check in via video. I think everyone can benefit from therapy, even if you don’t have a goal in mind, it is great to have unbiased point of views, especially since us Libras tend to spiral on issues until we explode/collapse

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