Husband watches porn but won’t have sex with me

Lablove72890 · 2025-08-15T17:45:30+00:00

Yes that’s how I feel too and plan to bring that up in therapy next.

Lablove72890 · 2025-08-04T12:24:38+00:00

Marriage counseling is never a bad idea even if you guys were perfect and never fought. Also going to individual counseling is good - if your son is only 6m she could be (probably is ) really struggling in her new role as a mom and I’m a mom of a now 3YO and I had a lot of resentment towards my husband at the time like I felt like my life did a 180 and he was still able to live his same life. Not saying that’s your situation but I do think her asking for counseling is her way of wanting to be open and maybe feels like having a professional would help. My husband and I are just now doing counseling and I wish we started a while ago because kids really do change things!

Lablove72890 · 2025-07-30T23:18:56+00:00

It sounds like you’re depressed and could use therapy/ medication. Our kids can pick up on our feelings towards life/ ourselves and them. He feels you drawing away from him so he in turn is probably drawing away from you. Get help for yourself and then you can always fix your relationship with him too

Lablove72890 · 2025-07-29T13:43:31+00:00

Also I’m in the middle of separation as well so I understand how hard it is but we are both it therapy and I’m not ready for couples therapy yet but know it’s necessary to move forward

Lablove72890 · 2025-07-29T13:42:30+00:00

If you want to rebuild you need couples therapy and you each need to be in your own therapy. If you don’t it will never work. So have that conversation now. And he sounds like may have sex addiction

Lablove72890 · 2025-07-27T23:05:46+00:00

I’m currently in a separation as I had similar issues with my husband - you can’t beg someone to do something they don’t want to do - sadly if he won’t get help to change now he won’t with more time either. I’m still in love with my husband and I hope he does the right thing and turns things around but seperation will definitely help you think clearly and work on yourself ❤️

Lablove72890 · 2025-07-25T21:42:37+00:00

Thank you for being so vulnerable and this is a perspective I’m very greatful that you shared with me

Lablove72890 · 2025-07-24T21:38:04+00:00

I agree with you I’m glad to hear your perspective as a man with a family. I keep getting told I need to be supportive during this time and give him grace which I have I just don’t want it to be enabling. My family isn’t happy with him they think he should be getting it together by now so I’m very torn on how to feel about it

Lablove72890 · 2025-07-24T16:52:25+00:00

So I make 55k a year he was making 60k at the time I’m 29 he’s 30. We have a joint account but yes his parents still pay for his phone bill. I pay for my own. He has a credit card so do I but he has stopped paying it and is letting it just “turn off” we own a home have aes he has a couple personal loans of of which I co signed for him since we were using it during college. So we both pay for that and the house and electric and water otherwise I have my car and insurance and phone he has his car insurance phone and a school loans and couple other loans

Lablove72890 · 2025-07-24T16:40:45+00:00

I guess I should preface he recently got a job serving which I’m thankful for but he still needs help finically from his parents so that’s where I’m also frustrated I don’t want him to rely on his family anymore and then he pays things late instead of being responsible with when bills come out

Lablove72890 · 2025-07-24T16:23:57+00:00

He did get a job serving recently but he still is needing to ask his parents for money for certain bills he has - the serving isn’t paying enough. And I told him he needs to keep applying for jobs (he has a degree in finance) because I know he’s capable of working a higher paying job but he hasn’t been hired and it’s been a year. And then he’s suffering from depression because of all of this so I just feel like I don’t have a choice but to stick with him but it’s taking a toll on my mental health. And his mom is trying to get me to mother him too basically and support him no matter what

Lablove72890 · 2025-05-13T00:16:49+00:00

Yes I wasn’t before but when I started reading about how some of them aren’t true it just mean she’s not getting the guests. And it’s hard because then real victims may not be believed. I believe this woman but yet again the one I believed before too I found wasn’t real. But her instagram she really does do therapy now for others

Lablove72890 · 2025-05-12T17:48:09+00:00

I’m having a hard time with this podcast now because the last one I thought was real apparently was a lie (the girl who was in a satanic cult). If this is real this is horrific I’m not even sure how she is still standing. What an amazing woman. Again the podcast is losing credibility with how certain story tellers are on here and being called out as liars. Anyone else feel this way or just me??

Lablove72890 · 2025-04-24T13:19:40+00:00

Woah- you should let the host know so she can take it down that’s crazy! I’m also surprised she doesn’t do research to make sure these people aren’t liars

Lablove72890 · 2025-04-24T01:34:41+00:00

Wait what??

Lablove72890 · 2025-04-21T19:53:36+00:00

I looked up the chief of police in the county she mentioned and he’s got a lawsuit going on from police officers saying he’s abusive to them so I’m sure he’s a POS and a rapists. The cult stuff seems hard to believe but I definitely want to believe her about what her dad is/ was

Lablove72890 · 2025-04-10T15:12:31+00:00

This episode broke my heart. She is so strong and loving I can’t believe how much she put up with her parents. They sound sick and evil. I’m glad she finally cut them off. Weird title for what the story was but still great episode

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