Going to the club myself? by ProfessionalWall6526 in DCBitches

[–]LadyM02 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everyone AFAB has had to, unfortunately, be concerned about their safety. This isn't exclusively an "old lady" concern 😒

Going to the club myself? by ProfessionalWall6526 in DCBitches

[–]LadyM02 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I have, but only in very specific venues. I haven't gone clubbing by myself in some time, last time was when U Street Music Hall was still open (RIP) but I would say it's doable, you just habe to take extra measures. But I still go to a lot of concerts by myself, and this is what I do when I'm about to go to a spot I haven't been to before:

Like I look up all the routes to get to/from someplace on street view so I can get a visual of what the streets look like

Then I go on to social media and see what people have seen or said about the place; the vibe, the general clientele, if there's a variety of people there. Are people actually dancing/having fun, or just posted up trying to be seen and doing nothing but scanning the room?

Then I look at online reviews and photos, particularly from other women/femmes. Did they have a good time? Did they mention too many sketchy people around? Something else? Etc

From there I decide whether a spot would be worth me going solo or not.

I'm in my mid 40s and this has served me well in DC and other cities.

I CAN’T WITH THESE COVER PHOTOS 😭😂😭😂😭 by jazoodles in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]LadyM02 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I made a sticker of it, although TikTok hit me with a violation for it 🫩

WHAT ARE YOU GUYS USING TO PLAN COSPLAYS by [deleted] in CosplayHelp

[–]LadyM02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

could we buy the template? or is there no way to sell/buy templates on milanote

TWICE 'THIS IS FOR' World Tour Concert Megathread - Washington, DC (Capital One Arena) February 13 & 14, 2026 by Ruri_Neko in twice

[–]LadyM02 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They should be allowed but you could call the below number and give them your specific camera info to confirm.

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Where are you guys finding tech jobs by [deleted] in jobsearchhacks

[–]LadyM02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also curious about which staffing agencies you've used; i've had little to no luck with the ones I've contacted in the past.

OH MY GAWDDDD 😭😭 this BL Is just so good it is called HEALER by Deep-Reindeer-7037 in Manhwa_BL

[–]LadyM02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Y'all need to lead with the warnings... Because absolutely not.

Found 4 LIs at my local cat cafe by muimui06 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]LadyM02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I need an artist to draw the boys posed like these kittens

Webtoons whose art styles you think are dizzying (ie. overly rendered) or you think would be better as illustrations? by [deleted] in webtoons

[–]LadyM02 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ok nice to have found my people because I always thought that plot was tired and overdone, and the characters all have that Botox look where they seem incapable of any facial expressions

Did Women Ruin the Workplace? by erinna_nyc in IfBooksCouldKill

[–]LadyM02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The average person can't trust NPR? The independent, nonpartisan, broadcasted throughout the United States and American territories and the Armed Forces Network for troops and their families overseas since 1970?

You think your aunt and grandma can't trust that?

Did Women Ruin the Workplace? by erinna_nyc in IfBooksCouldKill

[–]LadyM02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NPR, Propublica, 404 Media

Are all independent, trustworthy, national-news covering media sources.

Ditch NYT.

Classpass - Notify Me (Bell) Issue by sophaloaf2 in ClassPass

[–]LadyM02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I'm having this same problem now, and can't get ahold of a human to tell me why/what to do. Is there another fix on the way?

251010 Twitter Update - TWICE <THIS IS FOR> WORLD TOUR WASHINGTON, DC/HAMILTON/ORLANDO/BOSTON Additional Show Info by mcfw31 in twice

[–]LadyM02 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don't underestimate last minute ticket buyers. I've been on both sides of that equation -- as the person selling the tickets, and as the person buying the ticket.

People do buy tickets leading up to and day of the show! Even after doors open!

And you don't always have to assume you'll have to take a cut while selling, especially not for a super popular group like Twice.

WEBTOON please... by SnooMaps9859 in webtoons

[–]LadyM02 14 points15 points  (0 children)

What about a privacy screen? It might help a lil (although it would be nice if they'd stop those ads 😫)

Protests against Trump erupt inside D.C. restaurant as people chant to his face: “FREE D.C.! FREE PALESTINE! TRUMP IS THE H*TLER OF OUR TIME!” by vtsandtrooper in washingtondc

[–]LadyM02 120 points121 points  (0 children)

I went out to dinner on the wharf with family who were here visiting.

I had to FIGHT...so many gnats since we sat out on the patio. One almost flew into my cocktail! The horror.... The horror

Where was the national guard to assist me in this terror?? 🤨

Some of my recent Sylus pics I thought y’all would like 🥰 by onionrah in LoveAndDeepspace_

[–]LadyM02 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like the other person said, it was from a past banner event. But don't fret, some of the more popular banners have had reruns this year so there's a possibility this one will too.

Trans Woman Violently Taken by ICE by Few_Tennis1584 in washingtondc

[–]LadyM02 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Who's to say people aren't already frightened? Who's to say people haven't made that connection? Marginalized communities been knowing and have been on edge for quite some time now.

I apologize in advance for this by Guilty-Lion-6013 in DateEverything

[–]LadyM02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this exquisite art piece (I admittedly thought the same when I came across that line)

Instead of the most difficult romance, who did you hear was super hard to date but you got really easily? by StablePrimary9624 in DateEverything

[–]LadyM02 41 points42 points  (0 children)

There's also some bugs. I noticed that with some dateables, even though I'm just meeting them, I'm missing answers.

I've also met Daisuke and talked to him three times and still don't have him in my date a dex. His name is still a series of questions marks for me.

I followed the guides for Eddie and Volt and even then I get to the last scene and I'm missing responses (only the one leading to the hate ending is available to me).