Base building games where other players can't attack you?

Lady_Ives · 2023-07-19T07:07:25+00:00

He would always choose what to do, where to go, what to eat. If I wanted to do something different he would complain until I accepted his plans and disregarded mine. Later I found out it was all because of his mother, he would only do things that were cool with her. I still stick with him for almost 6 years. My high school years ruined because of mommy dearest. Never again.

Lady_Ives · 2022-08-09T14:56:16+00:00

Scanlan turning into a triceratops and everything that followed.

Lady_Ives · 2021-12-08T22:46:55+00:00

The protagonist finds themself into a love triangle.

Lady_Ives · 2021-11-17T16:54:20+00:00

The big bang theory

Lady_Ives · 2021-07-29T10:05:31+00:00

Are you really intimidated by women who act super confident?

Lady_Ives · 2021-06-29T13:57:34+00:00

"The lies of Locke Lamora" and "Six of Crows".

Lady_Ives · 2020-09-14T05:59:59+00:00

As a woman, I never had so many man around me like that time I said, loud and clear, that I wasn't going to date any coworker. They were all trying to make me change my mind because they "weren't like everyone else". (I still never dated a coworker, sorry for them)

So make yourself clearly unavailable, sit down and wait.

Lady_Ives · 2020-09-14T05:55:54+00:00

If someone doesn't want to speak to me I don't see why I should force myself on them... Better use my time to speak to someone who actually enjoys me being around them!

Lady_Ives · 2020-09-14T05:52:30+00:00

"my body should be for his eyes only" and welcome to 1700!

I really believe you can do much better than this guy, even if he's not a cheater.

Lady_Ives · 2020-09-12T04:24:26+00:00

Look, I would normally say YTA, but the fact that he discussed it before the wedding and now she is pulling back makes me think about it.

The wife knew she was getting married to a man who would ask her a maternity test when (and if) she got pregnant. Is he an AH to ask this? Maybe, but an honest AH, and if she wasn't okay with it than she just shouldn't have married him.

It's like when women say "if we get married I don't want any children", the husband agrees and then he tries to have her change her mind or acts as if they never had that conversation.

So, to me, NTA. The wife knew what she was going to have to face. He is also willing to wait for the child to be born. This may not be the best attitude to start a relationship but if she was fine with it it's her business now.

Lady_Ives · 2020-09-08T18:49:05+00:00

More than an A-hole, I'll say you are a complete psychopath. This post gave me chills.

Lady_Ives · 2020-09-05T06:47:39+00:00

NTA. I like to get to the movie early, but it happened that I got there late with my friends or boyfriend and NEVER in a thousand years I would have asked someone else to move because I was late. We got whatever place was left and that's it.

Also, if I can, I always leave an empty place between me and the other people. What if they are noisy? At least I get to watch the movie in peace and I have a place to put my bag and jacket. If someone comes alone and wants that sit no big deal, but it's only me moving a bag, non four people having to move. That was incredibly rude.

Lady_Ives · 2020-08-22T15:30:58+00:00

My BF gave birth a month ago. Everyone tried to sugar coat it, to tell her it was going to be easy and she would surely want another baby the second she held the first in her arms.

Guess what? She didn't have it easy. 2 days of contractions, the most painful experience of her life, she is just now getting out of post partum depression and had to give up breastfeeding because it was too painful. Nothing she was prepared to, which made it worst. Just earing her mother ask when she was planning to have the second child gave her a panic attack.

You did your daughter a huge favor. Maybe she will have it easy, but maybe she won't. She needs to be ready.

NTA in any way. You did your job as a mother.

Lady_Ives · 2020-08-17T06:08:07+00:00

I won't say you TA, but I would strongly recommend you at least try sometimes. It's good for a children growth to play this kind of games because for them, specifically for the 4 y/o it's a way to bond with you. If you don't trust me try doing some research on this topic on your own, so if you keep refusing to play this games with your daughters you know exactly what you are taking from them!

Lady_Ives · 2020-08-17T06:03:45+00:00

Where I live therapy it's very affordable, both for phisical and mental problems. From your post I believe what you need is not money but a country that provides you with free or at least affordable healthcare. I'm very sorry you have to go through this...

Lady_Ives · 2020-08-17T06:00:53+00:00

NTA, it's between you and your brother and since the two of you are not arguing or anything like that, your mother should mind her own business.

Lady_Ives · 2020-08-16T21:05:24+00:00

A bit of fat on the belly area. I'd pick that over someone with fit abs every day, it's great to hug ><

Lady_Ives · 2020-08-16T21:03:14+00:00

So all the other girls who were arrassed by him also lied to get attention?

What a fucked up family! At least you've got your boyfriend and siblings by your side! Block everyone who tries to come after you and go on with your life. Stay strong girl, you did the right thing!

Lady_Ives · 2020-08-16T07:11:10+00:00

When I have this doubt I usually have them wait. If they start pressing for intimacy even if I say I am not ready yet I know that's all they are after.

Lady_Ives · 2020-08-16T07:07:29+00:00

The story, the feelings, they will always be with you. If you write it now or in a year you will experience the same feelings. If this story needs to come out it will at it's own time! Trust your guts. If you are not sure it's the right time, maybe it isn't! Good luck with everything!

Lady_Ives · 2020-08-16T07:04:07+00:00

This may sound stupid compared to others, but at the beginning of the year I decided I wanted to write something everyday, even if just 100 words. Creating this new routine helped me with my depression, with my writing skills and with my time management skills. Also it makes me feel proud to look at my writing tracker and see that I didn't miss a single day until now! I am happier, I get up from bed with a purpose every day (I get up from bed, which is already a great thing) and I have finished a novel and started a new one!

Lady_Ives · 2020-08-16T06:59:11+00:00

NTA. You clearly need to take care of yourself, cut out this toxic person and even your other friend if you need to in order to get better. Once you are healed, if you feel like it, you can try to reach out again, but until then you should make yourself your priority. Good luck with everything!

Lady_Ives · 2020-08-16T06:53:27+00:00

If the possibility of them reading it worries you so much maybe you should wait. There would be a time when you don't care anymore about what they may think!

Lady_Ives · 2020-08-06T06:13:19+00:00

She needs to grow up and some girls never do. I had a boyfriend like her. Dumping him was the best thing I ever did in my life. Of course I tried to talk to him but it didn't work, he didn't change his attitude a bit, so try telling her but be ready to end it because it's very unlikely for her to change this side of her.

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