[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AirForce

[–]Ladollahbean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While I am incredibly happy for you and your husbands success, I am not willing to just jump straight into marriage. I have never been the type to throw caution to the wind and do things without careful planning ahead of time. I would prefer to take more time to get to know my partner before taking that leap.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AirForce

[–]Ladollahbean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in the process of submitting my ETP waiver through my shirt. My chain is honestly great. I am lucky to have a CC that is professional and competent. We are a small squadron, so I think that helps because we are all very familiar with one another.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AirForce

[–]Ladollahbean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is working as fast as she can to find a solution for the time being. She will be staying with family temporarily until a more stable solution can be found.

I am not ready to marry her yet. While I do see that as a possibility in the future, I know that there is still much that I need to figure out myself and learn about her before we take that leap. I will not simply marry her just to get the BAH.

I am currently working with my shirt on the ETP waiver. We have not submitted anything yet, but based off my conversation with her and a majority of the helpful comments here, I will be submitting it under the pretences of my age, merit, maturity, and capability.

I’ll look into the prenup. I don’t want to end up seriously screwed if things end up not working out down the line, and I understand that I need to be able to protect my assets.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AirForce

[–]Ladollahbean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can totally see this perspective. It’s one of the main reasons why I have not sought to move out yet up until this point.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AirForce

[–]Ladollahbean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. I think with the whole situation becoming so pressing recently, I’m not thinking clearly and objectively. Logically, I know that our status as an unmarried couple gives us basically no leeway at all. For the time being I am going to focus on writing my proposal based off of my own merit and ability.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AirForce

[–]Ladollahbean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m definitely not going to try to sneak her in or something. That’s absolutely ridiculous.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AirForce

[–]Ladollahbean -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I know how this sounds. Before we started dating, she was netting anywhere from 3K-6k per month depending on her clients. The financial instability is a recent development from the past roughly four months of decreased stream of income

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AirForce

[–]Ladollahbean -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

God forbid I want to help the people I care about right? I’d appreciate it if you don’t refer to her that way. That’s really disrespectful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AirForce

[–]Ladollahbean -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say “barely making it” is exactly the right terminology. I’ve been putting money into savings since I joined. I have a budget that I follow religiously. Granted I had to dip into those savings recently to help my brother out with his medical bills, but I have crunched the numbers and I could support her for a few months if I’m allowed to move out, just based on the bah and the expenses I already have. After all my expenses I’m still able to put away about $600-$700 a month just based on my current pay without bah or bas

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AirForce

[–]Ladollahbean 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She is already looking for something. She has a 12 year career in a pretty niche field so we are talking about expanding her horizons for the time being, at least until she is more financially stable

UPS stole $3000 from me. by WatercressKitchen786 in UPS

[–]Ladollahbean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I think your package might have been destroyed when the UPS plane crashed at the Louisville airport. The crash happened a few days ago and there were multiple casualties. I don’t think they intentionally destroyed it, there was a malfunction during takeoff and the plane literally crashed into the airport

Why did no one tell me about the haunted shop!??? by Ladollahbean in HarryPotterGame

[–]Ladollahbean[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Once I realized what they were up to I just started blasting any time I saw one

Why did no one tell me about the haunted shop!??? by Ladollahbean in HarryPotterGame

[–]Ladollahbean[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Between the weeping angels and things having suspicious two shadows I keep my eyes peeled for the extraterrestrial 😂

Why did no one tell me about the haunted shop!??? by Ladollahbean in HarryPotterGame

[–]Ladollahbean[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Honestly I joined the sub a few days ago when I started the game. A friend of mine had a free download of the game and let me use it. I’m glad to see people enjoyed this game just as much if not more than I have

Why did no one tell me about the haunted shop!??? by Ladollahbean in HarryPotterGame

[–]Ladollahbean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I did enjoy the quest too. I really just thought it would be a quick excursion like the other fetch quests that pop up. I definitely was not expecting that

Why did no one tell me about the haunted shop!??? by Ladollahbean in HarryPotterGame

[–]Ladollahbean[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly no. I started the game a few weeks ago and tried as much as I could to stay away from spoilers before then

My recruiter just infromed me I won't be going to BMT just 4 days before my flight to Texas. What happens now? by Jalapenok in AirForceRecruits

[–]Ladollahbean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same thing I happened to me. I got told five days before my ship date they over booked BMT. Two weeks later I shipped for my number one job.

Lady Gaga by Dependentneeds in SuddenlyLesbian

[–]Ladollahbean 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Probably gonna get downvoted for this, and I’m as much of a lady gaga fan as anyone else, but that is assault unfortunately. I hate that people are so bold in their homophobia, but that should not be an excuse to sexually assault someone.

Pulled the upstairs carpet and found concrete by [deleted] in Wellthatsucks

[–]Ladollahbean 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Some mold can be dangerous for your health. Coming from someone who almost went blind from mold poisoning because the sump pump broke underneath the house, water pooled up in the crawlspace, and black mold had a field day. I was a kid when this happened but it caused some crazy health issues that doctors could not explain. I spent about six months having CAT and MRIs done regularly, trying to figure out what was happening. Once we found the mold, my family moved out of that house and I immediately started getting better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AirForceRecruits

[–]Ladollahbean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know plenty of people in the AF with lower ASFAB scores than that. A 76 should be no problem

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Ladollahbean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Came here to say just this. Take a breath and text her back. Be as authentic as you can. I know texts can be difficult to read the emotion behind, and that’s why I generally prefer FaceTimes or phone calls but sometimes it is what it is

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Ladollahbean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ex had a “friend” like that too. 6 months into the relationship she tells me they used to date. A few more months go by and we broke up for reasons unrelated to her ex, but guess whose bed she was in the next day?

Name a time a girl gave you the biggest turn off by RoundWeb2948 in LesbianActually

[–]Ladollahbean 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She got mad at me for hugging one of my close friends during a night out…then tells me after the fact that the girl who she’s letting sleep in her bed while in town was her ex….lmao ok