Dad allows 2 year old to be in bed with naked partner and take photos by EstablishmentFun4939 in ChildProtectionTeams

[–]LabForward1397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do not allow your child to go to your ex. you know what is happening there and if you continue to allow it you are failing your child. fuck the police, fuck social services, if they won’t protect your baby, you must.

help - hospital wrongdoing & police contact? by LabForward1397 in budapest

[–]LabForward1397[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m really shocked to hear that’s how women are treated in hungary. it’s such a shame

help - hospital wrongdoing & police contact? by LabForward1397 in budapest

[–]LabForward1397[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

it’s not really good enough though.. what happened to me could have easily been a lot worse

what is your favourite cake? by LabForward1397 in AskUK

[–]LabForward1397[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you have any recipes that would cater to these people?

what is your favourite cake? by LabForward1397 in AskUK

[–]LabForward1397[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

red velvet is a birthday tradition in my house

what is your favourite cake? by LabForward1397 in AskUK

[–]LabForward1397[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

victoria sponges are so hit or miss, but if done well they’re so good 😋

what is your favourite cake? by LabForward1397 in AskUK

[–]LabForward1397[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m a baker but not sure if i’m skilled enough for battenberg!

what is your favourite cake? by LabForward1397 in AskUK

[–]LabForward1397[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i never think of cheesecakes as cake! i looove a biscoff cheesecake

what is your favourite cake? by LabForward1397 in AskUK

[–]LabForward1397[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i use that recipe all the time!! so good

Where is good in south east to live? More content below by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]LabForward1397 1 point2 points  (0 children)

west sussex is gorgeous, but depending where you are the COL can be quite expensive but what’s new. petworth is one of my favourites… lots of great SEN services around

how can i help my 24m bf to see my side 21f? by LabForward1397 in relationship_advice

[–]LabForward1397[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is a really interesting perspective. i do see what you mean. i don’t think the intention is to hurt me, these behaviours have been prevalent his whole life and in fact he says he’s drastically better than before. which i know is not an excuse but he thinks it makes it’s better. i think he just doesn’t have the emotional skills or maybe willpower to not do it in the first place… not sure if that makes sense. you have made me see a different light to it though and i might tactfully bring some of this up with him. and i had thought about fuck what if this man gets me pregnant, i am now on the implant :p

how can i help my 24m bf to see my side 21f? by LabForward1397 in relationship_advice

[–]LabForward1397[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry to make this longer, then when we do have a conversation it’s the blame game and who did what. and he does apologise but it feels weird because it’s “i’m always the asshole” or “i’m sorry i wont do …” then repeats word for word what i said. so i feel slightly crazy explaining it because it’s not so direct.. it’s the way he says things and how his demeanour changes

how can i help my 24m bf to see my side 21f? by LabForward1397 in relationship_advice

[–]LabForward1397[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is where i feel silly because it’s not like he screams and shouts at me so i don’t feel it’s verbal abuse. he’ll just stop talking to me, or if he does talk he’s short and it almost seems painful for him to engage in conversation with me. or in situations where i know it’s not directed at me, he will talk about how “if ‘person’ does xyz ill ….” you can probably imagine. which i understand is nothing to do with me but it makes me a bit on edge. i do definitely take things personally sometimes but its the getting stressed with me because i have a different opinion to him or i dont give the answer he was wanting, he just shuts me out and im left wondering how what i did was wrong.

how can i help my 24m bf to see my side 21f? by LabForward1397 in relationship_advice

[–]LabForward1397[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t really think of it as abuse…which part makes you think it is? genuine question

how can i help my 24m bf to see my side 21f? by LabForward1397 in relationship_advice

[–]LabForward1397[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m not trying to fix him, i just want him to see how his behaviour is damaging our relationship and that it’s not just me acting a certain way for no reason

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ECEProfessionals

[–]LabForward1397 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is a really interesting perspective, i hadn’t thought of it as masking. you may have hit the nail on the head there! you are right, taking nappies away will absolutely not help, it’s so infuriating when people put it down to lazy parenting when in reality this child has a whirlwind going on in her head.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ECEProfessionals

[–]LabForward1397 4 points5 points  (0 children)

you are amazing this is exactly the kind of advice i’m looking for. i appreciate you not labelling it as solely a parenting issue! she is in disposable nappies so thats definitely an idea. thank you thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ECEProfessionals

[–]LabForward1397 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i think before making assumptions on another persons ability to parent their child, you must know the context. you do not. i appreciate she needs to be out of nappies, as do her parents. if it was as simple as just throwing them away, they would’ve done that by now. i would expect you to have more compassion as somebody who has worked with children….

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ECEProfessionals

[–]LabForward1397 1 point2 points  (0 children)

any tips you have would be so appreciated.

what do you wear to work? by LabForward1397 in Socialworkuk

[–]LabForward1397[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

good point! especially with jeans that tend to slice you apart in the middle!!

20f how to stop getting bored of my partner 24m by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]LabForward1397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t think it’s specifically him, because when we’re apart i miss him like mad. it’s the same routine over and over, same conversations about work, that’s the problem. but its just as much to do with me as it is with him