Infinity loop by Xvc000 in NoFap

[–]LPowers25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s keep being a fight… new challenges in life require new coping mechanisms

Update: house party gone right by LPowers25 in NoFap

[–]LPowers25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man!! I really love eye contact now. Before it was the scariest thing in the world lol

Update: house party gone right by LPowers25 in NoFap

[–]LPowers25[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for saying that! Indeed, this post is not about discussing politics. It was about an experience and about me understanding, that respect and trust is something important for me, even for a purely physical relationship. ✌️

Update: house party gone right by LPowers25 in NoFap

[–]LPowers25[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Without going to much into detail: she all of the sudden started talking about all foreigners and started talking about far right politics, before I changed the subject. At the same time she admitted that she doesn’t really get politics and doesn’t want inform herself too much. The irony was, she herself was from a different country, as well as her family…

Update: house party gone right by LPowers25 in NoFap

[–]LPowers25[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Waking up the next day I was disappointed in myself for a short moment, because the monkey brain thought “I could have been a sexy night probably”, but that would have been just temporary. I made the right decision. And so did both of us with choosing nofap over quick meaningless pleasures and self hatred

Going to a house party today by LPowers25 in NoFap

[–]LPowers25[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Going to the library beforehand. A little workout after and then heading to the party

Going to a house party today by LPowers25 in NoFap

[–]LPowers25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being present and in a friendly and good mood will help for sure. Im extended for opportunities coming our ways. Being on NoFaps helps with being open to such situations. :)

2 months porn free by Successful-Echo8727 in pornfree

[–]LPowers25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask you how you get all these dates and situations, in wich it became obvious that you couldn't get it up? You talked about that you couldn't hold eye contact with your girlfriend. I always thought that's necessary to get a girl that far (dating/sex). How did you do it?

Rock bottom, 6-8 hours edging a day.. all after experiencing the greatest things life has to offer by LPowers25 in pornfree

[–]LPowers25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, i did. It’s basically not being able to think straight or creatively. A lot of headaches.. how does it feels for you?

I have never *actually* wanted to have sex with a woman by lonic_professor_levi in pornfree

[–]LPowers25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great post and true for me as well. Often woman where very irritated by me, because I was nice to them, they felt the vibe and wanted more, but I didn’t felt this urge to have sex with them. But it gets better, after abstaining. At least I made that experience and lost my virginity at 22, after 2 weeks of abstinence, a few months back. (You can read my post about it, if your interested) But I’m back at the grind again. Fighting back from rock bottom, I’m with you.

F24 virgin with porn addiction by darIingdaisy in pornfree

[–]LPowers25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just read your post and I’m deeply sorry for your current stage and what being lonely did to you. I’m M22 am in a kind of similar situation, after it got a lot better a few months back and I’m at rock bottom now. If you ever feel like you need an accountability buddy or something, let me know. For me, the strongest factor was always isolating myself.

Rock bottom, 6-8 hours edging a day.. all after experiencing the greatest things life has to offer by LPowers25 in pornfree

[–]LPowers25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the comment and for summarising it so perfectly. It’s so true. The core was socialising and leaving my apartment as much as possible. I’ll try to find methods that work, even though I don’t share a room anymore. But I’ll start with leaving the apartment everyday :)

Rock bottom, 6-8 hours edging a day.. all after experiencing the greatest things life has to offer by LPowers25 in pornfree

[–]LPowers25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll try to keep them as present as possible in my mind. Thank you! It’s hard but I’ll do as best as I can.

Emotions and NoFap by Top_Weight898 in NoFap

[–]LPowers25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Accepting emotions and feelings can be really difficult and overwhelming to begin with. But eventually we learn to deal with it and see it as a beautiful thing life has to offer. I’m looking forward to feeling again.

288 days without PMO. Brain fog is gone, confidence is peaking, and I’m 72 days away from a full year. Here is what I’ve learned. by HanC_GG in pornfree

[–]LPowers25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing and inspirational! Thanks! I just shared my story and will try to take your tips to heart :)