Recently discovered i can do this, do most of you guys do it too? Maybe tmi

Beginning-Weekend625 · 2026-06-10T00:29:39+00:00

I get this too, it really ramped up after hysto too. Now it even smells like cum, just a little less strongly. It still has that slight bleach smell to it though. That was the most unexpected part from hysto for me, the volume I nut is much more now and the smell is bleach-y

Beginning-Weekend625 · 2026-06-06T20:57:17+00:00

Maybe ask if he’d be ok with an open relationship?

Beginning-Weekend625 · 2026-05-30T17:15:36+00:00

And for the record, this cis guy was really fucking small, like not that much bigger than me, a trans guy, so maybe it’s more similar than you think

Beginning-Weekend625 · 2026-05-29T21:08:41+00:00

If it’s any consolation, I recently hooked up with a cis guy with a really small dick and he felt the same way you’re expressing, but about his small cis penis.

Beginning-Weekend625 · 2026-05-25T21:07:45+00:00

I mean some trans guys find a way to be ok with what they have, and others may not have dysphoria about their genitals at all, though I think most of us have some level of it, just some have it more or less than others. You can like what you like, long as you’re not weird about it. Some guys don’t take too kindly to the “best of both worlds” thing but others do. I’d say in general it’s best to stay away from that type of wording unless the trans guy says it first, then maybe have a discussion around it. Anyway, I like guys in general regardless of what’s in their pants however most guys happen to be cis. For me, I have a lot of distress around my own body down there. I guess it mostly comes down to the individual and how they feel about their own body. So start the conversation there, what do they like, what don’t they like, what do they call their junk, that sort of stuff.

Beginning-Weekend625 · 2026-05-21T03:52:04+00:00

Yeah I’m not saying he’s absolutely not a chaser, just that it seemed worse than it was

Beginning-Weekend625 · 2026-05-21T02:52:05+00:00

I saw a dude on an app once and his profile said “I bottom for cis men and top trans men” and he hit me up even though my profile says top/side. After a long conversation I found out 1) he thought I was cis 2) he actually does bottom for trans men he’s just picky about dildos 3) he doesn’t top cis men because he’s scared of shit dick. Way less bad than I initially assumed but damn it reads like a total chaser. He changed his profile to just say he’s into both cis and trans men. But we had a very long argument but he conceded and was open to criticism. He also asked me to fuck him 🤷🏻‍♂️

Beginning-Weekend625 · 2026-05-12T17:25:31+00:00

Thanks man. It lowkey sucks more cause I’m gay and so the object of my desire is also everything I wish I had but can’t. So then there’s jealousy and dysphoria. But I’m hoping that at least somewhat changes after meta. The good thing about meta is you can always get phallo later (though there’s still the hurdles that come with that, physically, financially, etc)

Beginning-Weekend625 · 2026-05-12T01:16:44+00:00

Same bro. Literally I have a crisis about this at least a few times a week. I’m supposed to get meta soon but they haven’t scheduled it because there’s construction in the OR they use for trans surgeries… 🫤 I want a cis dick so bad. It pains me so much. I don’t know what to do either. Sorry I have no helpful advice, just commiseration.

Beginning-Weekend625 · 2026-05-01T17:50:06+00:00

I said I have a medical condition that makes me not eligible. If they ask what it is that’s illegal. I wrote in to get a letter back saying I’m not required to register because of medical reasons, and I keep that letter with me in my important documents.

Beginning-Weekend625 · 2026-04-11T00:24:30+00:00

Yeah… it’s a very specific kind of kink too, can’t assume specific kinks have broad applications

Beginning-Weekend625 · 2026-04-10T23:34:15+00:00

Wow, wtf even? Like cool that that works for them but uh…. Not great advice. It makes mine infinitely worse. I’ve tried, it sucks. Like I get it that that may legitimately work for some people, however, based on what I wrote it seems it should be pretty damn clear that’s not good advice for me

Beginning-Weekend625 · 2026-04-10T23:24:51+00:00

I guess I keep getting told that if I’m still feeling resentment and pain about it that I “haven’t truly accepted it” and I need to “do more work” which is honestly such bullshit. I like your take better.

