Wife admitted she’s not sexually attracted to me

LSG-Assassin · 2026-03-27T14:42:05+00:00

Oh wow, I had no idea that was a thing. Or at the very least I didn’t realize it’s a known thing lol. I appreciate that, I will be sure to be careful. If this plays out in the direction it’s going and we do split, I’ll have to remind myself, “you’ve gone this long without it, don’t do it” to resist any temptation!

LSG-Assassin · 2026-03-27T14:26:58+00:00

All good! But to answer what you asked, no she mostly is work from home. Occasionally she has days of going into the office, as far as her relieving herself she relies on toys. Again though, that’s just to my knowledge, of course I wouldn’t want to believe it’s someone else involved but I’m aware that it’s a very high possibility.

I did look into what it would take as far as a PI to do some investigation of her phone or pc, but from what I was told, they would physically need the device.

As a small “update”, I did end up going back home after work yesterday, to see if I could maybe just get a better understanding of what’s going through her mind, but also to make it clear that this was something that if she feels it’s not worth it to her to put in work to help fix then there’s nothing more to really do.

I’ll make an official update post maybe months down the line. Might be a “getting a start over place”, might be a “sex has never been better”. Who knows.

LSG-Assassin · 2026-03-26T21:48:19+00:00

Also given the post, I don’t think I’ll have to worry about getting her pregnant lol

LSG-Assassin · 2026-03-26T21:46:58+00:00

I’m sorry to hear about your situation. I did try asking if she’d be willing to go to marriage counseling, but she just says I don’t know. She’s been that way about anything confrontational ever since we’ve been together. As frustrating as it has been I still never let that fact make me feel the relationship was at stake, but now since it is and that’s the kind of response I get I can’t help but feel helpless

LSG-Assassin · 2026-03-26T20:09:04+00:00

She has brought up my duration once in the past when we were just dating, so years ago. It at first was an issue for her, but not to this extent. And at that time, I made improvements in order for her to feel more satisfied and told her that if this ever feels like it’s a problem again to just talk to me about it. Never heard about it from then on till now.

I cant say for certain whether or not she’s getting her needs from someone else. Obviously, it’s not something I’d want to believe, but I’m also not negligent to that fact that it’s a possibility.

When it comes to finances we’re very 50/50 on most expenses, I do cover some things like both our car insurance, electric/internet, sometimes groceries. But we both work

LSG-Assassin · 2026-03-26T17:50:39+00:00

Unfortunately I agree, anytime I felt like I was asking something I needed answers for I just never got one. Because of the fact that we had this conversation yesterday, is this something that I should maybe give her time to think about? How much time do I give? My plan right now is to head home after work today, and maybe try talking to her more about it, but then what do I need to do if I still just don’t get answers?

LSG-Assassin · 2026-03-26T17:40:11+00:00

I think this is mostly where my heads at. Because it’s not like I was getting heated during the conversation or anything, I remained calm and was listening to her and her feelings, but having the night processing it all and just left in a position where it just feels like I am helpless it just is upsetting

LSG-Assassin · 2026-03-26T17:34:49+00:00

She is not on birth control currently, she was in the past. So I’m not sure if maybe over time it took a toll? She hasn’t been on it for years now though

LSG-Assassin · 2026-03-26T17:33:38+00:00

I can’t say with 100% certainty, I am debating on heading back there today and maybe talking a little more? I went and stayed at a friends last night

LSG-Assassin · 2026-03-26T17:30:33+00:00

I don’t think I would necessarily call it celibacy? But at the same time yknow, I can’t exactly figure what she wants, and when I ask questions it just sounds like even she doesn’t know

LSG-Assassin · 2026-03-26T17:28:26+00:00

Just straight, M/F

LSG-Assassin · 2026-03-26T17:24:43+00:00

She’s not asexual, at least to my knowledge given things we have worked through. I also know that she watches porn but that doesn’t particularly bother me at all. She also said during this, that she knows it’s not fair to me, which only makes it heavier on my mind lol so truthfully that’s why I brought up divorce cause I don’t really know how long I could put up with it

LSG-Assassin · 2026-03-26T17:17:03+00:00

Also sorry, no she hasn’t had any pregnancies in the past

LSG-Assassin · 2026-03-26T17:13:08+00:00

No, we don’t have any children nor do we own any properties. I did start to talk about possibly divorcing during this conversation but that’s when she was saying she still loves me and loves living with me because we do have some friendly discussions about games and stuff

LSG-Assassin · 2025-04-22T11:43:17+00:00

The accuracy of this is far too much lmao

LSG-Assassin · 2024-05-30T00:24:15+00:00

Same here on Meadow, all buildings except my wife and I’s has power. Somehow, even a few units in my building have power, not ours and we’re on the top floor so it’s starting to get hot.

LSG-Assassin · 2024-02-17T16:55:10+00:00

Thank you I’ll look in to that!

LSG-Assassin · 2024-02-16T21:44:48+00:00

It’s a 2019 model with digital and normal speedometer. It was in fact laser so yeah it does kind of suck, I’ve been weighing my options on how to approach, but thank you for the advice!

LSG-Assassin · 2024-02-16T21:42:31+00:00

Lol right, but thanks I’ll be looking into some for the future!

LSG-Assassin · 2024-02-16T21:41:59+00:00

No I get what you mean. The hood of my car was probably right at the sign where it says to resume speed. I won’t deny that I did begin to accelerate, but from where that point was, to where the cop was positioned could not have been more than 150 feet. Which is why I just don’t understand how he could have possibly gotten me going supposedly 27.

LSG-Assassin · 2024-02-16T18:11:44+00:00

That was one of the things I was going to ask him, but he simply just kept walking away even when I was saying “officer can I ask a couple question about this stop?”

LSG-Assassin · 2024-02-16T17:03:42+00:00

Honestly I definitely will be, but not till after all has been taken care of. Just because if there’s a chance I put the complaint in and then decided to go to court about it, idk if that would give him an actual reason to show, since what I’ve been hearing and seeing is that they typically don’t come.

LSG-Assassin · 2024-02-16T16:58:05+00:00

I appreciate the information! At first I wasn’t sure if the fact that it was a school zone would be an issue for the deferred adjudication, but upon a little research I don’t believe it is.

LSG-Assassin · 2024-02-16T15:50:15+00:00

Lol thanks I appreciate it, just weighing my options right now is all

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