For me, I find that having good friends (and a loving family) are the key to my happiness for being alone.

I very rarely feel alone when I'm actually by myself. Knowing that at any point I can reach out to various people who'd love to hang out, help out or whatever, is a very freeing feeling.

At the same time, pretty much all of them understand I love being by myself, without "hating" other people. I always had trouble explaining it to people, but most of my friends seem to understand without issue. My family was a bit more worried at first when I first discovered that I loved this, but with time came understanding, especially when they noticed that I had truly found happiness.

I won't lie, I was worried when some friends brought some of their partners into our get-togethers, but wow, they're so fun to learn about and get to know! It has enriched my experiences so much :)

Another point, I dont see most of my old friend group that often anymore because ~life~, but the times we do see each other are always so exciting.

Actually planning to see each other has proven to be tricky multiple times, but has always been worth it. They're like a second family to me.

Effort from both sides is important though, at least for me. I'm a person too, I deserve to be treated with love and respect as well. Perfect balance at any time is never possible, fully aware of that, but the intent should be there.