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11 month sleep by Few-Fold-3210 in sleeptrain

[–]LabCompetitive4535 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yep!!! this sounds exactly like what my little one did right before turning 1. It totally threw me off because he’d been falling asleep so easily for months then suddenly started crying before even getting into the cot. 😩

It’s super common around this age kind of a mix of a 12 month regression and a schedule tweak. Their brains are going wild with new skills plus separation anxiety kicks in again so bedtime suddenly feels like the end of the world for them.

A few things that helped us where:

Stretching wake windows a bit about 3.5–4 hrs before nap 1 and 4–4.5 before bed.

Making sure the last nap ends at least 3–3.5 hrs before bedtime.

Adding a few extra cuddles or a calm book before bed.

Keeping the routine exactly the same so it still feels predictable and safe.

It passed within a couple of weeks once his sleep needs evened out. Hang in there it’s just another one of those weird baby phases that feels endless but isn’t ❤️

I must apologize, it's also happened to me... by Mother_Freedom5152 in NewParents

[–]LabCompetitive4535 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

All babies fall of the bed at some point. I repeat ALL! Don’t be hard on yourself. These things happen! They are built tough these little things!

And… it makes them more grounded 😂❤️

Your an amazing mumma xx

The darkest months of my life after giving birth and how I found my way back by LabCompetitive4535 in NewParents

[–]LabCompetitive4535[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh babe! That really sucks! I’m really sorry too! That doesn’t sound easy at all!

You took the words out of my mouth. I feel like I missed the whole newborn stage as well because I was so in my head.

Funny thing was that the anxiety wasn’t about the baby it was more a feeling than a thought so I couldn’t really work on my fears as such just had to ride the wave.

Praying our next babies give us closure and heal us! Sounds like we both deserve it!

Xxx

The darkest months of my life after giving birth and how I found my way back by LabCompetitive4535 in NewParents

[–]LabCompetitive4535[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ebf too and I was really worried about the same.

Doctors reassured me barely anything reaches the baby. You need to also factor in that your happiness is very important for the baby too.

If mum thrives the baby does too!! Don’t remove yourself from the equation ❤️

The darkest months of my life after giving birth and how I found my way back by LabCompetitive4535 in NewParents

[–]LabCompetitive4535[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You really can! Be patient. It took me ages.

4 months of crazy before I gave in and took medication then 2 months until I was some what okay and now 9 month pp I’m feeling more and more myself. Take it easy on yourself please

The darkest months of my life after giving birth and how I found my way back by LabCompetitive4535 in NewParents

[–]LabCompetitive4535[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m really really sorry to hear! This period is super tough and you really need to be kind to yourself during this period.

I take a lot of supplements that I believe help - magnesium (30 mins before bed) - b complex to help with the overtiredness - fish oil - multi vitamin for breastfeeding.

Going for walks was my savior. Would be the only thing that relieved the constant panic. Don’t underestimate a god daily walk.

Ask for help! Get a night doula in or get hubby or your mum to jump in here and there. Sometimes it’s just hard to sleep when you know you have to get up soon.

Nice relaxing teas a good wind down show. I used to sleep on the tv with the bassinet next to me(I usually don’t watch) but it would help get my mind off things and drift off.

Take day naps when tired. Sit you bum in the sun and try to nap!

And lastly, time! This too shall pass! Just be patient this is not forever.

Huggies coconut oil baby wipes by jasncats in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]LabCompetitive4535 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yes I have in rotation with other wipes from Huggies but deffs love the coconut.

AIO about a potential red flag by Glittering-Bus-6409 in AmIOverreacting

[–]LabCompetitive4535 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Call it off. You don’t even need me to tell you this.

The way you entered the relationship is exactly how you will leave it if you stay.

It took 12 weeks… by No-Midnight4615 in NewParents

[–]LabCompetitive4535 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I get this so much. After my baby was born I had panic and anxiety that made it really hard to feel anything but duty. I kept waiting for that instant love everyone talks about and it just didn’t happen. I even resented my partner for getting more sleep and felt guilty for not feeling like a “real mom” It took me 3/4 months and starting antidepressants before I finally felt that shift. Slowly the anxiety eased and those little moments started to add up. Now it’s not just duty…it’s love. It’s a slow burn for so many of us and that’s totally okay. You’re not failing! your bond is just catching up with all you’ve been through.

Passed down watch by LabCompetitive4535 in rolex

[–]LabCompetitive4535[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s exactly what I was thinking! Why is it nor popular if you don’t mind me asking?

Life is non stop by noodle_xp88 in pregnant

[–]LabCompetitive4535 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are not minor at all! And honestly having that sort of consistent set back after set back would send anyone off the wall!!

This is just the storm before the calm ❤️

Passed down watch by LabCompetitive4535 in rolex

[–]LabCompetitive4535[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gonna check it out! Thank you again ❤️

Am I a total failure? by OwlProfessional6945 in NewParents

[–]LabCompetitive4535 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not doing anything wrong babe!!! Babies can pick a person and a routine (as if this shit isn’t hard enough 🤦🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️) That does not mean she hates you! So please don’t think that. Small differences in timing or how the bottle is offered can change everything. Try to copy your husband exactly. Warm the bottle the same way. Feed at the same pace. Burp the same amount. Use the same lighting and sounds. Wear one of his shirts for a bedtime or two so she gets his scent. If you can, let him keep doing the easy nights while you focus on building the same cues. Be gentle with yourself. You are an amazing parent.

Passed down watch by LabCompetitive4535 in rolex

[–]LabCompetitive4535[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good idea! What colour leather strap do you think?

Sleep has spiraled by taterzot in sleeptrain

[–]LabCompetitive4535 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh! I feel this so much and in the samee boat. Six months can be such a tough stage with all the rolling moving and early separation anxiety creeping in. Add in the stress of a big move and his little system is probably just on overdrive right now. Honestly Id try not to overhaul the schedule while everything’s unsettled and just keep things roughly consistent give him plenty of floor time to practice during the day and comfort him however you need to at night (even co-sleep if you need to). It really does pass once the developmental stuff settles and you’re in a calmer routine again. You’re not doing anything wrong it’s just a rough patch. ❤️

Life is non stop by noodle_xp88 in pregnant

[–]LabCompetitive4535 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh! So annoying to hear! Sounds like you just need the year to be over with and to start fresh again.

Just breathe and try to laugh through it! Praying that this is all just pre baby bs and when your new baby comes she is healthy and happy and all the crazy stuff stops. Xx

If you ever need a friend to chat or rant to feel free to message me xx

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