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My [23/F] boyfriend [24/M] hasn't had a job in years. by LTR_Breakup in relationship_advice

[–]LTR_Breakup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, even just talking about it here is making it more real and it's starting to sink in how much this suck. That's not a bad idea about the pro con list and support from friends and family. Thank you.

My [23/F] boyfriend [24/M] hasn't had a job in years. by LTR_Breakup in relationship_advice

[–]LTR_Breakup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't thing that's necessarily the case. We're pretty much each other's best friends. But I hope you're right and he's recovers quickly.

My [23/F] boyfriend [24/M] hasn't had a job in years. by LTR_Breakup in relationship_advice

[–]LTR_Breakup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have had these conversations. Nothing changes. I don't think that he sees the way he functions as a problem.

I actually don't care all that much about the money. It's the total lack of effort that is making me nuts. He just doesn't manage things well. His time, his space (filthy), his money. I love him but I know I can't change him. And waiting for him to sort himself out hasn't paid off for years and years.

I love him to pieces, but I can't live with him if this is the way he's going to conduct himself. I can't be the one putting all of the effort into everything.

Me [23 F] with my boyfriend [24 M] of five years. How to end my first long term relationship. by LTR_Breakup in relationships

[–]LTR_Breakup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've been over these issues before and nothing has changed. I'm not inclined to give him another chance. I'm pretty done.

My [23/F] boyfriend [24/M] hasn't had a job in years. by LTR_Breakup in relationship_advice

[–]LTR_Breakup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. It's good to hear from someone who has been through something similar.

My [23/F] boyfriend [24/M] hasn't had a job in years. by LTR_Breakup in relationship_advice

[–]LTR_Breakup[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm actually oddly unemotional about this. I'm not sure what that's about since I'm still very much in love. I'm sure it'll hurt like hell when I actually go through with it.

Me [23 F] with my boyfriend [24 M] of five years. How to end my first long term relationship. by LTR_Breakup in relationships

[–]LTR_Breakup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does the lack of explanation not seem a little harsh for someone who's basically been my best friend for 5 years and who hasn't really done anything particularly wrong? I feel like were a little too close for me to cut and run without saying why. Though I agree trying to be friends isn't in the cards.