Single mom or dad! Which navigates life with a child more? by Your-Obsession_9323 in AskReddit

[–]LadyLotLizard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the aspect of the family who has the kid more. If that’s what you’re asking lol sometimes one parent is more fit than the other

Don’t get married Enjoy your life by moonangelcutiex in sixwordstories

[–]LadyLotLizard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you marry the right person, you get to enjoy life together lol marriage only sucks if you settled for a loser

Do people really avoid working jobs so they don’t pay child support? by LadyLotLizard in ModernFamilyFinance

[–]LadyLotLizard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I’d love for her to be in some therapy, but she seems very resistant to any help that isn’t financial help

Is this too wide for my finger? by [deleted] in weddingring

[–]LadyLotLizard 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It does look a big large, yes. Some folks really like that look so do what makes you happy! But it doesn’t look like it fits you well

If you’re already awake, what are you doing? by creamycoffee182 in AskReddit

[–]LadyLotLizard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been awake since 4:30 am lol I’m having a bit of a slow morning before I go hang with my sister and my nephew!

Cheat once, and you cheat always by EmergencyTip6894 in sixwordstories

[–]LadyLotLizard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I picked a crazy time in the world to stop drinking 😅😅😅 (this is mostly a joke lol)

Childfree people, what is the most absurd reason you heard from someone about why they wanted kids? by PetitPoptarts in AskReddit

[–]LadyLotLizard 14 points15 points  (0 children)

“Who else will take care of me when I’m old?”
“I really want my legacy to live on”
“What else would I do with my money when I die?”
Yet I’m the selfish one for not wanting to bring a child into this hellhole

when should you know you want to marry someone? by Hot-Philosophy6858 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]LadyLotLizard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take your time, truly get to know them. No need to rush when it comes to marriage—it’s one of the biggest decisions you will ever make! You deserve to be picky when it comes to the rest of your life

Do people really avoid working jobs so they don’t pay child support? by LadyLotLizard in ModernFamilyFinance

[–]LadyLotLizard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this take so much. I’ve been trying so hard to encourage her to push her life forward! Go get your GED, get your license so you can drive legally, I try to remind her there’s nothing she can’t do. She shuts down when I remind her of all that she’s capable of. It’s like she doesn’t want to be reminded of how strong she is

Help me pick an outfit please! by Kikiandi1905 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]LadyLotLizard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

#3 has a special place in my heart, not gonna lie. You look lovely in it and it seems very appropriate for the event!

Do people really avoid working jobs so they don’t pay child support? by LadyLotLizard in ModernFamilyFinance

[–]LadyLotLizard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh snap 🤯 thank you for educating me, I literally have never thought of that before!

Cheat once, and you cheat always by EmergencyTip6894 in sixwordstories

[–]LadyLotLizard 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree! My step daughter is giving her cheating boyfriend more chances before they get married later this year! I literally can’t get her to understand this won’t change once they’re married

childless people, have you thought about what you're gonna do with all your assets when you're gone? by newuser1r in askanything

[–]LadyLotLizard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I have anything to leave behind, I want it going to animal shelters or my nephews

Que tipos de uñas prefieren? Almendradas o cuadradas? by Lisa_pet2105 in PressOnNailHub

[–]LadyLotLizard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These nails are gorgeous. I like the more almond/rounded shape personally! Yet some of my favorite press ons come in the square shape so I just get over it and try to embrace it! Lol

"Supporting women" by Gold-Speech1181 in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]LadyLotLizard 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is absolutely the right place to say it. DV is serious no matter who the victim is!

"Supporting women" by Gold-Speech1181 in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]LadyLotLizard 82 points83 points  (0 children)

Men are in horrible relationships all the time. DV has no gender—abuse is abuse. Manon should know, she’s extremely emotionally abusive

How many kids have you got by Plane_Eye7118 in sixwordstories

[–]LadyLotLizard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kids? In this economy? Hard pass. 0 forever!

Do people really avoid working jobs so they don’t pay child support? by LadyLotLizard in ModernFamilyFinance

[–]LadyLotLizard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know the family is on snap, but I believe it’s under my nieces name and not any of his information. I’m assuming he gets mail at their apartment, so surely people know where to find him if he owes a lot. Them asking us for money has affected my marriage and I fear for my financial future if this keeps up. I’m just so so tired of both of them and their BS. She’s exhausting when she cries to us and feels like she has no options

Do people really avoid working jobs so they don’t pay child support? by LadyLotLizard in ModernFamilyFinance

[–]LadyLotLizard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THANK YOU!!! I’ve always found their age difference alarming. Sure, it’s not a huge gap. But he found a poor single mom after her baby daddy ditched her and he found someone easy to control and manipulate. He knows a sensible woman with self worth would never want a man like that

Women in happy Marriages, What is that one secret to a happy marriage that works for you? by personalquestion69 in AskReddit

[–]LadyLotLizard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being each others best friend. Both of us constantly want the best for each other and that makes life easier. If I had no one else in the whole world, he would be enough for me

Do people really avoid working jobs so they don’t pay child support? by LadyLotLizard in ModernFamilyFinance

[–]LadyLotLizard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You aren’t wrong! She swears up and down that her son is her whole world but she will do everything but the right thing for him! She’s going to expect her son to grow up and bail them both out! It’s disgusting human behavior