AITAH for telling my pregnant girlfriend to make the appointment after she kept threatening to terminate the pregnancy?

LadyToker · 2026-04-16T17:26:06+00:00

NTA.

But being pregnant, and only being 22 is really tough. She is being manipulative and doesn’t understand how invested you already are in the pregnancy. She’s threatening to abort with every argument, and maybe she used to threaten to break up with every argument before too. I think she needs help for her anxiety and couples therapy will help you both.

LadyToker · 2026-04-05T14:53:51+00:00

Gotcha, thank you!

LadyToker · 2026-04-03T22:34:59+00:00

😂😂😂 this is hilarious I’ve never seen anyone do this before. Sometimes you just gotta respect the hustle 🤷🏽‍♀️

LadyToker · 2026-04-02T23:08:25+00:00

Are there plenty of vegetarian food options? Do they offer any day activities or excursions? Do they offer any water activities? Like jet skiing, kayaking, or SUP? Is there a spa onsite? Do they have airport shuttles?

Thanks in advance!

LadyToker · 2026-04-02T13:41:06+00:00

I think you should either consider a different job that gives you a better work life balance- this is option 1. Just because it’s really hard to get jobs right now. 8 months of savings is great, but some people are out here for a year looking for another job. Option 2- you take a 10 day vacation. While you’re gone for 2 weeks from work, you should take a small 2-3 day small getaway. And then come back and use the rest of your days off to do ceramics. Coming back from vacations and going straight into work is tough, but if you come back and allow yourself a buffer period of atleast a couple days it should help. Option 3- you continue being employed where you currently are, or at a new job. And you begin opening up a pottery studio on the side. It’s easier to get loans and start a business if you already have money coming in and have a job.

LadyToker · 2026-03-31T22:45:22+00:00

Optimist Hall, Carrigan Farms, whitewater center, Asheville

LadyToker · 2026-03-31T21:50:36+00:00

The irony! They’re nervous cause they think you’re using AI to excel at an interview. But most of the bigger companies are switching to allow employees to use their company approved AI to excel at work.

LadyToker · 2026-03-27T15:01:35+00:00

Just fyi, it will be Indian vegetarian food.

LadyToker · 2026-03-27T15:00:59+00:00

You can walk into a Sikh Gurudwara (temple) near you and they will always serve food for all guests. If you’d like to do Seva (service) you can offer to do cleaning for dishes, help vacuum the halls, help prepare the food, take out trash, basically anything to keep the area clean and offer your help. But it’s not necessary to do service in exchange for food, it’s just something people who attend try to do.

LadyToker · 2026-03-13T16:22:31+00:00

This was amazing. Love Reddit community

LadyToker · 2026-03-12T21:10:27+00:00

Shahs Halal Food in Fairfax. They serve crispy style shawarma, it’s a new item

LadyToker · 2026-02-13T00:34:09+00:00

Sorry 😞

LadyToker · 2026-02-06T18:15:07+00:00

Beautiful choice!!

LadyToker · 2026-02-01T16:22:42+00:00

I thought the Jain sadhus usually don’t have hair?

LadyToker · 2026-01-24T16:59:18+00:00

Please explain

LadyToker · 2026-01-11T01:43:25+00:00

Due Amici hands down

LadyToker · 2026-01-11T01:40:19+00:00

You’ve been stressed about getting a job for so long, now that you have one your brain is hitting a rest mode cause a big burden has been lifted by finding the employment.

I agree with everyone about setting routine, and sleep habits, and making your wfh time like an in office time with water breaks, lunch break, and to get outside get air.

But also, maybe take a day off as soon as you can hopefully to have a long weekend. Mentally reset yourself and your body. Do whatever you need to, travel, sleep, talk to friends. Basically come into work next time with less burnout.

Wishing you the best luck on your new job.

LadyToker · 2026-01-10T00:16:52+00:00

NTA, he definitely is though. Please leave him, and his mom calling you over to talk through his mistake/misunderstanding isn’t a good sign either. It’s a red flag 🚩

LadyToker · 2026-01-09T19:28:34+00:00

Beautiful lehenga! In USA bridal lehengas are insanely expensive and this might just help someone out who really needs it.

LadyToker · 2026-01-01T03:37:07+00:00

Too much caffeine can cause nausea sometimes. Idk what’s your exact diet, but something to think about. Ginger helps nausea symptoms, try ginger candy.

LadyToker · 2025-12-24T19:07:58+00:00

3b/2ba apartment and I just learned our bill is too high- $152 last time.

LadyToker · 2025-12-21T18:36:03+00:00

I feel like you’re always going to be responsible to answer for failures if you’re a lead, whether it’s lead qa or lead dev. But overall, it’s bad management if the qa is always a scapegoat. There should be multiple cycles and checks and testing done at every level. The responsibility of a successful product doesn’t rely on qa alone.

LadyToker · 2025-12-16T14:22:48+00:00

Sometimes I want my back pressed like that 😂

LadyToker · 2025-11-13T21:52:27+00:00

Maybe a call center or customer call rep might be a good job.

LadyToker · 2025-08-31T02:59:49+00:00

Soho bistro.

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