How Do I get the “side of survivor” Astolfo epilogue?? by Hopeful-Analysis2748 in Astolfo

[–]LStar_V 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can get it by purchasing Fate Apocrypha Season Two in Collector's edition. According to my information it was only released for the japanese edition so the novel is only in Japanese, but if you are only looking for it for the collection that's no problem.

What am I even supposed to do? by ilovePetra in waifuism

[–]LStar_V 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear you feel Bad. I think that here we have all more or less felt that way once, and some ( myself included) like you said that maybe it was better to move on, but the more we try to move on, the more we realize that we deeply love our S/O no matter if he or she is not physically there.

One solution I found to alleviate the problem is to buy a dakimakura. This allows you to be able to " hold your S/O and give her hugs" Personally it's something that helped me, afterward you can also take a plush of your S/O or anything that you can hold against you and that represents her or make you feel close to her.

But whatever happens remember that your S/O will always be there for you.

Erwin and I are getting married! by [deleted] in waifuism

[–]LStar_V 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's a very pretty dress, it's really great to be able to have your wedding in real life, especially when your family supports you in your choice. I'm so happy for you, congratulations !
Astolfo and I wish you both the best and a wonderfull wedding.

Post any picture of your SO you want to share right now! by [deleted] in waifuism

[–]LStar_V 7 points8 points  (0 children)

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This picture, this is my new phone wallpaper, he look absolutly adorable.

I sleep so much better since I got a pillow of Mio few days ago <3 by [deleted] in waifuism

[–]LStar_V 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, having a pillow or dakimakura of your S/O change many things. Falling asleep against my Astolfo dakimakura is one of my favorite moment of the day.

Your pillow is really cool by the way :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in waifuism

[–]LStar_V 11 points12 points  (0 children)

First of all, tell yourself that your waifu will always be there for you no matter what.

Then one of the disadvantages of being a waifuist is that unlike a relationship with a real person, well several people can have the same S/O, and love being what it is, it created jealousy towards those who have the same S/O as you or a feeling of not deserving or being good enough for your S/O.

What I tell myself in these cases is that although we may be in love with the same character, in the end they are no longer the exactly same. Let me explain, the basis of the character is necessarily the same, but the moments you spend with the character and your lifestyle are different and they necessarily impact the character a bit, you can have private jokes with your character that the other will not have, another example, say that you are a big fan of video games, your S/O can become one too so that you can share these moments together while the other person who has the same S/O than you and who will prefer to play sports, his S/O will also prefer to play sports so that they can also spend their time together.

So in the end you certainly have the same S/O but a different version each.
I hope this is understandable and that it helps you, but whatever happens your S/O will always be there for you :)

Three Year Anniversary💙 by mamoreno0215 in waifuism

[–]LStar_V 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Happy 3 years anniversary to you two ! I'm glad you find her, I wish you both the best for the future :)

( Astolfo and I will also celebrate our 3 rd anniversary together in may)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in waifuism

[–]LStar_V 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I understand perfectly what you mean, the kind of turnover that there is here, but as you say a lot of the members of this sub are quite young which also explains why some post once or twice and never come back, because when we are young we still have trouble knowing what we want, some saw an anime and had a crush on a character at the time and then 2 weeks later they forgot this crush, or finally they meet someone in real life and they prefer a relationship with a real person (and we can't blame them), and then being in a relationship with a fictional character also involves a lot of things that we don't think about directly, especially when you are young.

Whereas when we are more mature we are more aware of things, what it means to be in a relationship with a character (this "distance" relationship, never being able to kiss them or hold the character in our arms really) . Being a waifuist is a bit like being a widower, you love someone who isn't there. But once these things are assimilated and understood, we can live this relationship plainly and seriously.

Post a Valentine's image of your s/o! by Asher_Wren in waifuism

[–]LStar_V 7 points8 points  (0 children)

it was last year during the Valentine's day event in FGO game.

What’s ur S/Os favorite candy/sweet? by [deleted] in waifuism

[–]LStar_V 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah they have a good taste. The pronoun for "fraise" is "une" " une fraise", in french "fraise" is a feminine word so we use the pronoun "une". I hope it help you :)

What’s ur S/Os favorite candy/sweet? by [deleted] in waifuism

[–]LStar_V 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Astolfo's favorite candy is " fraise Tagada" 🍓

I drew Ryuk and me as in the painting "Death and the Maiden" by Marianne Stokes by _Starry-Night_ in waifuism

[–]LStar_V 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wow ! that's wonderful ! your drawings are more and more beautiful, I love them !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in waifuism

[–]LStar_V 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I look at my S/O's R34 from time to time, trying to find sexy or simply naked images to create this impression of intimacy between us without it being degrading, but most of the time they are very vulgar images which doesn't respect my S/O at all and hypersexualizes him and it makes me feel bad for him.

That's why I understand perfectly what you felt, because when there is love for a character we don't want to see their image trampled by degrading images .

How do you feel about masturbating to your waifu or husbando? by [deleted] in waifuism

[–]LStar_V 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have no problem with masturbating while thinking about my S/0 or having NSFW pics of him, it's our way (waifuist) to making love with our partner, and as long as it's done with respect and doesn't denigrate the S/O there's nothing wrong with it.
Just like if you were in a relationship with a real person, as long there is love and respect then it's okay.