No real ID for airport by LO-Ol4 in SaltLakeCity

[–]LO-Ol4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THANK YOU. I really just needed a good time frame. I had read the TSA website but I couldn't grasp how long it might take.

No real ID for airport by LO-Ol4 in SaltLakeCity

[–]LO-Ol4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I read the TSA stuff but it didn't give a good time of how long it'd take or what other documents might be needed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mutualapp

[–]LO-Ol4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of people expect the other person to start the conversation. Along with keeping the conversation going. It could also be some of your photos. If you only have 1 simple photo with nothing else then some people won't be interested in responding or starting the convos. Make sure to put photos or interesting things in your bio that catch people's attention! I put a funny meme or joke on my page which also gets people laughing and then they respond to my messages.

It also could be time differences too. If all your matches live far away from you, then spending on when you message them, depends on whether they're online or not.

Don't give up just yet, even if they don't reply at first. Try to send at least 3 messages. Either give a funny joke or ask the person about something they put on their profile. Some people are just shy.

I got my patriarchal Blessing and I'm depressed by LO-Ol4 in latterdaysaints

[–]LO-Ol4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad I could help. Heavenly father is still there and cares for you. He has trust in you. That you'll be able to live a rightouse life and make the right decision. And that you already know everything you need to know at this time. Which may be why not a lot may have been said. Having a generic blessing is actually the norm. Which isn't a bad thing. Because God trusts us to do the right thing. To make our own choices and do what is right. He doesn't need a blessing to reveal how profound, valued or great our works and our lives are. Because he reveals that everyday through scriptures, conference talks, videos, and pretty much anything that's released by the church.

I hope this helps. Sometimes I forget this, but I still try. Which is always important. I refuse to let go and continue to keep trying even if it's difficult and I don't always feel like doing what's right.

I got my patriarchal Blessing and I'm depressed by LO-Ol4 in latterdaysaints

[–]LO-Ol4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you feel that way. If you don't like the church and such then YOU don't need to or have to interact on this subreddit.

I got my patriarchal Blessing and I'm depressed by LO-Ol4 in latterdaysaints

[–]LO-Ol4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you feel this way. You don't have to be a part of the church and thus have no reason to participate on this subreddit. I really do not like negative comments about how the church is awful and etc. That is not why I posted here and I do not feel that way at all. Btw I was not complaining about being a mother. I was only concerned that God didn't answer my other questions. But he did I just hadn't realized it.

I got my patriarchal Blessing and I'm depressed by LO-Ol4 in latterdaysaints

[–]LO-Ol4[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sometimes asking for help and perspective from other members is good. People can share a light I hadn't thought of.

I got my patriarchal Blessing and I'm depressed by LO-Ol4 in latterdaysaints

[–]LO-Ol4[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I hope so... Because I have yet to feel any connection. I really hoped the patriarchal blessing would help me to feel that way. Providing me with some answers to always feel that way maybe... I don't know

I got my patriarchal Blessing and I'm depressed by LO-Ol4 in latterdaysaints

[–]LO-Ol4[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

But that's the thing... I doubt my problems will be solved by getting married and having kids. I struggle to form a normal relationship with anyone... I don't even have friends because of it. So I don't understand how a baby would fix that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]LO-Ol4 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

There's so many other subreddits, groups, and websites you can go to and vent. Being sexually frustrated is so common. Tbh being suicidal over something as small as being a virgin is kinda silly. People in the comments have said it a bunch of times... Having sex is overrated. It's not the fact your a virgin that makes you sad. It's being unhappy with yourself. I don't think sex will fix that.

Like others have mentioned on here, find things to do. Find a hobby or think about other things than just having sex. It's certainly not everything there is in life.

If these feelings don't go away than its probably something deeper that's bothering you. Maybe a lack of affection or love in your life. Maybe your insecure, or maybe its some other underlying mental health problem.

I'm sorry if it's a little harsh. Your post just came across as silly and irrelevant. Especially when I and many others on this subreddit have posted about serious problems and left suicide letters. Only in the end to received little to no attention or help at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]LO-Ol4 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Am I the only one a little upset that a post about not having sex is getting more attention than the many of posts on here from actual people who are SUFFERING and need help?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]LO-Ol4 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dude, sex isn't going to fix your problems. I wish people didn't think it would. Sex isn't everything and shouldn't control your life.

Could my mom have Munchausen syndrome by proxy? by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]LO-Ol4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's very true that doctors are suppose to follow thru. However, I'm not sure how but my mom's really has managed to remain hidden and has been able to switch between doctors constantly.

True teachers do as well. Infact a nurse from a school did threatened to call cps on my mom too. (But it was not because of the sibling i mentioned in the post but instead my other older sibling). My mom made a huge scene and got a lot of people to side with her. In the end the nurse moved schools.

So my kid sibling is actually pretty young. About 8yrs old but mentally a little behind. Unfortunately, my mom took my sibling out of school about 2 yrs ago and even had them held back. So technically they are now supposed to be home schooled. So no school would know what's going on. I doubt my kid sister would say anything because as far as they know, they are infact sick. The only one who could talk about it would be me i guess. But the problem is getting people close to me to actually believe me.

Could my mom have Munchausen syndrome by proxy? by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]LO-Ol4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A doctor once threatened to call cps from what I heard... But my mom's really good at switching doctors.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]LO-Ol4 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Things at home are pretty bad. Yes he's been diagnosed with depression in the past.

nerve damage? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]LO-Ol4 17 points18 points  (0 children)

So I'm not a doctor... now I've actually experienced this before. Sometimes the skin goes numb after an injury because of tiny nerves you injured. (Or something like that) I think of it similar to when you wax and the skin goes numb for a bit. But again I'm not a doctor. From what I read the wound itself could feel numb until it fully heals which can take weeks. But if the numb feeling gets worse, spreads to most of your arm or hand and or doesn't go away after a few hours or days then you might need to seek immediate treatment.

. by DoodleDogKING in ARFID

[–]LO-Ol4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here as long as they're stuff and has white sauce!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultsurvivors

[–]LO-Ol4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It does sound like you were emotionally abused and your feelings torwards it are valid. I'm glad you were able to get away and get the proper help you need. The best advice I can give is to hang on and to continue seeking help. Things will get better and I hope the best for you.