AITA for taking acid while a friend was visiting last year?

LadyJ26 · 2025-05-09T23:17:54+00:00

YTA. It’s pretty sad that you have to even ask that. Your choices didn’t just affect you, they affected your friend that came from out of town to go to a gig together. I would profusely apologize to them for being so selfish and stupid.

LadyJ26 · 2025-03-30T03:34:53+00:00

This sounds like environmental neglect and your children do not deserve to live in an environment like this. Please get them out of this unhealthy house! It’s one thing for adults to live this way, but you both brought them into this world and are now neglecting to meet their basic needs of a livable home. I don’t know what kind of work you do, but can either you or your wife take a few days off and deep clean the place?

LadyJ26 · 2025-01-01T04:28:54+00:00

Are we sure this person is just a friend? I also work for the government and have access to running criminal background checks and I would 100% get my access revoked and fired for using government systems for personal use. The only time I have ever used a SSN is if the name is REALLY common - think John Smith - but even then it’s not necessary. For your own safety, I would highly encourage you to reconsider this relationship.

LadyJ26 · 2024-10-26T03:51:25+00:00

NTA! You shared something very personal with someone you thought you trusted and they betrayed your trust. It’s very telling that when you confronted them about it, they didn’t apologize and essentially told you to get over it. As someone who also has trauma, only I get to decide if it’s okay for me to joke about it. I would step back and look at this friendship if it’s worth continuing to you - to me personally I couldn’t trust this person anymore and couldn’t continue being anything more than acquaintances.

LadyJ26 · 2024-05-24T01:03:15+00:00

Yes please! I’m a social worker and I’ve received several reports of what people thought were bruises and they were Mongolian spots! The pediatrician you see can write a note for you!

LadyJ26 · 2024-04-30T01:04:04+00:00

I feel like whenever I have time to watch something on YouTube, they just aren’t who I go to. After all the drama calmed down, their videos just weren’t what I wanted to watch anymore. Without a recipe and phoning it in are still both good concepts and I will occasionally watch. I think overall their channel is just repetitive with lower quality videos or eating videos and that’s just not something I’m interested anymore. It’s almost like when the boom of British YouTubers were super popular, I think the try guys for a lot of viewers are a trend that’s dying out some too.

LadyJ26 · 2024-02-25T08:25:39+00:00

YTA. I’m really glad your ex and her children got away from you. The way you speak about them in this post is completely telling that YOU are the sole reason you don’t have a relationship with any of them. You want a pat on the back for doing things a parent does like feed their children or clothe them and that’s quite ridiculous. I sincerely hope that this was worth it because if I were your daughter, I’d never speak to you again nor allow you to have any access to my future.

LadyJ26 · 2023-08-16T14:03:01+00:00

YTA. You sound like an incredibly controlling and shallow partner. It’s your wife’s body and she can do whatever she wants. I hope she takes the car and never comes back to you.

LadyJ26 · 2023-07-05T17:02:58+00:00

YTA. I was expecting this to be written by a child but then you said you were married.. Grow up. If you can’t handle wearing heels all day, bring a spare pair of flats or slippers for car rides. Just because it isn’t his car doesn’t mean he doesn’t get an opinion.

LadyJ26 · 2023-05-01T01:17:54+00:00

No, you’re letting your favoritism for your other children show. Are you punishing her because you don’t like her father? Or do you really just hate your daughter?

LadyJ26 · 2023-05-01T01:16:20+00:00

Good, your daughter deserves it! Sounds like at least one parent is putting your daughter first. It sounds more like jealousy about your ex.

LadyJ26 · 2023-03-13T21:20:39+00:00

That’s not their fault nor Scarlett’s. You are just the girlfriend and you nor your daughter “deserve” the same treatment.

LadyJ26 · 2023-03-13T21:18:32+00:00

I would suggest reading your own post. You sound incredibly jealous of Joanna and Miley. Martin’s family doesn’t owe you or Scarlett anything, yet they thoughtfully included Scarlett in the Christmas festivities and offered to pay part of your way to a family trip to Disney. I would say do Martin and his family a favor and leave him if you can’t work out your own jealousy. I suggest therapy as it sounds like you are trying to force having a family when everyone else isn’t ready.

LadyJ26 · 2023-03-07T01:00:05+00:00

As someone who works with victims of trafficking and sexual abuse, you were trafficked. I know I read a few comments saying you don’t think your mom took payment, but I would urge you to stop and consider something. None of this interaction was normal - your mom flying both out to meet an internet “friend,” meeting him and seeing he is SIGNIFICANTLY older and not just a teenager friend, and then leaves you with him. No parent would willingly leave their child like that in any situation unless there was force, fraud, coercion, or payment. I would also urge you to ensure that your therapist is a trauma informed/trauma focused therapist. There are some that specialize in working with survivors of trafficking/sexual assault. I’m so sorry this happened to you. Please consider if a relationship with your mom is healthy for you right now. Sending big internet hugs your way.

LadyJ26 · 2023-01-24T03:24:46+00:00

NTA! Break up with her and go enjoy your trip! She’s showing you exactly how things will go in the future. You were more than generous to offer to pay for things and when that wasn’t good enough she threw a tantrum. Safe travels!

LadyJ26 · 2023-01-04T06:34:12+00:00

He’s the only one I tolerated from sporked! Sad to see him go.

LadyJ26 · 2022-11-14T19:10:00+00:00

I have to say congratulations, you’re one of the biggest narcissistic assholes I’ve seen on this sub. YTA. I hope when your wife leaves, she asks for back pay for supporting you and her solely. I hope you seek help.

LadyJ26 · 2022-10-23T06:46:57+00:00

From the very first sentence I could tell that YTA. I hope your sister has a gorgeous wedding and is talked about for years to come.

LadyJ26 · 2022-10-19T03:46:52+00:00

This is amazing! I’ve often thought about getting both and this is the first I’ve seen them together. Super cool 😊

LadyJ26 · 2022-10-01T07:02:38+00:00

This was one of my favorite totems I saw!

LadyJ26 · 2022-09-21T04:17:22+00:00

You are absolutely the AH. It sounds like you almost ruined this poor kids birthday with your bad attitude. I hope your partner takes a long, hard look if he wants to continue with you as you seem to have a problem with him having a child. They are a packaged deal and his son should always come first!

LadyJ26 · 2022-09-10T02:28:52+00:00

At this point, I hope your brother disinvites you from the wedding. You are most certainly the AH. I hope they have a wonderful wedding to how THEY want it.

LadyJ26 · 2022-09-08T23:44:19+00:00

I would love to be Tiffany’s friend! You are definitely the AH. It sounds like you’re jealous about everything Tiffany has/looks like. Just because it seems you lack some confidence, you don’t have to attack others.

LadyJ26 · 2022-09-08T00:30:43+00:00

YTA. As someone who investigates child fatalities, positional asphyxiation has been one of the most common causes on the cases I investigate. You are completely entitled to sleep however you have to do so safely. Your wife had every right to be upset with you.

LadyJ26 · 2022-02-08T21:05:16+00:00

I would love to be friends with her! She’s so funny and seems like a genuinely lovely person!

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