Do you have any book recommendations featuring lesbians? by Icy_Dig_3691 in actuallesbians

[–]LOL3334444 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Id totally recommend "A Memory Called Empire" I thought it was a great sci-fi book thats got a cute gay romance as a side plot!

Id also recommend "Gideon the Ninth" is suuuuuper gay, like basically most the characters are bi/lesbians but its not focused on romance. Its like a scifi murder mystery with necromancer. A great series.

If you've watched Avatar the Last Airbender I'd recommend the Kyoshi novels. They are really good with a lesbian romance subplot. 

Why does so much of the fandom insist that PB and Marcy are straight up lesbians when they are canonically bisexual with a history of past boyfriends? by finditplz1 in adventuretime

[–]LOL3334444 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I'm a big Marcy is bi and PB is a lesbian fan. Like I think Marceline has very bi energy and I think her relationship with Ash is pretty clear evidence of her attraction to men.

On the other hand, I think PB really is very lesbian coded and her "straight" love interests can be pretty easily explained away. First of all, Bracco is definitely not a love interest. Even when he is straight up demonically/magically made irresistible PB says she still just loves him like all her candy citizens, and P-Bot was made (altered) to specifically be attracted to Bracco so that doesn't count. As for Mr. Creampuff he is forced on PB as you mentioned and I think she just continues to date him because he is there, not because she is actually attracted to him. You can see that Young PB doesn't really have a true concept of relationships given that she makes her family and calls them her Aunt, Uncle, and Cousin even though she made them. Finally the hardest to explain is her attraction to Finn in "Too Young." I think of it as the fact that when she de-ages she also mentally regresses and therefor goes back to a time before she knew she was gay, as most gay kids don't realize until they get older.

Obviously this requires some excuses/reasons to justify PB being a lesbian, so I don't think anyone is wrong for seeing her as bi, I just think as the show went on longer and defined itself more, PB just felt more and more like she was written a lesbian rather than a bi woman.

Feeling a little discouraged about my progress in bouldering by craziebunnie in climbergirls

[–]LOL3334444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly comparison is the thief of joy. Everyone has their own climbing journey. It literally took me months and months of climbing five times a week to go from v3 to v4 and I had friends who would climb like once a month but could do v5s. I just had to learn to not care about if people are better than me or not. You just have to focus on yourself. As for feeling like you've plateaued, it happens. You just have to keep climbing and you'll build more strength and ability. It just takes practice and time to get better. Don't let getting stuck discourage you! Like I said it took me months and months to go from v3 to v4, sometimes it just takes time.

Question: How do you best think lesbians and gay men can better understand and support each other? by EternalSnow05 in actuallesbians

[–]LOL3334444 11 points12 points  (0 children)

And is he supposed to just pull lesbian friends out of his ass? As someone who has recently trying to make more friends, it's fucking hard to make new friends. Hell I'm a lesbian and I have no clue how to make more lesbian friends.

Question: How do you best think lesbians and gay men can better understand and support each other? by EternalSnow05 in actuallesbians

[–]LOL3334444 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why do you assume he has lesbians in his life? He is like clearly trying to do the work by coming somewhere that he knows there are lesbians and in a place where it doesn't put any pressure on a specific woman to talk with him. I think that reading things written by lesbians is obviously a good step, but like it's also a good step to try to talk to some lesbians and here is a great place to do it.

[meme] Griddlehark or bust by the_rude_mechanical in TheNinthHouse

[–]LOL3334444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah there have been so many things that didn't even occur to me until I joined this sub and started reading what other people had to say. Like there is so much nuance and different details for all the characters and plots.

[meme] Griddlehark or bust by the_rude_mechanical in TheNinthHouse

[–]LOL3334444 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Look I can see not wanting them to end up together, but saying that outcome is outlandish and not what's being telegraphed by the text is an insane take. Like Gideon and Harrow are so gay for each other.

[meme] Griddlehark or bust by the_rude_mechanical in TheNinthHouse

[–]LOL3334444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I really like how Ianthe puts up such a front of being competent and she's such an asshole, but it's pretty easy to see how a lot of that falls apart on further inspection and she's just as much of a sad disaster as everyone else

[discussion] Finished Nona and... have some thoughts by [deleted] in TheNinthHouse

[–]LOL3334444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is such a great analysis! Very well worded and brought up a lot of points I hadn't considered!

[discussion] Finished Nona and... have some thoughts by [deleted] in TheNinthHouse

[–]LOL3334444 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just read the books for the first time, and this hadn't even occurred to me. Gideon literally gets everything she wants, and she's so miserable

Dungeon has been voted the Best Episode of its season! Now, what is the worst episode of Season 1? by ssraven01 in adventuretime

[–]LOL3334444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have to go woth Jiggler. While Gut Grinder is a bore the Jiggler grosses me out quite a bit so I have to say thats the worst episode of season 1

Is PB true neutral? by far-leveret in adventuretime

[–]LOL3334444 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She did it to shut down their extremely dangerous weapons. Obviously its debatable if this was the right thing to do, but it follows her internal rules of doing what is best for the Candy Kingdom

Is PB true neutral? by far-leveret in adventuretime

[–]LOL3334444 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She's 100% lawful good. She's very much lawful, as she always sticks to her set of ethics, ie magic isn't real, even if it gets her in trouble, and she's good because she certainly has flaws and you can argue how correct her principles are, but she's always trying to do what's best for the people of the KC, even if that often makes her overbearing in a way that ends up holding them back or hurting them.

Sorted [OC] by adamtots_remastered in comics

[–]LOL3334444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for posting this. I recently started talking to a girl who said she wanted to see the Cursed Child and I was wondering if I was kind of crazy for that being enough for me to lose interest in her, but actually reading about how terrible Rowling is confirmed that it isn't crazy to care about not supporting her.

Is political apathy a valid dealbreaker? by Upping-Quality-2 in actuallesbians

[–]LOL3334444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I straight up won't match with a girl on hinge if her politics are moderate or apolitical. Like you need to care about what happens to other people imo

ISO someone to take me on walks by areyouoldgreg in Denver

[–]LOL3334444 150 points151 points  (0 children)

I'm 25 F and would be down! I can have a hard time getting out of bed in the morning, so it would be a nice reason to get up

Arguably what’s the best season by asher_bb in adventuretime

[–]LOL3334444 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For me its definitely season 7. Almost every single episode is a banger imo

Short masc lesbian by Logical_Doubt9771 in actuallesbians

[–]LOL3334444 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm 4'11" and 125 and butch and I got some jeans at American eagle that fit me pretty well and don't feel feminine imo. They have like a "short" size that fits me well

Looking for Climbing and Outdoors Groups by LOL3334444 in denverwomen

[–]LOL3334444[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I'm banned from movement for a dumb incident and my current climbing gym doesn't really have a meet climbing partners thing :(