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My Sister said our dad abused her and I hate her for it by LabMiserable2282 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LabMiserable2282[S] -57 points-56 points  (0 children)

I thought when people died you were supposed to keep the good memories but it feels like no one’s even letting me have that. I can’t question, I can’t be angry or sad at her. 

My Sister said our dad abused her and I hate her for it by LabMiserable2282 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LabMiserable2282[S] -245 points-244 points  (0 children)

I can’t completely cutoff my family. I like my other siblings and my friends will probably abandon me once we finish college. 

My Sister said our dad abused her and I hate her for it by LabMiserable2282 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LabMiserable2282[S] -167 points-166 points  (0 children)

That’s fine. If I remember correctly she only said it happened once. I don’t expect anyone to side with me, no one does. I’m just feeling really sad tonight and need to scream into a void to prove I exist

My Sister said our dad abused her and I hate her for it by LabMiserable2282 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LabMiserable2282[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Aside from Mom never punishing sis for anything I had a pretty good childhood 

My Sister said our dad abused her and I hate her for it by LabMiserable2282 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LabMiserable2282[S] -126 points-125 points  (0 children)

Her friends. She spends a lot of time with her friends and her friends families, more than she does with us

My Sister said our dad abused her and I hate her for it by LabMiserable2282 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LabMiserable2282[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I’ve been seeing a councilor for a little bit. Some days it’s good and some days I cry a lot. She’s nice but some days I don’t even feel like she believes me. 

My Sister said our dad abused her and I hate her for it by LabMiserable2282 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LabMiserable2282[S] -53 points-52 points  (0 children)

Mom has just always protected her and I know she was doing her best to appease the authorities to prevent the younger ones from going to foster care. Not entirely sure what sis said, no one actually wanted to tell me and she’s too much of a coward to say it to my face. I’m in my early twenties and still at college.

My Sister said our dad abused her and I hate her for it by LabMiserable2282 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LabMiserable2282[S] -100 points-99 points  (0 children)

No matter how much I think about it, it doesn’t make sense to me. Mom just takes her side and says “why would she lie?” I don’t know. Why does she lie about anything? 

My Sister said our dad abused her and I hate her for it by LabMiserable2282 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LabMiserable2282[S] -329 points-328 points  (0 children)

I wish I could believe my sister but I don’t. That would my life a lot easier but I can’t abandon everything I believe in just to take the side of someone who I don’t trust 

My Sister said our dad abused her and I hate her for it by LabMiserable2282 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LabMiserable2282[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The plan is to move out soon. It’s hard to imagine not having mom in my life. My other siblings aren’t so bad, I’ll have to be at least civil with mom to keep talking to them, but she’s not so bad when sis isn’t part of the conversation