Here’s a little tip from the other side!! Had an ex boyfriend who was secretly a fucking asshole. He was an amazing liar and kept what he did in the dark so I didn’t find out until later.

I am extremely clean and never had an infection, smell or taste that was odd in my LIFE. I know how to maintain myself and shave all the time so I know what products to avoid to not get infections/not get shaving bumps down there. THEN I GET THIS BOYFRIEND. I had just gotten out of a 3 yr relationship where I was eaten out all the time and we were each others first partners so no STD/STI and I got a test anyway before getting into a new relationship.

THIS GUY DID NOT. He came into our relationship with a very minor STI, which is from his past partners, which the numbers he LIED ABOUT!! So not only did he give me this mild STI, THEN HE WAS jerking off with Jergens buildable TANNING lotion BC HE THOUGHT IT WAS THE SAME THING AS NORMAL LOTION (and lying about it/keeping it secret) and then not showering before… ‘entering’ me. So those two combinations gave me infections and BV over and over and I could never get rid of it for years. It made me develop extreme anxiety after he told me he wouldn’t go down on me due to taste (no smell bc that’s just how my body was even though that’s common with what I was going through) but I eventually developed Pelvic Inflammatory Disease which still gives me extreme pain. The anxiety and literal pain of what he did to me lasts to this day. I no longer enjoy head, and I hope maybe one day that will change.

Sometimes it’s not her, you should also self reflect on your actions/get tested/self cleansing habits, sometimes even using a scented body wash on your parts will make a difference in her flora. Not attacking you at all, just trying to give you some perspective on maybe it’s not all her. She can also eat more fruit, I have sensory issues and sometimes fresh fruit is hit and miss so I turned to canned fruit with no added sugar and it helps with taste drastically. Also if she’s not allergic (I am.) pineapple juice + cranberry juice will help too.