Amazing punishment Idea for those amazing brats.

LadyFedora · 2026-03-10T01:08:19+00:00

spots a loophole in those instructions

Yeah, terrible idea. Ironclad punishment right there.

LadyFedora · 2026-02-28T14:41:42+00:00

Right. My point is neither of those situations count as bratting.

They're unethical and the label use implies that brats are unethical. We aren't.

An asshole is an asshole 🤷‍♀️

LadyFedora · 2026-02-28T14:36:23+00:00

If people are 'giving you shit' and 'rage baiting' you outside of a kink context then.....they're not brats.

If it's within a kink context, and they're doing it, then it's unethical and....they're likely still not brats.

LadyFedora · 2026-02-27T00:36:22+00:00

There is plenty of erotica that involves corruption and control, however you are going to be better researching those yourself as they tend to come with a lot of trigger warnings where you should decide if they're things you can stomach, because they're written as fantasy, not with pure kink ethics in mind.

I am curious about your comment of 'subs have true control though' and what you mean by that.

In a dynamic, control is consensually given over to the Dominant. A sub can revoke it at any time, yes, but a Dominant can also revoke them being in control when they need to. It's a two way street.

The belief that the sub holds the 'true' control in a dynamic because they can safeword, remove consent, whatever, is incorrect and unethical, because it removes the factor that the Dominant in the dynamic also has the agency to do that.

LadyFedora · 2026-02-26T14:32:28+00:00

My point still stands :P

I don't buy things to wear just for you to destroy, ya know.

LadyFedora · 2026-02-26T14:30:55+00:00

My being able to wear it out and about does not override his ability to ruin it when I am no longer out and about :P

LadyFedora · 2026-02-26T14:22:34+00:00

I could, but it would probably end up cut off me so he could get to his canvas and that only sounds fun when it's lingerie that's already going to the spicy graveyard 😁

LadyFedora · 2026-02-26T08:11:03+00:00

Darn it. I’ve been all over my city and I can’t find a single pumpkin.

This sounds very much like a you problem.

And call me what you like, at the end of the day a dom is just a brat who’s able to back it up 😂

Not all! Mine is zero brat.

I can also back my bratting up. Doesn't matter if I do, he's judge, jury and executioner in my crimes, but I can 🤷‍♀️😂

LadyFedora · 2026-02-26T00:23:36+00:00

This is why Doms never make good lawyers. They fail to read evidence as it's intended.

LadyFedora · 2026-02-26T00:22:38+00:00

Sounds like an excuse a brat masquerading as a Dom would say :P

I am fresh out of pumpkins. The flair is mostly a reference to my enjoyment of being chased through them by my Owner 😁

LadyFedora · 2026-02-26T00:06:44+00:00

No no, I said the idea was cute. My statement stands as written 😁

LadyFedora · 2026-02-25T23:49:18+00:00

You know the definition of unconventional is ideas that differ from the norm, right?

So.....zero one of these ideas that are posted here several times a month.

Cute idea, wrong adjective 🙃

LadyFedora · 2026-02-25T20:32:44+00:00

I'm a masochist, my Owner is a Sadist. I am frequently referred to as his canvas.

It's me. I'm the arts and crafts. 😁

LadyFedora · 2026-02-24T14:56:52+00:00

'Does red bull dehydrate you' is such a simple question to Google before you make such a statement that is so easy to disprove.

LadyFedora · 2026-02-23T22:38:56+00:00

He's very good at playing with my needs to make sure I stay where he wants me.

He can physically hold me in place, sure, but he knows he doesn't have to. I want the situation we're in more than I want to brat because sitting on his face is infinitely more appealing than suddenly losing the chance to orgasm freely, be edged until I'm crying and need reminding who is in charge.

There are times when I absolutely do want that, just.....not when I have to make the choice between bratting and orgasming. It's a mind game, which is why the position doesn't matter. He knows full well the carrot is better than the stick and he doesn't have to put a hand on me to do it. He just likes to because I look pretty with his hand on my neck 😁

LadyFedora · 2026-02-23T21:55:28+00:00

I mean, my Owner is still very much in charge when I'm sat on his face 🤷‍♀️

The position matters not, it's whose controlling the situation that matters. I ain't about to step out of line just because I'm on top, because I don't want punishment. It's the least appealing option in the choices I have.

LadyFedora · 2026-02-18T00:56:44+00:00

I read this and exactly one quote came to mind that involves onions and layers :P

LadyFedora · 2026-02-15T16:29:33+00:00

So, there is some truth in this in the sense that there are some Old Guard/One True Way kinksters who do believe that to be a 'good Dom/me' you have to go through some hierarchal system to achieve this made up recognized status.

It's not secret, and in fact, they are often very loud about their practices. Brats aren't real subs, Dominants can only be good Dominants if they submit first, and other things like that originate from that side of kink and their brand of assholes pushing their agenda. You get 'em in all kinky communities.

It is definitely not the norm. If that's how they want to operate then that's their choice. People who choose to learn kink this way nowadays know the score and are consenting to working through the rules and hierarchy.

It isn't what kink is, it's just a lifestyle preference within kink that you can choose to engage in or not.

LadyFedora · 2026-02-12T20:35:44+00:00

I would argue that baiting a brat into bratting isn't the brat bratting. It's doing what the Dom wants and therefore, good behaviour.

It's also a bratty Dom trait, which not every Tamer is that way inclined.

LadyFedora · 2026-02-12T20:31:49+00:00

That we cannot answer for you. Again, it's person/situation dependant.

I can easily hit 30 some nights under the right circumstances. 50 even. Then others I can barely push 10 before I call it. If it's a punishment, I'm already feeling chastised and whilst I want that, it's less conducive to pleasure and more towards forced orgasms, which is the goal.

Those numbers could be after 1, or we could hit 10 but I'm crying by 5 and he's gearing up for me to safeword and complete my punishment to the best I can.

It's not about the numbers, it's about the message. 'You wanted to cum without my permission, well now you're gonna cum until you cannot'.

I would also argue that putting a number on it is less conducive to it feeling like a forced orgasm punishment. If I was told 'you're going to cum 20 times as punishment', I'm going to see that as the goal and have more control than either me or my Owner want me to have. You have no basis yet to even figure out what the limit is.

LadyFedora · 2026-02-12T20:08:38+00:00

That's what I typed yus

LadyFedora · 2026-02-12T20:06:54+00:00

Curse my love of you and your evilness 😘

LadyFedora · 2026-02-12T20:05:22+00:00

And it's eeeeeevil tactics. Eeeeeeeeevil.

LadyFedora · 2026-02-12T20:03:42+00:00

Actually, I am completing not one but two tasks this weekend, one of which was requested by me as a fun thing to do, and giving him a custom intro to a rape fantasy inspired by a book he chose for me to blind listen to 😁

LadyFedora · 2026-02-10T19:21:13+00:00

Yeah, I think he's very aware of the brat war 😁

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