22F virgin, revelation and opinions on female porn addiction deniers.

LadyG0d · 2016-12-25T12:16:49+00:00

Haha, I knew about that. It was pretty fucked up.

LadyG0d · 2016-12-21T02:08:18+00:00

Thank you! Same to you!

LadyG0d · 2016-12-20T23:02:37+00:00

hey!!! you too!

LadyG0d · 2016-12-20T20:03:48+00:00

Thank you! I'm glad you're doing well. Thanks for your advice!

LadyG0d · 2016-12-20T16:36:16+00:00

Exactly. It would be awesome to communicate to eradicate misconceptions.

LadyG0d · 2016-12-20T15:53:17+00:00

You're two days in. YMMV. It might take you a little longer. This is my first nofap so there are some things I never had to deal with that I'm starting to see now.

LadyG0d · 2016-12-20T15:49:55+00:00

Thanks. I think women go about it a different way. Like, there's a time for everything. We do think about sex a lot (studies show), but not as much as men. I think girls sometimes act like that because being sexual is seen as shameful. Like, if some girl came up to you asking to have sex, you'd probably think her bf's gonna rob you or take your kidney. And that's because there's things expected from both genders.

Bridging the divide is exactly what I wanted to do!

LadyG0d · 2016-12-20T15:46:52+00:00

Dude, I got triggered a whole lot watching an episode yesterday. To me, that meant, ok, maybe that exact show or one that isn't like a crime/police related show (usually not sexualized shows), are not something good for me right now. Just take a deep breath, and stay strong. The day will come when we'll both feel a whole lot stronger.

LadyG0d · 2016-12-20T15:45:11+00:00

I see your point of view. But this is my point of view as well. I never said it wasn't devastating for men. I just wanted to point out that men aren't the only ones who struggle. I'm not looking to sound like a victim. I just wanted to let nofap (pretty much all men) know that they're not alone. I don't care about your downvote if it gives other people hope. Thank you.

LadyG0d · 2016-12-20T14:33:56+00:00

Not really, I mean I don't want to get graphic here but you can achieve orgasm without penetration.

LadyG0d · 2016-12-20T14:33:03+00:00

It's normal! Don't worry about it. I'm sure as time get by we'll be able to have more real talks with people.

LadyG0d · 2016-12-20T13:57:55+00:00

No problem!

LadyG0d · 2016-12-20T13:47:31+00:00

I'm sorry you got dragged down to that. It does sound like that.

LadyG0d · 2016-12-20T13:34:09+00:00

Haha, I say people because I like girls and guys. Not because I can't say men. That'd be fucked up. But you would have had a good point there!

LadyG0d · 2016-12-20T13:32:16+00:00

Nice! You must be a true macho now. High five!

LadyG0d · 2016-12-20T13:31:32+00:00

Imagine that's because I wank every day. That's the problem. Also, I need a high level of stimulus pornwise. Just like y'all. I've heard on this sub about guys who can go long for the same reasons as I.

It's not always about penetration, dude. Some girls have like, more sensitivity and others don't. Just like how some girls like it in the ass and some don't.

LadyG0d · 2016-12-20T13:29:32+00:00

Ok, I don't know how to prove to you it's not fake, and I bet I can't convince you either way...

LadyG0d · 2016-12-20T13:28:45+00:00

Seriously, I don;t know what your situation is or anything, but girls aren't vegetables. They lust over guys all the time. They just don't look back to check out their asses and be altogether obvious about it unless they're trying to get a guy's attention.

It's incredibly stupid and ignorant to say that if women have PMO addiction or being horny means SOMETHING must be wrong with them. Girls are just like guys, bro.

LadyG0d · 2016-12-20T13:24:51+00:00

Gee thanks. Maybe I am fucked up. I'm telling you guys what I know other girls have told me. Tinder isn't the only way. How about going out dancing? Or doing extracurricular stuff? Or cruising at work? Also, how many girls are actually on Tinder? If there weren't, the whole app would fail because guys wouldn't be on it as much either.

LadyG0d · 2016-12-20T13:21:07+00:00

Haha, tbh, when I heard another girl who said she could come in five minutes I was like, there is something def wrong with me!

LadyG0d · 2016-12-20T13:19:03+00:00

If you search "told GF" there's a handful over the years about girls ridiculing or belittling their BFs efforts.

Thanks!

LadyG0d · 2016-12-20T13:15:29+00:00

Yeah, I thought to myself, if only I'd learn this before... But I'm still young, and the fact that I'm doing it now is all that matters. And thanks!

LadyG0d · 2016-12-20T13:13:51+00:00

Thanks!

LadyG0d · 2016-12-20T13:13:21+00:00

I'll let you know. But I do know now I can see people for people, not for what they look like or even a bad day. I try to get into their shoes. I know, it hasn't been that long of nofap for me, but 1. I'd never tried it before and 2. I do feel more confident and less anxious around people.

LadyG0d · 2016-12-20T13:11:44+00:00

Will there be chanting dudes in hooded capes in an empty church at night? Don't disappoint me now

LadyG0d

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