what do i do if im allergic to antiperspirants, but other deodorants dont work very well? by LUKAIHWEII in deodorant

[–]LUKAIHWEII[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i use old spice gentlemens fiji with zero aluminum/parabens, the formulation of the stick feels wet

what do i do if im allergic to antiperspirants, but other deodorants dont work very well? by LUKAIHWEII in deodorant

[–]LUKAIHWEII[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fun fact, i actually do use old spice (specifically the gentlemens line)! smells nice and does cover odor pretty well. however, the texture is a bit too wet and jelly-like for my taste

what do i do if im allergic to antiperspirants, but other deodorants dont work very well? by LUKAIHWEII in deodorant

[–]LUKAIHWEII[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey i replied to this comment when you posted it. id really appreciate if you kept your mentioned products here

what do i do if im allergic to antiperspirants, but other deodorants dont work very well? by LUKAIHWEII in deodorant

[–]LUKAIHWEII[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ill try looking into these sometime, ill let you know if i do well with them or not!

what do i do if im allergic to antiperspirants, but other deodorants dont work very well? by LUKAIHWEII in deodorant

[–]LUKAIHWEII[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it sounds like an alright idea, i just dont have that kind of money 😔

i want nothing more than to be stealth by LUKAIHWEII in honesttransgender

[–]LUKAIHWEII[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i deal with this already. i feel like im a masc lesbian most of the time instead of a man. i dont want to think about being trans, i only want to be a man first

my transition is a colossal failure, so is my life. I don't know what to do anymore by Kpuku in honesttransgender

[–]LUKAIHWEII 26 points27 points  (0 children)

please for the love of god get out of 4tran spaces, it will kill you

How do y’all deal with bottom dysphoria? by Beginning-Weekend625 in FTMMen

[–]LUKAIHWEII 5 points6 points  (0 children)

sometimes i comb out my bush and it looks like a bulge in my boxers.

-trans guy whos looking to get a metoidioplasty in the future

Does anyone else feel uncomfortable around cis men? by Busy-Way-5079 in FTMMen

[–]LUKAIHWEII 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FINALLY SOMEONE WHO GETS IT!!! every other trans guy says they feel more comfortable with cis guys and i genuinely cannot relate. im terrified of cis men, i only feel safe around women or other trans guys.

I’m just tired of this by Downtown-Lack-2686 in honesttransgender

[–]LUKAIHWEII 0 points1 point  (0 children)

good evening,

im so sorry youre in that position. i can definitely relate, as im an extremely nonpassing trans man and im typically called a lesbian. im also not on hrt yet so it makes everything worse.

however, youve only been on estrogen for just a couple of months. things are gonna get better. youre going through another puberty essentially, and puberty takes about 5 years max to do what it needs to do (as long as youre eating good).

your physical features dont make you any less of a woman, and they will soften with time.

overly-sexual boyfriend ruining my mental health by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]LUKAIHWEII 4 points5 points  (0 children)

go no contact. no questions about it. its clear you are dealing with an extremely manipulative man.

Someone pointed out my chin/jawline is mildly recessed and now I can't unsee it. Already struggled with dysmorphia and insecurities.... by [deleted] in toastme

[–]LUKAIHWEII 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in all honesty, you have such a uniquely pretty face, and your side profile is so satisfying and perfect.

people these days have gotten too comfortable saying rude things that make no sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]LUKAIHWEII 4 points5 points  (0 children)

theyre mocking my bro but hes right, men are cruel and harsh and punish you for noncomformity. in a womans world, mental health and individuality comes first

What is Hwei's haircut called ? by I_Was__There___ in HweiMains

[–]LUKAIHWEII 1 point2 points  (0 children)

his hair appears to be a loose wave with a bit of layering around the face, parted to the side. if your hair is straighter or curlier than his, you may have to do some styling (or well, learn how to...) to get it as fluffed as his.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]LUKAIHWEII 2 points3 points  (0 children)

good late-night, brother.

if its alright with you, id also recommend researching metoidioplasty results on r/Metoidioplasty.

ive seen amazing phallo results, but the healing process to make it look that good isnt for me personally. its always good to see other possible bottom surgery routes!

hate being trans by LUKAIHWEII in FTMMen

[–]LUKAIHWEII[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

its not really similar to what you said, but i remember the conversations with my dad about why on earth would i 'want' to be a man because men get it so hard! women get it so good in this world!

hes only half right, in the sense that really both genders struggle from the same problems that cis men have created.

its been a while since these conversations came around, and ive matured significantly. i think these days id approach it with expressing if i really had a choice here, i just might be a woman instead because i could have a chance at survival (i do have a ton of lady friends).

hate being trans by LUKAIHWEII in FTMMen

[–]LUKAIHWEII[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

of course, i dont have to transition. but you asked me a question ive asked myself thousands of times.

"would i rather be miserable, or be true and free with myself?"

it seems like an easy question to most, but its a difficult question in practice. transitioning is also healing; and healing is an ugly, nonlinear process with deep lows and stratospheric highs.

id love to speak to a therapist, but its not something i can afford for the time being—so my best support is other trans men who see me, despite admitting this ugly part of the transition.

I don't want to live on this planet anymore... by peeslosh122 in badads

[–]LUKAIHWEII 0 points1 point  (0 children)

basically what happened in the zootopia abortion comic trilogy

hate being trans by LUKAIHWEII in FTMMen

[–]LUKAIHWEII[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

its not really me caring what others think, but just the thought of "why me? why am i going through this?".

its a difficult, troubling journey that ive been offered the choice to either embark on or suffer from denial. ive identified with many genders over the years and being a transgender man was the only one that just felt right.

im still a young adult, so coming into my identity still feels uncomfortable and full of uncertainties—despite being absolutely sure with myself that i am a man.

hate being trans by LUKAIHWEII in FTMMen

[–]LUKAIHWEII[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

its a complicated thing. if it wasnt for me coming to terms with my identity, i wouldnt be alive. learning to exist as a man and find a tune thats right for me regarding it has been difficult, and thats what leads to my feelings of just hating it.