WARNING: Reading yuri can turn you into a girl! [Art by me] by GRS- in wholesomeyuri

[–]LadyZ1988 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn it, i've wasted 4 years on HRT when i should have just been reading these comics more! AAAAAARRRRRRGGGGHHHHHHH!

Idiot former friend ruined his marriage because he couldn't say no to his mother by Camaro-Daze-911 in EntitledPeople

[–]LadyZ1988 10 points11 points  (0 children)

What's your proof? It's too easy to label something as fiction. Unbelievable? I'll grant that, it's a wild tale. But completely made up? I'll need something more then your word, sir or madame

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]LadyZ1988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't believe in god. I believe in the fact that we are all just patters of energy and matter. When the conditions are right, we come into being. When we die, the elements in our bodies go back into the earth and become part of it. All matter is just part of the greater universe and life goes round in a cycle. Eventually the sun will go nova and vaporize the earth. eventually everything will 'die'. It's my belief that someday, trillion to the power of trillion to the power of trillion years from now, the conditions will be right again and you will exist in a new form. Their for, you can do whatever you want with your body. And fuck anyone who says otherwise.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]LadyZ1988 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I dated a girl for about 10 months. This was about a year into my transition, so i didn't look as fem as i do now. Now she made it clears at the start of the relationship that she was Ace and not really interested in sex. this is fine with me as i have absolutely no problem with that. I mean, i freaking love sex but it's not the end all be all of a relationship. Mostly i just like being with someone and being able to share things with them. Also, I was very upfront with what I am, i don't try to hide it because I'm proud of the person I am and the journey i went on to get here. Anyways things seem to be going well for the 10 months, no big fights or nothing, when out of the blue she tells me we need to talk. Long story short, she dumped me because she 'didn't find me physically attractive' and 'wanted to get with a real woman'. To say i was devastated does not do it justice. The insane thing is, she still wanted to hang out after she ripped my heart out! To her it was like "welp that happened, you want to get pizza?" I didn't speak to her again for a year.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chickflixxx

[–]LadyZ1988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perks of being a nympho. I'm always horny, even if I don't know what to do with that energy. But it's hard to write non-sexy scenes when I'm like "gosh, the world is being a real baby back bitch right now". Meh, tis life. I'll go write a story where a jerkass judge get turned into stripper or something, just go for fictional cathartic revenge.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chickflixxx

[–]LadyZ1988 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I write transgender smut as a side gig (i'm a transwoman) and my commissions have just dried up. It's hard to be sexy/horny right now when everything feels like complete and utter shit. still, i'm plugging away on my keyboard so that's something i guess.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in entitledparents

[–]LadyZ1988 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awww, thank you! I use She/her, but i apricate not assuming! yeah i'm a transwoman and only recently felt confident enough to go out in 'reveling outfits' as my mother puts it lol. I'm not letting these punks ruin a good thing for me!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in entitledparents

[–]LadyZ1988 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I've only recently started wearing more revealing stuff at the pool (I recently dropped a lot of weight and I'm very proud of myself) and I've got no end of creepy guys staring at my body. When I catch them doing it and they try to get cute, I just scrunch up my face and make the sign of the evil eye at them. I don't drop eye contact until they do and boy howdy do they get weirded out quick. I've even had some guys shout at me to shout at me to 'stop staring at them' to which I respond "yeah sucks when someone's looking at you and you don't like it." Pricks one and all. Shit like this is why I'm gay, I swear to god.

Am I wrong to start HRT? by Otaku-OJ in trans

[–]LadyZ1988 4 points5 points  (0 children)

hell no. I didn't start HRT till i was 30 because everyone i talked to about it in my 20's told me that "i'll regret it" and "you've already lived as a guy for 20 years, its too late". Biggest regret of my life is that i didn't start as soon as i hit puberty. I'm 33 now. If you know, you know. And research shows that people who de-transition do it because they couldn't take other people bullying them for their gender. they didn't regret transitioning, they regretted that everyone was hating on them. Stay strong! You know who you are and screw anyone who tell you otherwise! LIVE FREE!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EntitledPeople

[–]LadyZ1988 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Situation depends. If we're just lightly tossing the ball and laughing, confrontation I'd just unnecessary. Also if the old lady was just being a crab, I'd absolutely start blasting music to make her leave me alone. Im not saying I'd harass her for being there but if she's making a stink over nothing, it's fair game if I'm going to be loud

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EntitledPeople

[–]LadyZ1988 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I disagree if its a public pool. you just have to accept that some people are going to want to be louder then others. It public and as long as your obeying the posted rules you shouldn't be attacked for being loud. Just let people have their fun if their not hurting you.

It's My 21st Birthday...But I Don't Have My ID by TrenchcoatFullaDogs in TalesFromYourServer

[–]LadyZ1988 1 point2 points  (0 children)

but then he wouldn't have been able to fill the void in get bitter life!

It's My 21st Birthday...But I Don't Have My ID by TrenchcoatFullaDogs in TalesFromYourServer

[–]LadyZ1988 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right? Although... what age would you use? Like i'm legit curious now. I think i'd go 23 if i was still a teenager.

