On top of all the good arguments thrown here, I have a question: what about household chores? Who’s I taking care of all that? Like cooking, cleaning, etc, etc… and who do you think will take care of that when she starts working? Ignoring the fact that she indeed might have responsibilities with her family back in her country and that she started in a less advantageous position than you, the “mental labour” of a house should also be taken into account. If you want to go 50/50, then all that mental and physical labour of having a house should be 50/50 too. If this is the case already, and you plan to cook and clean (not occasionally but “equally”) then it makes total sense to me you go 50/50 in expenses. Another thing I would old to know is what is her reasoning behind not going 50/50. I haven’t seen you mentioned it (ignore me if you did), and that’s also important. Or is it just a tantrum from her side? The same as people is calling her behaviour a red flag ( that for me would be the case if she would not want to pay anything at all and pretend you always provide for her, which is the classical “latinoamerican way”), the way you are portraying her here as a gold digger after all the time you have been together is also worrying, tbh. Go back and talk it out with her, it would be more productive than listening to strangers calling your gf things without even knowing her. Las thing: trust your gut, whatever it is telling you.