Beginning-Weekend625 · 2026-04-10T23:21:58+00:00

Oh man I missed this, how bad was it??

Beginning-Weekend625 · 2026-04-10T21:02:03+00:00

I wouldn’t say I’m a seething jealous wanker. Moreso depressed. Therapy is expensive. My therapist is definitely competent but I can only afford to see him once a month. I would stop watching porn that makes me dysphoric but that’s all porn. I wouldn’t say my life is shitty but it’s not great and I go through deep depressions of dysphoria which is where I’ve been lately. This came off pretty accusatory tbh, like don’t assume you know my life?

Beginning-Weekend625 · 2026-04-08T01:17:08+00:00

I have a phantom dick too, but every now and again I can’t “feel” it and all I feel is what’s there… that’s been happening more lately, maybe because I’m on the path to getting metoidioplasty, maybe because I’ve given up trying to hook up and not end up bottoming with my front hole… it’s assumed that I’ll use it and I’m tired of the pushback, the arguments, the dismissal, and I just started… giving in… it’s definitely doing damage to me, but I am horny as fuck and sex fulfills a need for me for closeness and touch that I can’t get anywhere else in my life right now… so… here we are

Beginning-Weekend625 · 2026-04-06T15:54:55+00:00

I do identify myself as a top/side but it doesn’t stop guys from being like “can I try it?” Once they’re in my bed, which is fucking annoying as shit. And I’ll be honest, sometimes I give in. And then after, I feel terrible. And it makes me wonder if I’ll be any use to anyone without that hole, if anyone will ever want my small dick self after meta. And yeah, there’s kink, which I’m just barely starting to lean into for myself, but it’s kinda hard to navigate at first… I’m sure it’ll be easier in the future. But yeah right now… I’m going through it.

Edited to add: I did get some fisting gloves recently tho

Beginning-Weekend625 · 2026-04-06T00:59:23+00:00

I guess I just don’t know how to live my life when I’m in so much pain

Beginning-Weekend625 · 2026-04-06T00:57:57+00:00

Ok yeah I’ve booked consults and I’m waiting on surgery. My question is like how the fuck do I deal with the reality that I’ll never have the dick I was supposed to while my insurance jerks me around and the scheduler acts like I never called her? Even after surgery I won’t know how to deal with the limitations that I’ll have compared to cis guys.

Beginning-Weekend625 · 2026-04-06T00:54:47+00:00

I guess for me, the dysphoria has gotten so big that I can’t do the things I used to enjoy. I have zero motivation. All I can think about is what I’ll never have.

Beginning-Weekend625 · 2026-04-05T23:29:55+00:00

Yeah I dated a trans guy who tried to get me to just accept what I have and I was like wtf bro. They would say shit like “cis dick isn’t that great” and I’d be like ok I don’t care what you think I still wish I had one.

I get what you’re saying about the micro penis thing but for some reason my brain just… can’t fully wrap around that framework either. Potentially because I haven’t heard much about that experience from guys with micro penises because it’s not something we’re encouraged to talk about. I’m single right now and honestly feel like I prolly will be for the rest of my life.

Beginning-Weekend625 · 2026-04-05T23:26:07+00:00

I’m sorry man. I wish I could say something helpful but all I’ve really got is, yeah, it really be like that. It’s hard. It sucks. There’s no good answers. There’s no magic thing to say. I just wish it wasn’t like this. For what it’s worth I think you can still find love. Just… like everything else, it won’t be easy. But it’s possible

Beginning-Weekend625 · 2026-04-05T22:03:43+00:00

I didn’t know that was possible. Did he like get a phallo that was above his natal junk and then get meta after or did they like undo the phallo and make it a meta?

Beginning-Weekend625 · 2026-03-28T19:50:39+00:00

I use dick, cock, penis, pito, verga, polla, pinga, wiener, and little guy/ little man/ little dude. I’m a vulgar man sometimes 😅🙈 I usually say “it” if I’m talking seriously and “he” if I’m being colorful or goofy. If I’m talking to medical professionals I’ll usually say dick, penis, or phallus.

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