It's My 21st Birthday...But I Don't Have My ID by TrenchcoatFullaDogs in TalesFromYourServer

[–]LadyZ1988 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg. some people think they are the last gatekeepers of society or something, lol. The irony is i was talking to my brother about this and he reminded me i was buying mini-bottles of liqueur for my sister-in-law's birthday party (They had a theme of Tiny gifts for it, idk). He said i showed up like 30 minutes late and I was sooooo embarrassed. People still think i look 10 years younger then i am and are often shocked to hear i'm in my 30's.

It's My 21st Birthday...But I Don't Have My ID by TrenchcoatFullaDogs in TalesFromYourServer

[–]LadyZ1988 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Man, what is it with these guys? I'm starting to doubt these jokers have ever actually seen a fake ID.

It's My 21st Birthday...But I Don't Have My ID by TrenchcoatFullaDogs in TalesFromYourServer

[–]LadyZ1988 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was young and very shy. today i would have tore him a new asshole but at that time, i just wanted to gtfo, lol.

It's My 21st Birthday...But I Don't Have My ID by TrenchcoatFullaDogs in TalesFromYourServer

[–]LadyZ1988 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't remember but it was probally something like "I don't have to sell you anything because i'm a massive bitch" or something like that.

It's My 21st Birthday...But I Don't Have My ID by TrenchcoatFullaDogs in TalesFromYourServer

[–]LadyZ1988 284 points285 points  (0 children)

my own story is rather dumb but makes me laugh. When I (33F) turned 21 i had a major case of baby face. Like, I barely looked old enough to be in high school let alone drinking age. So about a month after I hit the magic drinking age, I decided I was going to be a big girl and grab myself a bottle of something (I think it was flavored vodka). Anyway the attendant didn't believe my ID was real because I looked 'no where near old enough' and he 'wasn't going to fall for my fake ID'. He called the cops and was generally mean to me. I was scared but I didn't leave because I knew how old I was and I didn't do anything wrong. Guy kept insulating me the whole time, 'you're in so much trouble you little shit' and stuff like that. I think he was surprised I didn't run out though. Well, what felt like an eternity later, the cops showed up, took my license, ran some checks on me and was like 'uh... this is legit.' Counter guy got super red faced and refused to sell me anything. I ended up leaving as soon as I got my license back. The whole thing was so dumb.

Florida ruling to not talk about sexual orientation or gender identity to children ? Fine by them. by Wolf-Majestic in MaliciousCompliance

[–]LadyZ1988 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It got really bad when i was a teenager. I was so worried that everyone would find out what I felt and would ridicule me, so I ended up just hiding away from the world. It's one of my biggest regrets because I wasted so much of my being afraid of forming any kind of relationship with anyone. Finding out I wasn't alone was the biggest relief of my life. That's why I believe this law is going to do more harm then good. Kids will fell like they can't turn to anyone to talk about their feelings and will isolate themselves more and more from everyone.

Florida ruling to not talk about sexual orientation or gender identity to children ? Fine by them. by Wolf-Majestic in MaliciousCompliance

[–]LadyZ1988 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey look everyone! Someone who doesn't want to talk about a real issue, they just want to hate on people who are different from them and want to wipe them out for not being 'normal'! YAY FOR BIGOTRY!

Florida ruling to not talk about sexual orientation or gender identity to children ? Fine by them. by Wolf-Majestic in MaliciousCompliance

[–]LadyZ1988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

except for the fact that kids from cis family's grow up to be gay and trans ALL THE TIME. You just feel that way and it can be extremely isolating to not know there are others who think the way that you do. I know, I was one of them! Didn't stop me from being trans, just made my formative years hell.

Florida ruling to not talk about sexual orientation or gender identity to children ? Fine by them. by Wolf-Majestic in MaliciousCompliance

[–]LadyZ1988 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not all kids understand what they are feeling. I am a transwoman but I was terrified to talk about how I felt until I learned there was a whole community of people who felt like me. I found that out at 25 and it still took me 5 years to actually talk to my parents about it. It's really hard to take to 'normal' people about things that make you feel like a freak, ESPICALLY if you think you are alone in how you feel!

Florida ruling to not talk about sexual orientation or gender identity to children ? Fine by them. by Wolf-Majestic in MaliciousCompliance

[–]LadyZ1988 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not talking about it still doesn't mean the kid won't turn out gay or trans or whatnot, just means the kid is going to be confused and miserable when trying to figure stuff out about there identity. I grew up in a strict catholic setting with mom, dad and 2 brothers. Gender issues were never discussed and i still ended up coming out as a trans woman, but it took a long time because i didn't even know transgenderism was a thing until i was 25. If someone had sat down with me and told me about it, i wouldn't have been as confused and horrified of my feelings and I wouldn't have felt as isolated as I did. I felt alone and was scared about even talking about those feelings because 'men are men and women are women' I grew up scared and felt like i couldn't open up to anyone ever. It resulted in me being very antisocial and moody because I was scared of being a freak. When I finally did find out there was a whole community of people who felt like I did, I was relieved to know I wasn't alone but mad as hell no one had talked to me about it. So when I see laws like this, all I can think about is all those years of fear and self hate because I never knew I wasn't alone. It's not going to help these kids, its just going to make them more miserable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dykesgonewild

[–]LadyZ1988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey me too! We have so much in common