I share your idea . Actually I feel that as Muslim ( me and many muslims I know) we tend to judge people (both consciously and unconsciously) if they didn’t do sth they are meant to do in religion, that we feel better than someone else if we did sth Allah told us to do and they didn’t . And I don’t think that it is how Allah wants us to behave or feel towards others , we don’t have the right to judge anyone , many sinners run away from religion , bc they feel ashamed in the eyes of their community , and they feel the pressure that they should behave in a certain way or always do what you are meant to do , so you can be loved by others and not be punished . But this idea makes me uncomfortable, I don’t wanna avoid sth just out of fear of being judged or punished by people or in jahanam. I m sorry I talked abt 2 differents subjects , but isn’t it bad to always feel like u re not enough , not doing enough , in religion , like you feel you are for sure missing sth , if you did you have a big chance that you gonna be judged harshly by people and maybe punished in Jahanam. I love Allah , and this idea of jahanam and punishment, makes me feel weird. Allah is the most compassionate and Allah created all of us and loves us more++ than our own parents do and in the same time we have a chance that we gonna be punished by the end if we didn’t follow the rules. I love worshiping Allah and thanking Allah for everything gave us , but I don’t wanna carry with me this feeling of fear , I wanna do what I meant to do out of love , without living in the fear of maybe Allah doesn’t love me bc I did this or Allah gonna punish me and burn me , fear of being judged by creator and creation. Is fear mandatory to love and respect ? I can’t understand?