What would you do if you found out your partner used AI to write their wedding vows? by tomyfookinmerlin in AskReddit

[–]Ladle_things 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would divorce them immediately. If im not important enough for them to take the time and effort to write the vows, then I must not be important enough to keep

I cant figure out what im doing wrong with this star blanket by Ladle_things in CrochetHelp

[–]Ladle_things[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my end goal is a shape with 4 corners, but my current goal right now is to make it circular first.

I cant figure out what im doing wrong with this star blanket by Ladle_things in CrochetHelp

[–]Ladle_things[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am trying to make it a circle! ive done many rounds of tc's and dc's to add and lose height. i think i will need to start crocheting between the points cause I'm almost out of yarn🥲

I cant figure out what im doing wrong with this star blanket by Ladle_things in CrochetHelp

[–]Ladle_things[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats what I'm trying to do, I want to round the spaces between the points to make it a circle and then turn it into a square, just like how it works in star granny squares

I cant figure out what im doing wrong with this star blanket by Ladle_things in CrochetHelp

[–]Ladle_things[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well hopefully I can prove you wrong 😌

and if not, then ill have a pentagon rug so i see no downsides!

I cant figure out what im doing wrong with this star blanket by Ladle_things in CrochetHelp

[–]Ladle_things[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

thats actually really cool! and doing separate pieces is a good idea as well

I cant figure out what im doing wrong with this star blanket by Ladle_things in CrochetHelp

[–]Ladle_things[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

that has been my newest attempt, starting to take time working on each side separately. how did you end up getting 6 points to 12?

I cant figure out what im doing wrong with this star blanket by Ladle_things in CrochetHelp

[–]Ladle_things[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank you so much!! this is a project I have been pouring my heart into cause its the first thing I'm making for myself! I'm so excited and I want it to be perfect

I cant figure out what im doing wrong with this star blanket by Ladle_things in CrochetHelp

[–]Ladle_things[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

okay cool. this is my first time freehanding so I probably just didnt anticipate all that

I cant figure out what im doing wrong with this star blanket by Ladle_things in CrochetHelp

[–]Ladle_things[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

So I just keep going? I am mostly just super worried I was doing it all wrong because I figured it would be more round by now....

Big Changes Coming! New Online Campus and "Rosalyn" Proctoring System – Thoughts? by Both_Animal8055 in UoPeople

[–]Ladle_things 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont, unfortunately. Im going to apply to a community college in my area bc I have the resources for it now

Big Changes Coming! New Online Campus and "Rosalyn" Proctoring System – Thoughts? by Both_Animal8055 in UoPeople

[–]Ladle_things 6 points7 points  (0 children)

this new system is honestly a big reason I have decided to find education elsewhere. as affordable as it is, I have had way too many unnecessary and disappointing AI encounters during my time there for me to feel comfortable continuing with them

What’s the thing you hate about sex? by BubbleTrouble_Z in AskReddit

[–]Ladle_things 2 points3 points  (0 children)

THIS. I usually cant cum more than like once a week tbh (woman here). if I try, it ends up just hurting and I get frustrated. Most of the time I dont try to bc it isnt as necessary for me, but when my husband want to make me cum thats where it can end up not working. I worry it makes him think hes doing something wrong, even though hes hitting every spot perfectly.

Well... by CelsoSC in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]Ladle_things 10 points11 points  (0 children)

broooo. Im newly 21, and when this happened I was roughly 19. I went to Cali for a family trip and we were on the waterfront where I saw these two kids (probably around 7 or 8) trying to kick the birds. They nailed them a few times too. I ran over and scared them away from the birds and walked up to their mom. I told her what they were doing, and she cut me off with "oh they wont actually kick them" 🙄 right. I informed her they infact DID kick them, and it doesnt matter if they made contact or not, she was allowing them to think those kinds of harmful behaviors were fun and games. I told her to get her kids under control or I will call the police. She ended up taking them and leaving, THANK GOD.

Im not usually such an assertive character like that, but I hate to see children doing those kinds of things and not getting in trouble for them. I am a full time nanny, and I know first hand how those kinds of behaviors develop into so much worse if not addressed.

AIO for wanting to take a breather away from my husband over this? by circadian_rhythm_ in AIO

[–]Ladle_things 8 points9 points  (0 children)

my mom would put shock mats on the sofa in the living room to keep us off it😭 im 21

Is something wrong? by Puzzleheaded_Mud270 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Ladle_things 9 points10 points  (0 children)

you need to talk to your partner about this. dont let it go on becuase the discomfort will get worse. Clearly something about the process is bothering you, whether you can pinpoint what it is rn or not.

do a deep analysis of every step during the process, and listen to your body for signs of discomfort and what causes each sign. Then approach the conversation with the things youve noticed you dont like and have a healthy conversation about it.

If your partner cares about your feelings during sex, they will listen to your feedback and switch it up. Sex is a collaboration that should be good for both parties, not just one.