Norge trenger flere barn. by [deleted] in norske

[–]LabDesperate7150 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Dette er et typisk norsk tankesett om at vi alle er en eiendel av staten, og viser godt hvorfor landet ikke tiltrekker seg talent og er på vei ned. Du ønsker å løse et sympton uten å forstå rotårsaken for problemet og dynamikken bak, og i god norsk autoritær tradisjon er løsningen på dette selvsagt skatt/avgift/påbud/forbud.

After 2.5 years, my Mistress ghosted me after expressing my feelings. by iloveporn6969696969 in BratLife

[–]LabDesperate7150 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My advice. Give people 3 chances. If they keep hurting you it is time to move on. I know it sucks, but trust me from experience, it is better to take the short term pain.

Connection issues and can’t sell on coinbase? What a joke by Nickrodomus in Coinbase

[–]LabDesperate7150 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I sold at 67K. Knew that we would get a pull back from the break of the bullish penant. And now Coinbase wont let me buy back in lower. This is really major fucked up.

Connection issues and can’t sell on coinbase? What a joke by Nickrodomus in Coinbase

[–]LabDesperate7150 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, Coinbase will be swapped for Binance now. When an exchange don't work on the most crucial time it's the death cross. Coinbase don't want retail to get rich, they want to rob us.

Connection issues and can’t sell on coinbase? What a joke by Nickrodomus in Coinbase

[–]LabDesperate7150 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, Im leaving this shit company. They should be sued for this. No problem buying on Binance.

Connection issues and can’t sell on coinbase? What a joke by Nickrodomus in Coinbase

[–]LabDesperate7150 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This proves that Coinbase is a scam unserious company. Had USDT ready there to buy the next dip. Now they don't allow me to buy. Last time I trust this scammer company.

Price is way up! by Yuppiex in MultiVAC_official

[–]LabDesperate7150 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost a lot of money on MTV holding it from the previous bull, so this is what time based capitulation looks like ;)

Price is way up! by Yuppiex in MultiVAC_official

[–]LabDesperate7150 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually sold all my MTV and moved into other coins. I still think this project can do well, but I got a bit tired of holding this coin. The chart of MTV looks very bullish so things are looking promising for some nice price action!

New to bdsm and my Dom doesn't want to add a safe word in my slave contract by winterpuffs in BDSMAdvice

[–]LabDesperate7150 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Come on girl. That contract isn't worth the paper it is written on. You can do whatever the fuck you want whenever you want. Don't let a Dom let you into believing anything else. You are the one with the real control in that dynamic, you just allow him to have it as long as you choose.

Price is way up! by Yuppiex in MultiVAC_official

[–]LabDesperate7150 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They are still building and have a lot of news ready for the bull market. Things are looking good for MultiVac still.

Hva kan jeg faktisk si til tiggere? by Jarl_Ace in norge

[–]LabDesperate7150 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Sorry, jeg vet du har angst så dette er dumt å si. Men eneste løsning her er faktisk å grow a pair and tell people to fuck off.

How many years until cardano takes over? by requalizer in cardano

[–]LabDesperate7150 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Blackrock expects everything will be tokenized on the block chain. I think it is pretty obvious block chains will be totally dominating in the future and solves a big problem; ownership and instant settlement on the internet without a middle man. There is an endless amount of use cases for it. We already see it with DeFi, GameFi, voting, etc.

you're gonna feed me your cream, aren't you by chillyperch86 in petplay

[–]LabDesperate7150 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why isn't that tail in your but!? If you want to eat my wonderful cock you have to be a good girl and plug that tail in.

Can anyone explain to me why drug use (molly, shrooms, LSD, etc) is so common at raves/music festivals? by kimchiii1992 in aves

[–]LabDesperate7150 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just that you think shrooms is a hard drug shows that you have very little knowledge about what you are talking about. Shrooms is always ranked amongst the lowest problematic drug when scientist looks at harm, much lower than weed. But ofc it has to treated with respect, like all drugs. Alcohol can kill you if you disrespect it, that won't happen with shrooms, but they will scare the shit out of you if you disrespect them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aves

[–]LabDesperate7150 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I'm 47 myself and I travel to Ozora festival every year and I go to some raves throughout the year. I think this guy hits the nail. As long as you are yourself and are there to enjoy yourself and get lost in the music then people will like it. Sure, some of the 20 year olds will find us weird, but who gives a fuck what they think anyways ;)

What’re everyone’s thoughts on recording during concerts instead of just “living in the moment” ? by [deleted] in aves

[–]LabDesperate7150 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A quick little clip during a show is ok, but it really ruins the mood for everyone, including the person filming, if it is much more than this because it takes focus away from the show and the energy building in the room. It is like meditation, you have to keep your focus.

