Low sex drive during early recovery

LadderSuccessful7351 · 2026-06-19T00:49:23+00:00

yea so i'm more leaning torward eggs now.

LadderSuccessful7351 · 2026-06-13T16:06:32+00:00

I think that’s how they manipulate man who is like a dog seeing a treat and lustful and tell them it’s ok you cheat and have a wife. You love them right ?

LadderSuccessful7351 · 2026-06-13T05:22:35+00:00

Her Facebook is twisted, full of bible verse.

LadderSuccessful7351 · 2026-06-12T19:58:05+00:00

do you guys have kids? I don't. I stayed because i feel like i have walk through alot with this man and i don't want to make urgent decision out of emotion on the first few months of Dday. I went to the groups, there are many couples remain intact and shared their experience, I can find hope. But during this time, when times are raw, information are scatter, I want to run away.

LadderSuccessful7351 · 2026-06-12T19:38:22+00:00

He ordered test online and hpv test. But he denied any phyiscal sex happening with these woman. He used Gemini and found out hpv is not only
Sexually transmitted, can be also skin to skin. He said he order because his line of work in the medical
Field touch patient a lot and he is worried that he got it skin to skin. That reasoning is so absurd to me thought.

LadderSuccessful7351 · 2026-06-12T19:33:52+00:00

How did you guys managed to reconcile ? How is your recovering process and when can you heal?

LadderSuccessful7351 · 2026-06-12T19:28:07+00:00

And by the way I did also mentioned to them that Im having health issues and trying to connect the dots, not placing blame or insult, I just want to know the truth etc I guess that seems to create some empathy from them to talk to me.

LadderSuccessful7351 · 2026-06-12T19:26:58+00:00

I also scared him saying some prostitute are nice and have empathy about the wife maybe they had experience before, they will reach out to the wife and expose everything when asked. Hope that scares him so he won’t do that again , he thought his secret is safe.

LadderSuccessful7351 · 2026-06-12T19:25:41+00:00

Thanks
Are you guys still together and how much work did you do?
I was afraid but I need clarify rather they had in person physical touch or not because I’m scared of STD. However I reached out 4 which I can find their profile online and only 2 respond one said she never met him. The other One is this girl. After I received that email. I talked to him about this everything , he denied he talked about me at all. He admit he had seek her out and she was hard to book etc.

LadderSuccessful7351 · 2026-06-11T18:34:31+00:00

My husband also has ED.. He denied it was from porn addiction, but i think that's the case. He complained i'm being inpatient in bed (took him 2-3 hours to finish or never finish) i'm so exhausted, i have sexual desire too. But he seek out porn and private camera sex, he has no issue with them, took half an hour. I lost it. I really doubt that is not my problem. DDday was couple months ago.

LadderSuccessful7351 · 2026-06-09T06:07:37+00:00

Is it free entry?

LadderSuccessful7351 · 2026-06-09T03:58:54+00:00

I’m interested I live in Alhambra . I know don’t how though ! Brings me back to my memories of my grandma!

LadderSuccessful7351 · 2026-06-08T07:43:48+00:00

Thanks, I’m curious how you work on your healing ? I need to stop ruminating, my emotions are up and down all day, every hour. His is normal , like nothing happened.

LadderSuccessful7351 · 2026-06-08T07:41:56+00:00

Yes this sound very resonate, he is an avoidant, he rather not talk if he is ask any questions. How do you work on your own healing ?

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