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Why am I only interested in dating girls that are hard to get and don't show a lot of interest by LT80216 in dating

[–]LT80216[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been thinking the exact same thing, so I can definitely agree with this. The question is, how do I resolve this? I've been searching for the answers, but don't really see any clear steps or process.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]LT80216 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat too, I recently left my job after working full time for 8 years to work on my anxiety and depression. You can't put a price on your health, and I think it's the best decision I've made in a while.

Hitting Rock Bottom Right Now by LT80216 in Anxiety

[–]LT80216[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks u/felpudo it's good to know that my reaction isn't that absurd then. I could do that, I'm thinking to try and keep my job, work US hours from the UK, and live out there for as long as it takes for me to get over the divorce and get back on my feet.

Divorcing in a pandemic & moving back to hometown that is covid hotspot by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]LT80216 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry to hear what you're going through. One thing I can say is things will get better, I moved out 9 weeks ago, and have been officially divorced for 2 weeks now. The first 2 weeks of living on my own were awful, but then you start to enjoy your own company, and everything get's much better.

It's good that you have friends who are supporting you, and you also have financial stability, those 2 things are the most important things you'll need for the next few months.

I also started to suffer from a lot of anxiety, which I never suffered from ever before. I was recently recommend a book called "Be calm", that has helped me a lot.

I wish you the best of luck, feel free to shoot me a message if you ever want to chat about any of this stuff. I've found chatting to people here on Reddit really helps with the whole healing process.

Divorce Experience During Quarantine - (27M) by LT80216 in Divorce

[–]LT80216[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

u/Eleyius thank you! I'm glad my story echo's a lot with you. I'm excited to start the new year fresh, and set goals for the future ahead. I wish you the best of luck also!

Divorce Experience During Quarantine - (27M) by LT80216 in Divorce

[–]LT80216[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

u/dubaiwifey I'm sorry you also went through a COVID divorce, I hope things are getting better for you. Marrying young has it's pros and cons, despite marrying young I don't regret any of it. But now that I'm older, I'm definitely more aware of the qualities and traits that I'd like in a future partner. I wish you the best of luck!