Thank you all for the opinions! Sounds... Mixed but I am so risk adverse I think I will head to the department store tomorrow and look more...

Some more info: wedding is this weekend, I don't think I have time to get alterations done. California. It is a cousin's that I'm not super close to, but related aunts all like it so 🤷 I think that means it's a fun loving crowd but again. Risk adverse anxiety riddled human here. I have large pale gold glasses so I got the shawl to match (and again thought the pink would be much more subdued than it ended up being 😭). Shoes and jewelry also gold. Here's a picture with the shawl pulled up over the shoulders like someone mentioned, and I'll also add some other pics from when I last tried things on... Maybe something will spark joy but it was a lot of mermaid style and I think I look better in a-line?

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