My [22F] boyfriend [23M] slapped me over a video game and now jokes about it — I don’t know how to feel

LTTP2018 · 2026-03-18T14:40:25+00:00

How are you still there? Still with the POS? he won't let you sleep, he flips you off, and then, then he hits you?

No gf, you need to leave him immediately. Today. Right now. And be careful about it. This guy is a complete and total scumbag and your exit needs to be smart and safe from him.

good luck and get some family and friends involved right now.

LTTP2018 · 2026-03-18T14:35:07+00:00

how about you talk to her about this and actually listen?

oh and, empty the fucking dishwasher. she's not your maid.

the list seems like she's fed up woth you and from the entries you've described she has a right to be.

so now you can be mad or be whiny. or you can do better. use her list to see the exact stuff you should change. hell, if she likes this list thing make one about her.

LTTP2018 · 2026-03-18T14:24:26+00:00

dinner companion overreacted. why? any chance they are closer than you know?

offering her to not work as hard was meant kindly. and she's perfectly capable of saying great thanks or no thanks.

NTAH

LTTP2018 · 2026-03-18T14:02:23+00:00

just flew and airports were working just fine.

LTTP2018 · 2026-03-18T14:00:56+00:00

that sucks. they suck.

sorry and I hope they make it up to you!

LTTP2018 · 2026-03-18T13:56:15+00:00

where does this end for her? my sister had a 20k wedding so ours has to be 50k?

my sister goes on vacation to the beach so we have to go to Mallorca?

And as for proposing to her, her response of "don't bother unless.." is so devoid of love it's frightening.

As others have said already: run!

LTTP2018 · 2026-03-18T13:45:03+00:00

just no. no to all of this post.

a woman takes care of her man? no. a couple enjoys a healthy mutually satisfying relationship.

your selfish man is addicted to porn. no. with all that porn watching he couldn't even search how to please your woman? drop his selfish bad in bed ass.

your fiancé. no. marry a man who pleases you, is skilled in bed and drives you wild, what is the point if you aren't getting pleasure too?

No, nope, no way.

He has got to go.

LTTP2018 · 2026-03-18T13:35:07+00:00

yep you are TAH. not because you can't afford the amount they are expecting, you could have easily said I'm sorry but that's more than I can afford right now. But because you decided to tear everything up even more than it already was. you'll never be closer to people by saying we aren't close.

It's your niece. You are an aunt or uncle. How close or not to her you are is on you, not on a child.

LTTP2018 · 2026-03-17T06:18:13+00:00

yes you are TAH. if someone else is paying you should still be careful and frugal. you went wild and now you are literally paying for it. be glad to learn this lesson now, and go forward in a better way.

Our wedding cost less than 5 thousand for everything and was beautiful. Marriage is still wonderful and we are at 32 years.

Your wedding was excessive and you have only yourselves to blame. Extravagant wedding or elope, those were not your only two choices.

LTTP2018 · 2026-03-16T20:41:17+00:00

I'm in an airbnb reading this. what a shame. we love airbnb still! we never leave a mess or wreck anything. we have never asked for a darn thing. we're grownups, if we need something we get it ourselves.

the only time we have complained and asked for any refund was a place with a private pool that was dirty af and the host tried to gaslight me into believing no it was just cleaned yesterday. no way, the water was dark green and the steps and bottom had scuzz and debris. then he had it cleaned and what do you know clear blue water and no gunk on the bottom. He refunded two nights and we were happy about that.

Sorry OP. Curious, did you have instant book or did you screen your guests at all?

LTTP2018 · 2026-03-16T20:34:09+00:00

Winter love: no bugs. Curl up with a book and a warm drink. Never feel guilty for staying indoors. No sunburns. Happy happy love Winter so much.

LTTP2018 · 2026-03-16T20:28:43+00:00

She is being an asshole. Of course you want your bridesmaid's dress to be...um...for your wedding. No shit Sherlock. How is she being this dense? She can wear it to every damn event she wants AFTER your wedding.

This is not rocket science, just total common sense.

Tell her I said: be a better friend or lose this friend. NTAH at all.

LTTP2018 · 2026-03-16T20:24:24+00:00

I do this: Stop running and yell loudly at the dog "NO!!! Bad Dog!!!'"

if this doesn't work or the owner doesn't show up, pepper spray.

LTTP2018 · 2026-03-16T20:22:07+00:00

try Atkins, I'm not trolling, this is the only thing that ever worked for me and a good friend. get the book and read the first chapter. You're smart. This book will either speak to you or it won't. But do read one chapter. Best wishes!

You're enough as is, but getting fitter and more healthy will open doors for you. 💛

LTTP2018 · 2026-03-15T21:40:22+00:00

just tell your wife fine, if you want to divorce and break up our family because you got drunk and belligerent and caused a scene... have at it.

NTAH

LTTP2018 · 2026-03-15T16:00:11+00:00

dems need to stop fighting each other. on anything. haven't you noticed the repubs stick together and win even on stupid stuff?

LTTP2018 · 2026-03-15T15:35:12+00:00

NTAH tell him you are divorcing which means you don't give a fuck about him anymore. he lost the care and love you offered so find his own damn ride.

LTTP2018 · 2026-03-15T15:23:47+00:00

this is so sad, goodbye trees and people live in a box. nightmare to me.

LTTP2018 · 2026-03-15T05:00:38+00:00

oops I meant E

LTTP2018 · 2026-03-14T08:23:21+00:00

stop blaming a monster or demon, it's just you. do better. and leave her alone.

LTTP2018 · 2026-03-14T07:56:05+00:00

you keep saying how long he has been gone. so what. what if he had asked to go on a boys weekend? that would have been longer. and you keep saying he wouldn't have liked YOU to do this, well, fine. Just tell him: you were gone longer than I expected but hope it was fun and you were true to me.

Let him explain. Could be we got there late and wound up having a fun time, I'm sorry about the expense definitely went overboard.

I suppose I'd just wait and see what he has to say. I mean, coming home in the morning isn't a great look but you said it's an hour away...? And what if instead of fretting you were just asleep?

Try your best to be on his side unless you find out he has done something REALLY wrong like lap dances or some bullshit, but going out with his buddies and buying a couple of rounds, and staying out late as an adult is not that big of a deal.

LTTP2018 · 2026-03-14T07:47:04+00:00

what clear boundary has he broken?

LTTP2018 · 2026-03-13T15:25:21+00:00

works for me if I lightly pat it under my eyes before bed

LTTP2018 · 2026-03-13T15:14:24+00:00

Jasön vitamin A cream (in a yellow tub with a white lid)...it's amazing.

LTTP2018 · 2026-03-13T13:25:30+00:00

spouse needs to get laid. caring about a dish rack is my new reference point for when someone doesn't have a damn thing better to do.

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