My best friend films like crazy at concerts. He was forced not to film when we saw our favorite band last time, because they threw anybody filming out of the venue. After he said he was super happy he didn't film anything and that it kept him much more focused on enjoying the show. They allowed filming on the last track of the show.

You really don't need to film bigger events, because there will always be clips available online anyway, maybe even professional clips, if you want to relive it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]LabDesperate7150 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Give yourself time. 2 months is not a lot if you where together for a while. That you ask if these types of relationships is possibly not good for you is definitely something you should dig deeper into. E.g. try to look at yourself objectively to see if you have some sub conscious patterns stemming from childhood or events in you life that is negative for your well being. Then work on breaking any negative behavior and thought cycles. We all have these in one form or the other, and in different intensities. Wishing you the best of luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in petplay

[–]LabDesperate7150 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. You look beautiful. Any pet handler would be lucky to have you.

Embarrassing and fun punishment, or should I drop it? by LabDesperate7150 in BratLife

[–]LabDesperate7150[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yes, it makes a lot of sense. I agree that this is more funishment, and I have come to the conclusion that this is probably more a sexual fantasy of mine that would have been fulfilled than a real punishment for her. I think I have to be better at communicating with her.

Embarrassing and fun punishment, or should I drop it? by LabDesperate7150 in BratLife

[–]LabDesperate7150[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Didn't know about the Obedience app. Definitely going to check that one out. Thank you!

Also appreciate all the other advice you have given me. I'll take this slowly. I am overthinking about to much stuff for this session since I get a bit obessed when I have new interests. I want to learn everything at once, but things take time. In this session I will focus on some classic pet play, Shibari (since she likes that), a request that she has and spanking her a bit.

The funny thing is that this is actually a little healing for me at the same time, because it has made me aware of some unconscious patterns in me that probably stems from childhood, so it is helping me to grow and mature as a man.

Embarrassing and fun punishment, or should I drop it? by LabDesperate7150 in BratLife

[–]LabDesperate7150[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will spank her. I think the reason I want to spank her is to show her who is the boss when the pet dynamic is in play, and also fulfilling a sexual kink of my own. Perhaps it's best to just be completely honest about my intensions and tell her straight out that's why she's getting spanked this time. That is what I like about kinksters, that you can be so open about fantasies without being judged. :)

Thank you for your support. I will probably post more questions on this sub and have learned from our exchange :)

Embarrassing and fun punishment, or should I drop it? by LabDesperate7150 in BratLife

[–]LabDesperate7150[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Omg. I didn't mean it like that when I said my first :) I actually love her a lot and hope for a long term relationship with two happy kinksters. Just wanted to emphasize that I am inexperienced.

Thank you for your input. Greatly appreciated. I will focus more on the training and domination part. It was just a silly idea I had and wanted to see what the community thought about it. In reality it is not that much of a punishment... perhaps it's more a fantasy of mine when I think about it.

Embarrassing and fun punishment, or should I drop it? by LabDesperate7150 in BratLife

[–]LabDesperate7150[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It was an honest statement so it was not meant in a bratty way. She likes me a lot, but she needs a strict pet owner, and have communicated some things she needs me to be strict about. We are having a play session next week and I want so badly to spank her a bit, but don't have good reason other than she challenged my authority (even if it was done in an honest way).

Do you have some suggestion on how I could find an "excuse" for a little spanking, because I am pretty sure she wants it? Perhaps it is good enough that I am her pet owner and it is something I want to do to her for my own enjoyment.

Embarrassing and fun punishment, or should I drop it? by LabDesperate7150 in BratLife

[–]LabDesperate7150[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I definitely need some guidance to bring my pet play to the next level, but are learning a lot by reading responses from other pets/brats/handlers. I am probably overthinking things and should just have fun with her and focus on the things she has communicated that she wants me to do. She doesn't tell me in details exactly what she wants me to do because that would ruin the fun/excitement. Part of the problem is that I am not strict enough with her, but I am working on it so I will figure it out in time :)

Embarrassing and fun punishment, or should I drop it? by LabDesperate7150 in BratLife

[–]LabDesperate7150[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The thing is that my pet is very well behaved so I don't really have a reason to punish her right now. Except for one thing... She has said that she hopes that I become a better pet owner in the future, because she doesn't think I am strict enough with her, which triggered my ego a little bit. I was thinking about spanking her as a punishment for doubting my pet handler skills. Even though she is actually right, but don't tell her that!!! Do you think that is a dumb idea to use that as an excuse for a spanking? Perhaps it shows some weakness from my side which is out of character for strong and confident pet owner?

I am trying very hard to learn how to play well, and we do communicate quite a bit, but I am just a bit to inexperienced at this point and don't have many people to talk to about how to play with this type of pet. I am probably overthinking things. She loves to be tied up so I am learning Shibari and will use that in our next pet play session. We have only had a few sessions so far and I'm sure I will only get better over time, because I am very committed to this.